My Work Crush

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    Nov 15, 2010 2:41 AM GMT
    My crush right now is this guy at work - he caught my eye the first few times I saw him around but I thought nothing of it. Last month my department went through some shuffling and he moved onto my team. He's my age (23), also a uconn graduate, funny and very smart. And I'm painfully attracted to him. He's shorter (maybe 5' 8" or so) than I'm usually attracted to but seeing him makes me smile.

    So anyway working in direct contact with him now we've become very friendly. We even hung out once outside of work in a group setting. We went to the casino and got back at 5 am - he said I could stay over his place since i had a long ride home...and i said no for some reason??

    I know there's nothing wrong with having a crush, especially one that makes you smile and makes your day better. It's just the first time this has ever really happened to me in liking a (95% sure) straight guy. He does message me on facebook, goes out of his way to talk to me, and has asked me when we're hanging out again. I know he's single but I don't know how to approach it (if at all). He doesn't know I'm gay either.

    Should I try to hang out with him just the two of us? To watch a uconn basketball game or something? I just don't want to make a fool of myself at the end of the day and misread him. Anyone been caught in a similar situation?
  • cromi

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    Nov 15, 2010 3:06 AM GMT
    CTguy1 said
    he said I could stay over his place since i had a long ride home...and i said no for some reason??


    *sigh*
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    Nov 15, 2010 3:35 AM GMT
    im in a similar situation with a friend of 5 years. he keeps dropping crazy hints and for some reason i just can further the situation... i d k why...

    he was even spending the night at a gay guys house over the summer.

    and he told me he has a "big secret" to tell me...

    and he slept in my bed with me all drunk a couple weeks ago during my halloween party....

    just dont know how to have teh conversation