Do They Catch you Looking?

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    Nov 19, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    Ever seen a guy you just can't take your eyes off - and then he catches your gaze? What do you do? I just get fucking embarassed and look the other way...........too much conditioning from the straight world.

    What about you boys?..........................Keith
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    Nov 19, 2010 11:15 PM GMT
    Absolutely. I try to make sure that by the time the guy sees me I have an inviting expression which he will respond to as either 'pursue' or 'not interested.' I've lost out too many times by turning my look away. No more.
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    Nov 20, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    I keep looking, i see no problem in letting him know i find him attractive, but then again every situation is different and if he looks annoyed then toss your hair and never look at him again,,,even if he begs for you attention....
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    Nov 20, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    I just laugh a little when you can tell that they know your checking them out. LOL. I don't care really you shouldn't be good looking if you don't like the attention.
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    Nov 20, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
    If the target of my stare catches me, I smile back. If he gives me that unwelcome look, then I turn away. No harm done.
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    Nov 20, 2010 1:34 AM GMT
    vetteset saidEver seen a guy you just can't take your eyes off - and then he catches your gaze? What do you do? I just get fucking embarassed and look the other way...........too much conditioning from the straight world.

    What about you boys?..........................Keith


    Same here my friend same here icon_redface.gif
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    Nov 20, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    If he catches me, I keep looking. What harm is there in looking?
  • MrPapo317

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    Nov 20, 2010 2:05 AM GMT
    There is this hot guy who works for this vendor at my job. he manages the tool crib im always checking him out. sometimes he catches me and i wink then calmly turn the other way. He has the most amazing hazel eyes. so when i talk to him i get to look him in the eyes in a non creepy way. icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 20, 2010 2:09 AM GMT
    I bet a couple have caught me, but I just look away and don't really think about it again. I would feel like a terrible person if I pursued somebody for sex or something based on a glance.

    It's just a look.
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    Nov 20, 2010 2:13 AM GMT
    Nothing wrong with a cheeky wink. icon_wink.gif
  • Crucializer

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    Nov 20, 2010 2:23 AM GMT
    I have tried to not look away too - like some have said - dont wanna miss out on an opportunity .... kinda fun .. . icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 20, 2010 4:23 AM GMT
    I try to exercise appropriate discretion. But, I will look a man straight in the eye and not flinch. That has sometimes gotten me accused of having a staring problem. Whatever, if you can't stand being looked at, don't come out in public.

    In some countries its considered rude to look at people. I think that's a low social condition for a country to be in. In America, at least the old west, people were never afraid to look each other in the eye and maintain it for more than one second. Most people won't even look at you on the street now. It's very rude not to acknowledge someone, at least by traditional American standards.

    When you pass someone on the street, you should look them in the eye, smile and nod or say hello. The world would be a better place if so many people weren't afraid to do that anymore. But, psychologists have trained everyone not to talk to strangers. So, nowadays, people won't even meet their neighbors.

    We should all get back to the old customs and start to be friendly again.
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    Nov 20, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    I get caught all time. Its cool. I have had people catch me checking them out on the street than they come back and say hey how you doing.... you never know what is going to happen unless you look right
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    Nov 20, 2010 4:48 AM GMT
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    Nov 20, 2010 6:55 AM GMT
    @ Hazardous that was too funny! I'd do that too but it doesn't work as well when I have a shaved head

    I have a bad habit of staring at people and when it comes to hot guys I avert my eyes from them because I usually get caught. If I'm on the bus I have a ranking system going! If I look at him once he's average joe, twice means he's doable and three times means he's fucking gorgeous. The best thing about working an adult shop is that we have a lot of security cameras so I can gaze lustfully at my hearts content.
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    Nov 20, 2010 7:02 AM GMT
    Happens a lot! I try to turn away before they turn around and catch me... and when they do catch me I quickly turn another way, sometimes it might be too obvious. It's their fault for being so beautiful icon_redface.gif
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    Nov 20, 2010 11:16 PM GMT
    hazardous said



    Ritalin on aisle three...ritalin on aisle three...............................Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Nov 20, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    I tell him "hell yeah I was staring...that's what photographers do" - then show him my portfolio.
    Then they usually ask my rates. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 20, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    who cares if they catch you looking. it just means they were looking also. and if you catch each other looking often, then I think its safe to say that you both are on the same page.
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    Nov 20, 2010 11:35 PM GMT
    I don't usually see guys that KEEP my visual interest for an extended time.
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    Nov 21, 2010 12:16 AM GMT
    When we look at a good looking person there are chemicals in the brain that are released, causing REAL pleasure. I like pleasure so i keep looking, but i have had to work my way up to it because i was quite the opposite not too long ago.
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    Nov 21, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    If they do, I don't catch them catching me looking.
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    Nov 21, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    I usually nod whenever they catch me. They wouldn't take their eyes on me
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    Nov 21, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    vetteset saidEver seen a guy you just can't take your eyes off - and then he catches your gaze? What do you do? I just get fucking embarassed and look the other way...........too much conditioning from the straight world.

    What about you boys?..........................Keith

    Go back in the closet if you are gonna perv and give gays a bad rep!
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    Nov 21, 2010 1:58 AM GMT

    Getting caught staring is fun and should be followed by a low key smile, a nod and an unhurried look away.