How do you recognize in the beginning of a relationship with a gay dude if you are going to be friends, couple, or sex buddies?

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    Nov 16, 2010 6:34 PM GMT
    I Always have that problem.. you Never Know what the other person want.. is easier to a straight guy.. he is friend with guys and the other things with girls... in our case.. how do you handle those kind of situations? and how do you realize what would be your relationship with the new guy?
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    Nov 16, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    get nekkid, climb into a bed and see what happens (or doesn't)!
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    Nov 16, 2010 7:48 PM GMT
    rnch saidget nekkid, climb into a bed and see what happens (or doesn't)!


    Or the opposite... go for a coffee and see if you actually get along with each other
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    Nov 16, 2010 7:51 PM GMT
    Lostboy said
    rnch saidget nekkid, climb into a bed and see what happens (or doesn't)!


    Or the opposite... go for a coffee and see if you actually get along with each other



    and THEN

    get nekkid...climb into a bed..and see what happens (or doesn't)!
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    Nov 16, 2010 8:42 PM GMT
    Ask a Magic 8 Ball!
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:41 PM GMT
    So no solution!? you have to try to sleep with him and if it doesn't work out then you know you are gonna be friends? :S:S lol
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:52 PM GMT
    rnch said
    Lostboy said
    rnch saidget nekkid, climb into a bed and see what happens (or doesn't)!


    Or the opposite... go for a coffee and see if you actually get along with each other



    and THEN

    get nekkid...climb into a bed..and see what happens (or doesn't)!



    Ahaha! words of wisdom!!
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:53 PM GMT
    1. Figure out what you want from him.

    2. Ask him if he wants the same.

    3. ???

    4. Profit (or loss).

    Easy
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    Nov 17, 2010 11:50 PM GMT
    After courting a guy for a while you should get the message after a while.