Nov 16, 2010 6:31 AM GMT
So im dating this guy. ive known him for years. he doesnt want anyone to know we're dating, because he says that people will have outside influences on our relationship. I guess i can understand that. Then the other day we were talking and he has like a little moment of personal crisis and he tell mes i shud keep my options open, because im likely to find someone better than him. What I eventually got out of him is that he wants me to keep my options open because hes doing the same thing. Im a monogamous man, how i'm wired. I learned from my parents many mistakes. He is not really the monogamous type, least as far as it concerns me. He's been monogamous with other guys. I'm wondering why he doesnt want that with me. he's a great guy. Shud i keep my options open or stick with him and see what happens?