So I met a guy today...sort of...

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    Nov 17, 2010 9:44 PM GMT
    He's in my accounting class, and I always got a bit of a vibe from him, but evidently my gaydar had been EMP'd and I couldn't ever get a good read.

    anyway, I'm sitting in the advisor's office about to get told what to take next semester and he walks in and sits in a chair that is in front of an office directly across from where I'm sitting. It's a big room, with some couches and chairs in the middle.

    Our eyes meet, and he gives me a wave, but it's more like a miss america wave. It made me crack up.

    I get done and get ready to leave and he's using the entrance only door (that I was going to leave through as well) and I say "hey, that say entrance only you know" and we both leave and start chatting about the class we have together.

    he says something along the lines of "maybe I should give you my number if you want to study or anything", and we exchange numbers and chat a little bit more before he has to go to class.


    Miss America wave and everything, and I'm still on the fence. Is he just eccentric? is he just one of those guys that does weird things for the sake of being weird?

    I dunno, but we exchanged numbers and he made a comment about being a texting freak, so I'm expecting at least one tonight, if not I might text him tomorrow and see what's up. He was pretty cute, so if we can hang out a few times and me get a good read on him, we'll see what happens.

    I'm pretty excited, lol.
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    Nov 17, 2010 9:57 PM GMT
    sometimes I miss the excitement of the dance...good for you.
    Text him first with some of your sardonic wit.
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:11 PM GMT
    Just ask him if he's gay or not.. why waste time?
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:16 PM GMT
    TropicalMark saidJust ask him if he's gay or not.. why waste time?

    Corrected.

    Miss America wave? I've never done one of those...
    Do you mean a Mister Hanky wave?
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:19 PM GMT
    A1EX said
    TropicalMark saidJust ask him if he's gay or not.. why waste time?

    Corrected.

    Miss America wave? I've never done one of those...
    Do you mean a Mister Hanky wave?
    Thanks.. working on 4 things at the same time here on the puter....
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:45 PM GMT
    Ooo new After School Special, keep us posted! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 17, 2010 10:49 PM GMT
    I would just ask outright, but if you feel like he might not be out, or on the fence about it right now. Then I would get a better feel for it first before going straight to gay. Or maybe even get to know him a little before deciding you may be interested in dating him.

    Who knows maybe you met a good friend
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    Nov 17, 2010 11:07 PM GMT
    You know what, you never know. My gaydar sucks as well. Unless the guy gives me that "I wanna have sex with you RIGHT NOW" kinda look lol.



    But one day, I had to go to the police station and one of the cops happened to be at my high school (I kinda knew him). He changed a lot, and to be honest he became REALLY hot.
    So at some point, he gave me his number. But it was more like "hey, call me if you ever need help again, it'll be better than calling 911 you know?". So i was like "sure" as he was just being nice, you know.

    Well a week later, I found out that he's been obsessed about me ever since he saw me and that he was gay. (He actually used his "cop position" to track my number LOL cause I never called him back.)

    He kept being obsessed for 4 months. And it's funny cause at first I was really fantasizing about him cause you know, you just got mugged, you feel kinda vulnerable, so having a hot cop as your boyfriend would obviously be like THE BEST remedy haha.



    ANYHOW, the point is : you never know icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 18, 2010 1:12 AM GMT
    xoVS saidYou know what, you never know. My gaydar sucks as well. Unless the guy gives me that "I wanna have sex with you RIGHT NOW" kinda look lol.



    But one day, I had to go to the police station and one of the cops happened to be at my high school (I kinda knew him). He changed a lot, and to be honest he became REALLY hot.
    So at some point, he gave me his number. But it was more like "hey, call me if you ever need help again, it'll be better than calling 911 you know?". So i was like "sure" as he was just being nice, you know.

    Well a week later, I found out that he's been obsessed about me ever since he saw me and that he was gay. (He actually used his "cop position" to track my number LOL cause I never called him back.)

    He kept being obsessed for 4 months. And it's funny cause at first I was really fantasizing about him cause you know, you just got mugged, you feel kinda vulnerable, so having a hot cop as your boyfriend would obviously be like THE BEST remedy haha.



    ANYHOW, the point is : you never know icon_smile.gif



    what happened later? I want to know....
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    Nov 18, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
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    xoVS saidYou know what, you never know. My gaydar sucks as well. Unless the guy gives me that "I wanna have sex with you RIGHT NOW" kinda look lol.



    But one day, I had to go to the police station and one of the cops happened to be at my high school (I kinda knew him). He changed a lot, and to be honest he became REALLY hot.
    So at some point, he gave me his number. But it was more like "hey, call me if you ever need help again, it'll be better than calling 911 you know?". So i was like "sure" as he was just being nice, you know.

    Well a week later, I found out that he's been obsessed about me ever since he saw me and that he was gay. (He actually used his "cop position" to track my number LOL cause I never called him back.)

    He kept being obsessed for 4 months. And it's funny cause at first I was really fantasizing about him cause you know, you just got mugged, you feel kinda vulnerable, so having a hot cop as your boyfriend would obviously be like THE BEST remedy haha.



    ANYHOW, the point is : you never know icon_smile.gif



    what happened later? I want to know....


    serious, this thread is now about you having hot cop bondage sex.

    details please.
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    Nov 18, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    I didn't wanna steal your thunder but if you insist ... Lol

    Turns out I realized he was the same guy from high school. He had a weird personality back then, and was kinda creepy and weird. He asked me out a lot but I never accepted. He even wanted to leave his boyfriend for me. He kept trying to contact me for 4 months until I explained him that I wasn't interested. Yeah the end of the story is unexpected lol. I guess it is THAT hard to get with me lol.

    (Talking about this made me wonder ... What if he saw the pictures of me in the slutty cop outfit? He would totally call me right away haha)
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    Nov 18, 2010 3:36 PM GMT
    xoVS saidI didn't wanna steal your thunder but if you insist ... Lol

    Turns out I realized he was the same guy from high school. He had a weird personality back then, and was kinda creepy and weird. He asked me out a lot but I never accepted. He even wanted to leave his boyfriend for me. He kept trying to contact me for 4 months until I explained him that I wasn't interested. Yeah the end of the story is unexpected lol. I guess it is THAT hard to get with me lol.

    (Talking about this made me wonder ... What if he saw the pictures of me in the slutty cop outfit? He would totally call me right away haha)



    awwwww, anti climactic.
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    Nov 20, 2010 3:39 AM GMT
    so, here's my little story.


    today I was sitting in the halls of one of the buildings, waiting to take a test.

    after reading a post of JakeBenson's, I decided to nut up and not beat around the bush.

    I sent him a text-

    "hey, I needed to ask you a question"
    "ok"
    "alright, don't take this the wrong way, and if it's not the case this is the last you'll hear of it...Are you gay or bi? Because you're kind of cute and I don't really want to beat around the bush with it."
    "damnit I am gay, but I'm going to start seeing a guy. and you're cute too. you suck! you said you had a girlfriend icon_razz.gif But yeah, gay as hell"
    "Haha! well, that sucks. yea I have a girlfriend, but she is cool. she's actually pushing me to find a boyfriend. So, Gay as hell huh?"




    it goes on.
    He tells me how hot he thinks I am, and that I have horrible timing because he has a guy coming up tonight from out of town who could be a potential boyfriend, and that he's never had a boyfriend before.

    we talk about maybe hanging out before potential boyfriend shows up for the weekend, and plans change about five times due to my schedule, and we finally meet up around 5:00, and I head to his apartment.

    This is an apartment done by the school, so it's pretty much a dorm. We go into his room (rommate is gone) and start talking. He's being real handsy, and I'm enjoying it.

    I say something cheeky like "so you like bigger guys, eh?" and he smiles and starts holding onto me, rubbing my stomach through my shirt and then pulls it up a bit. Eventually he pulls me down to the bed and straddles me, and we start kissing. His shirt comes off and somehow so does mine. we kiss more...he has a thing for nipples. He kisses me and nibbles them quite a lot.

    He gets down to his boxers and straddles me again, and we continue the kissing. I start rubbing his cock through his boxers, and I can already feel his precum soaking the cloth where I'm rubbing his head.

    he gets naked and says something cute about taking off his boxers, and we go back to the straddling and kissing, with me stroking him when I can. (god I have forgotten how much I love touching other guys. I really hope things work out for me....) He kisses my neck, moves down to my tattoo and starts going down my stomach and I unbuckle my belt and pull down my jeans and he starts sucking me off. Wow. He's good. He's so excited, I can feel his body tensing and shaking the whole bed. He's grinding himself against the bed, and god it's fucking hot.

    Eventually, I sit up and pull him towards me...We are now sitting up, kissing, and his cock sitting on top of mine, is balls are nice and full and I can feel them bouncing on top of me while I stroke him, and ask him if wants to come for me. He smiles and says yes, and I start stroking him faster

    AND THEN MY PHONE RINGS


    it's my girlfriend, and the plans that we were having to change everything for have happened. We were relying on her brother to let us know when we had to leave and of course, we don't know until the last minute.

    It took so much for me to get dressed. We kept kissing, and I couldn't stop touching and stroking him. I wanted to stay so bad, and to top it all of, I knew that while I was driving the thirty minutes to meet her brother to pick up some shit we needed, that he would be home all alone, naked, and jacking off thinking of me.


    I hope this potential boyfriend is a Jackass, for my sake.

    can I please be greedy just this once?
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    Nov 20, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
    OMJ! Could that have possibly been anymore pornographic!?! icon_redface.gif

    You move fast.
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    Nov 20, 2010 3:48 AM GMT
    A1EX saidOMJ! Could that have possibly been anymore pornographic!?! icon_redface.gif

    You move fast.


    I didn't mean for it to be that fast. I had even told him when he was asking me to come over that I had planned on maybe taking him out first before we went and met up at one another's place.

    it just kind of happened.
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    Nov 20, 2010 4:15 AM GMT
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    A1EX saidOMJ! Could that have possibly been anymore pornographic!?! icon_redface.gif

    You move fast.


    I didn't mean for it to be that fast. I had even told him when he was asking me to come over that I had planned on maybe taking him out first before we went and met up at one another's place.

    it just kind of happened.


    i just hope he didnt take out his hornyness on the potential bf coming after you left that wouldve sucked!


    hot story though.
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    Nov 20, 2010 5:29 AM GMT
    I thought the issue was.. you think he's too fem?

    well I'd smash and keep it moving..
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    Nov 20, 2010 5:44 AM GMT
    how do you "sort of" meet a guy? This sounds like high school girl talk. Call him and tell him you want top hook up, then when he comes over, bone down on him!
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    Nov 20, 2010 6:14 AM GMT
    Did you just read the first post before you replied to this?
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    Nov 21, 2010 10:45 PM GMT
    CaliBoySwag saidhow do you "sort of" meet a guy? This sounds like high school girl talk. Call him and tell him you want top hook up, then when he comes over, bone down on him!


    LOL where is all the romance yo?
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    Nov 21, 2010 10:47 PM GMT
    xoVS saidYou know what, you never know. My gaydar sucks as well. Unless the guy gives me that "I wanna have sex with you RIGHT NOW" kinda look lol.



    But one day, I had to go to the police station and one of the cops happened to be at my high school (I kinda knew him). He changed a lot, and to be honest he became REALLY hot.
    So at some point, he gave me his number. But it was more like "hey, call me if you ever need help again, it'll be better than calling 911 you know?". So i was like "sure" as he was just being nice, you know.

    Well a week later, I found out that he's been obsessed about me ever since he saw me and that he was gay. (He actually used his "cop position" to track my number LOL cause I never called him back.)

    He kept being obsessed for 4 months. And it's funny cause at first I was really fantasizing about him cause you know, you just got mugged, you feel kinda vulnerable, so having a hot cop as your boyfriend would obviously be like THE BEST remedy haha.



    ANYHOW, the point is : you never know icon_smile.gif


    icon_eek.gifMais t con toi.. !!!!
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    Nov 21, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    Funkapottomous saidso, here's my little story.


    today I was sitting in the halls of one of the buildings, waiting to take a test.

    after reading a post of JakeBenson's, I decided to nut up and not beat around the bush.

    I sent him a text-

    "hey, I needed to ask you a question"
    "ok"
    "alright, don't take this the wrong way, and if it's not the case this is the last you'll hear of it...Are you gay or bi? Because you're kind of cute and I don't really want to beat around the bush with it."
    "damnit I am gay, but I'm going to start seeing a guy. and you're cute too. you suck! you said you had a girlfriend icon_razz.gif But yeah, gay as hell"
    "Haha! well, that sucks. yea I have a girlfriend, but she is cool. she's actually pushing me to find a boyfriend. So, Gay as hell huh?"




    it goes on.
    He tells me how hot he thinks I am, and that I have horrible timing because he has a guy coming up tonight from out of town who could be a potential boyfriend, and that he's never had a boyfriend before.

    we talk about maybe hanging out before potential boyfriend shows up for the weekend, and plans change about five times due to my schedule, and we finally meet up around 5:00, and I head to his apartment.

    This is an apartment done by the school, so it's pretty much a dorm. We go into his room (rommate is gone) and start talking. He's being real handsy, and I'm enjoying it.

    I say something cheeky like "so you like bigger guys, eh?" and he smiles and starts holding onto me, rubbing my stomach through my shirt and then pulls it up a bit. Eventually he pulls me down to the bed and straddles me, and we start kissing. His shirt comes off and somehow so does mine. we kiss more...he has a thing for nipples. He kisses me and nibbles them quite a lot.

    He gets down to his boxers and straddles me again, and we continue the kissing. I start rubbing his cock through his boxers, and I can already feel his precum soaking the cloth where I'm rubbing his head.

    he gets naked and says something cute about taking off his boxers, and we go back to the straddling and kissing, with me stroking him when I can. (god I have forgotten how much I love touching other guys. I really hope things work out for me....) He kisses my neck, moves down to my tattoo and starts going down my stomach and I unbuckle my belt and pull down my jeans and he starts sucking me off. Wow. He's good. He's so excited, I can feel his body tensing and shaking the whole bed. He's grinding himself against the bed, and god it's fucking hot.

    Eventually, I sit up and pull him towards me...We are now sitting up, kissing, and his cock sitting on top of mine, is balls are nice and full and I can feel them bouncing on top of me while I stroke him, and ask him if wants to come for me. He smiles and says yes, and I start stroking him faster

    AND THEN MY PHONE RINGS


    it's my girlfriend, and the plans that we were having to change everything for have happened. We were relying on her brother to let us know when we had to leave and of course, we don't know until the last minute.

    It took so much for me to get dressed. We kept kissing, and I couldn't stop touching and stroking him. I wanted to stay so bad, and to top it all of, I knew that while I was driving the thirty minutes to meet her brother to pick up some shit we needed, that he would be home all alone, naked, and jacking off thinking of me.


    I hope this potential boyfriend is a Jackass, for my sake.

    can I please be greedy just this once?



    OMG BLUE BALLS GADDAMMIT!!!! icon_mad.gif

    Get back to him, NOW!!!!
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    Nov 22, 2010 2:58 AM GMT
    That is an awesome story - and kinda inspiring. I seriously want to know what's going on now and what's going to happen next. Kudos for having the balls to just flat out ask - I'm tempted to do it myself to get out of my current guy in limbo.
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    Nov 22, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    well it turns out that the guy he had come over for the weekend was a total asshole.

    Good news for me, and we'll see where it takes us in the future. Definitely going to be a slow week because of thanksgiving and me going out of town. icon_sad.gif

    but we might be able to hang out once or twice before we both leave.