preparing for anal sex/douching

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    Nov 18, 2010 7:19 PM GMT
    how do you guys go about it and how long do you do it for? are you always confident that you are 100% clean?

    i don't have anal sex very often because i'm always paranoid about not being completely clean, even sometimes spending up to an hour in the shower washing myself out (after which point i'm not even horny anymore...). years ago i had an accident during sex which left me a bit mentally scarred!

    i would really love to have anal sex much more often but unsure whether there is a really effective way of preparing to keep you truly clean and safe from accidents during sex.

    advice, thoughts, comments?

    i know this isn't a nice subject to discuss but hey ho.
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    Nov 19, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    in 2 words: shit happens. last time i had anal that heppend to me. thats what happens with an unexpected hookup in a foreign city, cudnt exactly run home and make sure i was clean. So i bought a small douch kit that i can pack with me now. it was really cheap and will be functional. but me and the guy both agreed: shit happens. its anal sex, its not gonna be roses and unicorns 100% of the time. everyone has it happen.