Is this the gay guy behavior? I don't thinnk so but why do gay guy behavior this way.

  • southernT

    Posts: 33

    Nov 23, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    This guy I knew who is currently in a relationship with his partner. Last night, he texted me and he wanted me to send him nude pictures of myself. I told him I don't have it.

    Later on, he told me to have some "fun with him." I told him that I don't mess with guy who is in a relationship. and I am not his "toy boy." at the end, I told him to go find some one else or have sex with his partner.

    And then, the dude text me back saying that I was not his type and he is just fucking with me.

    First of all, if I am not his type, don't f*&*(&g wasting time and texted me. It is so low of a person when a person rejects you and saying that he is not your type.

    Second, when you are in a relationship with a partner, why would you want to sleep around? STD and HIV are waiting for these people. Many people misunderstand about HIV. Most of them mention that HIV is a punishment from God to those who are gay. I don't really care what the general public say. But I am ashame of this guy behavior who is very little and have no value.

    I'm very sorry if I may hurt your feeling. However, I am not sorry for those people who are cheater and have no value in life.
  • bmoney1

    Posts: 244

    Nov 24, 2010 7:49 AM GMT
    I don't neccessarily think that is the "gay" behavior, no; as I have know many straight people behave the same way.. it's a sad and awkward situation, but sounds like you handled it nicely!
  • offshore

    Posts: 1294

    Nov 24, 2010 7:56 AM GMT
    Southtexas saidThis guy I knew who is currently in a relationship with his partner. Last night, he texted me and he wanted me to send him nude pictures of myself. I told him I don't have it.

    Later on, he told me to have some "fun with him." I told him that I don't mess with guy who is in a relationship. and I am not his "toy boy." at the end, I told him to go find some one else or have sex with his partner.

    And then, the dude text me back saying that I was not his type and he is just fucking with me.

    First of all, if I am not his type, don't f*&*(&g wasting time and texted me. It is so low of a person when a person rejects you and saying that he is not your type.

    Second, when you are in a relationship with a partner, why would you want to sleep around? STD and HIV are waiting for these people. Many people misunderstand about HIV. Most of them mention that HIV is a punishment from God to those who are gay. I don't really care what the general public say. But I am ashame of this guy behavior who is very little and have no value.

    I'm very sorry if I may hurt your feeling. However, I am not sorry for those people who are cheater and have no value in life.


    You did right, he is a total looser. Ignor him.
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    Nov 24, 2010 8:26 AM GMT
    #1 Is he in a "monogamous" relationship or an "open" one? ...because that makes a huge difference.

    #2 Because some people get bored of having sex with the same person over and over... and over.... and- oh yeah- over! ...and let's not forget over and over.

  • conservativej...

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    Nov 24, 2010 8:48 AM GMT
    It is a behavior I do not believe is gay specific. Period.
  • RSportsguy

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    Nov 24, 2010 10:21 AM GMT
    It is not gay specific. The latest example is the Brett Favre texts to the female PR rep at his former team!! icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 24, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    I'd say it's learned behaviour from the straight world that we all grew up in. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug