i really need your help to figure this out i feel this guy likes me

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    Nov 23, 2010 12:23 AM GMT
    so im 19 and im a first year freshman at this college i go to. in my elective class i have this guy in my class i think hes hot but heres how the events go. we go out on break he goes out the class before me but i didnt think of him i go out hes halfway down the hall so he sees me and follows me downstairs he walks down the stairs at the same speed as me. Follows me to the end of hall where im going outside to the other building where the cafteria is he stops and asks me where the bathroom is i told him where he didnt even go he walked back up to class. the second week he didnt show up to class i got his notes went up to him at the bus stop in front of his friend thats a girl who gave me a dirty look. he was not embarasssed he acted so happy that i gave him his notes and my friend kept telling me he keeps checking me out. They go on the bus and my friend happens to be on there bus she heard him say im wierd in a really mean tone to his friend when she asked him who i was. the next week he approached me with his friend at the cafteria he never goes there he asked me what we learned in class and i kinda rushed the convo and said well i got ur notes for u and if u want the answers to them just come and find me i can help u. so my friends meet up with me at the cafteria im at the end of line and my friends start laughing im like why are u laughing. Hes checking u out they say. But here where it goes low he never shows up to the elective class anymore and if he sees me he glances at me and shuffles to the side or trys to avoid me im always with people when this happens can anyone help me with my problem lol hahah i dont wanna talk to him when his female freidns are there cuz i feel scared but its ok for him to approach me with a friend wut the hell
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    Nov 23, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    It's all in your head. Wake up, he's not into you.
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    Nov 23, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
    Why did you take notes for him? That's fairly unusual behavior, considering you've only exchanged one brief verbal interaction. I'd be caught a little off-guard if the circumstances you described happened to me.

    Based on the data you've provided, he's not into you.

    You don't know him. You have reason to believe he's making fun of you. Your friends are either mocking your baseless belief that he likes you or misconstruing his "can't help but look at the person who keeps looking at me" glances as "checking you out" stares.

    Move on. Also, probably avoid doing this in the future.
  • southernT

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    Nov 23, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    I dont know whether or not you like the guy. But if u do, just ask him for a little talk. If you both are into each other, then that is good. If not, move on and at least you try to clear the cloud.
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    Nov 23, 2010 1:54 AM GMT
    Southtexas saidI dont know whether or not you like the guy. But if u do, just ask him for a little talk. If you both are into each other, then that is good. If not, move on and at least you try to clear the cloud.


    Umm...Don't take this guy's advice. He'll definitely give you "WTF this psycho gets the idea that I am into him" look.
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    Nov 23, 2010 2:19 AM GMT
    If the notes you took for the guy were as difficult to read as your big run-on sentence post lacking in capital letters and punctuation, then perhaps he was just turned off by you. j/k


    I see so many single gay men here in these threads and in real life looking for love and yet so many seem to be hung up on the "I don't know if they are gay" guys, exboyfriends, boyfriends of someone else, coworkers, roommates etc. Why do you all make it so difficult? There are plenty of eligible men out there. Find each other.



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    Nov 23, 2010 2:34 AM GMT
    Maybe you should take an English class while you're at it and then come back and try again.
  • DanielQQ

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    Nov 23, 2010 2:41 AM GMT
    There once was this guy who lived down the hall from me. He was "straight" but i guess he was curious because he came to my room one night and asked me a bunch of questions about being gay. Then, a couple days later, he invited me over to his room and we ended up fooling around. A few days after that, i saw him in the cafeteria with a friend of his and said hi. He said hi back. Then he got in line and i went to another line, but i decided i wanted the same kind of food he was in line for so i went to that line instead. When i came up to them, I heard him tell his friend, "I think he's a fag. He lives down the hall from me. He's always making passes at me. It's really weird."

    I walked away and confronted him later. Apparently he was in hyper "omg i'm straight but i like cock" mode and was freakin out about it. Anyway, the guy you like might have some issues about being into guys.
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    Nov 23, 2010 4:22 AM GMT
    Your story was a little hard to follow, but I got the gist. Seems to me the guy might be more into the fact that you're taking notes for him. Stop doing that! If a guy is really into you it wont come with strings. The best advice I can give you is to stay away from guys who play games and aren't up front. Life's too short. Wishing you the best!
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    Nov 23, 2010 4:28 AM GMT
    RudeMech saidYour story was a little hard to follow, but I got the gist. Seems to me the guy might be more into the fact that you're taking notes for him. Stop doing that! If a guy is really into you it wont come with strings. The best advice I can give you is to stay away from guys who play games and aren't up front. Life's too short. Wishing you the best!




    thank you mr mech im sorry my story was hard to follow i moved from thailand to canada 2 years ago so i apologize for my horrbile grammar and sentencing. I really appreciate that you took the time to read it and give me advice and wish me the best thank you so much i hope you have a good day
  • mybud

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    Nov 23, 2010 4:32 AM GMT
    Dude he's into games...and you following his whereabouts does little for your self esteem and respect....Fuck him and his bullshit...Find a guy that lights up when he sees ya...Find a guy who feels lucky to share brownie with ya...MOVE ON...BUD
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    Nov 23, 2010 4:39 AM GMT
    mybud saidDude he's into games...and you following his whereabouts does little for your self esteem and respect....Fuck him and his bullshit...Find a guy that lights up when he sees ya...Find a guy who feels lucky to share brownie with ya...MOVE ON...BUD



    I will listen to your advice thank you thank you sir.
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    Nov 24, 2010 8:32 AM GMT
    Allathlete saidMaybe you should take an English class while you're at it and then come back and try again.



    lmao.... rude!!! sah-kur-eetee!!!!

    hahaa