I had sex with a married man last night ! (need advice) p.s (in his wifes bed !! )

  • BeachStud2014

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    Nov 20, 2010 7:21 PM GMT
    This is the same married i got several blowjobs from few months ago !!

    What should i do about this ? I certainly dont want to continue having an affair behind his wifes back !

    How do i avoid this situation when he makes it so convienent for me to get off ?

    help me out REAL JOCKers
    (confused in S.C. ) icon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gificon_question.gif
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    Nov 20, 2010 7:23 PM GMT
    Read over what you wrote on your profile about guys you'd like to meet.

    then read this, "I certainly dont want to continue having an affair behind his wifes back !" This is NOT soul mate material. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug
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    Nov 20, 2010 7:23 PM GMT
    beachhunk2010 saidWhat should i do about this? I certainly dont want to continue having an affair behind his wifes back!
    Glad to hear that you have a conscious. End it.

    beachhunk2010 saidHow do i avoid this situation when he makes it so convienent for me to get off?
    Avoid him and return to your hand.
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    Nov 20, 2010 7:34 PM GMT
    you say you don't want to carry on having an affair in his wifes' back so you pretty much answered your own question no ?
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    Nov 20, 2010 8:02 PM GMT
    HOMEWRECKER! HAHAHA icon_razz.gif

    if you dont want to continue this affair then why are you getting involved with him then? Just stop talking to him if you want this all to go away, or just say no! Stop saying yes icon_razz.gif! THINK ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD FEEL IF YOU WERE IN HIS WIFE POSITION FINDING OUT HER HUSBAND IS GAY AND HAVING SEX BEHIND HER BACK WITH ANOTHER MAN? its not a pleasant feeling. Also, think about the kids?! If there is any hahahaha.

    If your horny go jack off watching porn or something, or if you want butt sex go on that one website, manhunt I think and find hook ups.
  • BeachStud2014

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    Nov 20, 2010 8:56 PM GMT
    true true
    i do wack off when im horny( constantly )
    im still confused about it though
    lol
    thanx
    guys
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    Nov 20, 2010 9:09 PM GMT
    we are not responsible for other peopleĀ“s behaviour or their relationships, but it is obvious this is going no-where.
  • jgymnast733

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    Nov 20, 2010 9:49 PM GMT
    Well my dear if it wasnt you he's screwing around with, it would be some other guy....So much for the sanctity of marriage...but some married guys only marry because after a certain age people question there manhood , which makes her his ultimate BEARD....
    You should leave him alone.....................unless he's fine..
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    Nov 20, 2010 10:43 PM GMT
    Tell his wife. Then she'll divorce him and he can be yours.
    *cues Jerry Springer music*
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    Nov 20, 2010 11:29 PM GMT

    I HAD to visit the OP's profile...to see for myself.
    This is the kind of topic I would expect from someone in their teens or at most, early twenties...but YOU are over 30 years old and asking this moronic question??? And you're asking others for advice?? What? Did you grow up in a monastery??
  • BeachStud2014

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    Nov 21, 2010 1:58 PM GMT
    lol im 33
    no i did not grow up in a monastery
    just curious if other gay men have had this expierence !
  • BeachStud2014

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    Nov 21, 2010 1:59 PM GMT
    ok after much thought
    i have decided not to see this guy again
    i am going to tell him i got back with my x-boyfriend lol icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 21, 2010 8:08 PM GMT
    So from your first post... You got a few blowjobs from him a few months ago. Did you know he was married then?
    And now you had sex with him?

    Or did you just find out he was married, and it happened to be the same guy you got blowjobs from a few months ago?

    Now you had to give it "much thought" before deciding that you don't want to be a home-wrecker?
    Not only that, but you're just going to lie to him and tell him you got back with your ex?

    Man up already. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 21, 2010 8:56 PM GMT
    As a rule of thumb goes....If the person is taken....Do not attempt to do anything even if he's offering.....

    JUST SAY NO
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    Nov 22, 2010 12:25 AM GMT
    meninlove said Read over what you wrote on your profile about guys you'd like to meet.

    then read this, "I certainly dont want to continue having an affair behind his wifes back !" This is NOT soul mate material. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug


    Listen to the Meninlove!

    Then, tell him it's over and why. Then, delete his contact information and don't communicate with him. Don't answer his calls, his texts, his emails, whatever.

    Just put an end to it. It's that easy.

    If you do it again, you will have chosen to be just as guilty and evil as he is. It takes two to tango.
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    Nov 23, 2010 1:04 PM GMT
    I find the ease with which you have sex with a married guy disgusting. Even if he he tells you he isn't happily married, it is still disgusting. I think you have never met someone whose father cheated on their mother. It is devastating and really messed me up. So I have no respect for guys who do that. I don't think you realise the hurt you can cause this man's family.

    And if you think you can remedy the situation by feeding him a lie about you getting together with your (non-existent) ex - well, that says more about you and your "pseudo-honesty" than anything else. You can't make things right by telling lies.

    I am sorry I may come across as being a bit harsh - but the truth is people like you make my stomach turn. Guys like you sleep with a married man, and then you cry out for help on RJ like you're a victim or you're looking for attention. You definitely need to review your value system - it's never too late to do the right thing. He is a creep by cheating on his wife. You're being an even bigger creep by helping him do that.
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    Nov 25, 2010 1:47 AM GMT
    I had sex with a VERY HOT married dude who I met at the gym. Kept it up for a few months until I got bored and moved on. Was fun for a few months. Just enjoy the ride while you can.
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    Nov 25, 2010 8:58 AM GMT
    Whenever you get horny for this guy... think of explaining to the wife what you and her husband have done (while knowing full well that he is a married man). Think of her pain, sorrow, and anger--think of her world being turned upside down.

    Guilt yourself out of your horniness for him. Replace with porn manhunt.

    Then start really "Looking 4 Mr. Right."
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    Nov 25, 2010 9:21 AM GMT
    I love married dudes!!
  • GQjock

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    Nov 25, 2010 2:32 PM GMT
    This guy hit you with something on the top of your head and abduct you or something?

    Like Nancy said .... Just say No icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 25, 2010 5:26 PM GMT
    Nick_21 saidI love married dudes!!

    Let's pretend I'm married.
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    Nov 30, 2010 3:34 PM GMT


    I can offer one married guy's perspective: after years of minimal, boring sex, and two kids, I didnt want to get divorced, but I DID need more than twice a month.

    Started messing around with my closest friend, and ultimately expanded the circle of suckbuddies very carefully. Worked out well.
  • rnch

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    Nov 30, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    Nick_21 saidI love married dudes!!
    for YOU i'll go to a pawn shop and purchase a wedding ring! icon_wink.gif
  • Kage

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    Nov 30, 2010 5:40 PM GMT
    BAHAHAHAHHAHAAA!!!
    Did you actually read what you have said?


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    Nov 30, 2010 7:50 PM GMT
    Dan6714 said

    I can offer one married guy's perspective: after years of minimal, boring sex, and two kids, I didnt want to get divorced, but I DID need more than twice a month.

    Started messing around with my closest friend, and ultimately expanded the circle of suckbuddies very carefully. Worked out well.


    I'm sure your wife would agree, troll.