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    Nov 18, 2010 6:21 AM GMT
    im sorry if this is the wrong section to put this in my name is chris im 20 years old im not really socially normal i guess its hard for me to make friends, not sure what to put here im just a lonely guy looking for someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on and with all the post that ive read from this forum the community i have seen is very nice and supportive and i would be blessed to be a part of it. i reaize i dont fit in here im not a musclar guy far from it but im trying to work on just being healthy and happy
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    Nov 18, 2010 1:59 PM GMT
    There there, I bet you'll fit in just fine. It's good that you are working on a healthy and happy life. It's not all about the muscles you know.
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    Nov 18, 2010 2:04 PM GMT
    you've got a friend in me, bud... welcome!
  • HyannisGuy

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    Nov 18, 2010 2:08 PM GMT
    Welcome to the forum!

    There is no reason to put yourself down as each off us is very different from anyone else. Who wants to be a clone anyway? I think that you will find many guys here are more than willing to chat with you either here in the forum or via email or instant message.

    Anyone that persecutes or doesn't accept you for who and what you are, is someone that you don't want in your life, anyway.

    Enjoy the forum and all it has to offer. Keep participating and before you know it, you will have found a nice group of online friends and maybe some real life friends too as there are guys from all across the USA that participate as well as worldwide. :-}
  • HndsmKansan

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    Nov 18, 2010 2:09 PM GMT
    Great to see you here Chris. If we can be of help, let us know. I'm happy to be a friend and to be of help.
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    Nov 18, 2010 2:30 PM GMT
    awww big hugs. there's a hot line for depression u know. use it!
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    Nov 18, 2010 5:31 PM GMT
    thank you so much everyone for the replies and messages its nice to see that there are people outside of my family that people care about me something i really need
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    Nov 18, 2010 5:55 PM GMT
    FatGuy123 saidim sorry if this is the wrong section to put this in my name is chris im 20 years old im not really socially normal i guess its hard for me to make friends, not sure what to put here im just a lonely guy looking for someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on and with all the post that ive read from this forum the community i have seen is very nice and supportive and i would be blessed to be a part of it. i reaize i dont fit in here im not a musclar guy far from it but im trying to work on just being healthy and happy


    Aw see you're already welcomed with open arms! Don't worry I'm not a muscular guy cos I don't work out but this is a gay site more than anything else. If anyone says otherwise tell them to fuck off and stop living in the gym.
    If you ever need to talk you can message me -- I'm around the same age as you =)
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    Nov 18, 2010 6:01 PM GMT
    We are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.
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    Nov 18, 2010 6:19 PM GMT
    awwwww how lovely :-)
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    Nov 18, 2010 7:42 PM GMT
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.
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    Nov 18, 2010 7:44 PM GMT
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.


    A is for Asexual. Not quite sure if it fits but since straights would probably not understand it, we love them too!
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    Nov 18, 2010 7:46 PM GMT
    cmhoh1985 said
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.


    A is for Asexual. Not quite sure if it fits but since straights would probably not understand it, we love them too!


    So it's Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer Asexuals?

    lolol
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    Nov 18, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 said
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.


    A is for Asexual. Not quite sure if it fits but since straights would probably not understand it, we love them too!


    So it's Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer Asexuals?

    lolol


    You betcha.
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    Nov 18, 2010 10:05 PM GMT
    cmhoh1985 said
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.


    A is for Asexual. Not quite sure if it fits but since straights would probably not understand it, we love them too!


    Lol! Actually "A" is for Allies...which could include asexuals! Lol!
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    Nov 18, 2010 10:14 PM GMT
    To the OP... Welcome! Trust me when I tell you every single guy here has felt the same way at one point or another, no matter how big a jock he may or may not be. You are worthy, and in time you'll find the strength to be comfortable in your own skin. Ever need to chat feel free to hit me or anyone else up. Most guys here are very friendly. All the best.
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    Nov 18, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    RudeMech said
    cmhoh1985 said
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.


    A is for Asexual. Not quite sure if it fits but since straights would probably not understand it, we love them too!


    Lol! Actually "A" is for Allies...which could include asexuals! Lol!


    Gay Lesbians Bisexuals Transgendered Queer Allies...hmmmm

    Gay Lesbians Bisexuals Transgendered Queer Asexuals sounds better! Omg that was a mouthful!

    Haha say it quickly and repeat it, it's really funny icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 19, 2010 1:07 AM GMT
    Welcome
    A lot of great guy's here with a lot of great information.
    Keep in mind it is till online and there can be some less scrupulous personalities, so try to have a thick skin and not take it to seriously. If someone pisses you off: that's what the block function is for, or better yet log off and take a walk.
    Life is good and can be really good:

  • Vaughn

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    Nov 19, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 said
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.


    A is for Asexual. Not quite sure if it fits but since straights would probably not understand it, we love them too!


    So it's Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer Asexuals?

    lolol


    Why don't we just call it the ENHASCSN or everything that's not heterosexual and socially considered normative. Or maybe just the ENH Alliance! Do you like Alliance or League better?
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    Nov 19, 2010 1:17 AM GMT
    Welcome Chris. Although there are many guys in this site that are muscular and in great shape, it certainly isn't a requirement to being part of the community. There is plenty of diversity here in terms of age, level of fitness and the like. I'm sure you'll find a lot of support and friendly guys here. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 21, 2010 3:12 PM GMT
    Gbob said
    cmhoh1985 saidWe are a welcoming community so a big welcome from me to you. And although not everyone on here is a jock, we all have one thing in common: we are GLBTQA.

    Welcome.


    What's GLBTQA lol? Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered Queer And...??

    I've only ever heard of LGBT haha.
    Q = Questioning
    A = Allies
  • Pygmalion

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    Nov 21, 2010 3:22 PM GMT
    Hi Chris icon_smile.gif
    Welcome to the community...
    Don't be alone..at the end of the day, we are all a bunch of lonely people !
  • idkagudname

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    Nov 21, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    kodos to everyone who replied.

    its good alone that you acknowledge this to yourself and to everybody.
    Hope your Happy life comes to you pal!
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    Nov 23, 2010 5:30 PM GMT
    Bear hugs to you
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    Nov 23, 2010 5:36 PM GMT
    Hello nice to meet you icon_biggrin.gif