How to top?

  • Nov 23, 2010 5:04 AM GMT
    Hey, I have got a minor problem, my boyfriend I love very dearly. He has an amazing dick, and I really enjoy bottoming for him, he always hits the spot. The problem is I know he likes to bottom to, and he lost his virginity to me...

    I really want to be a decent top for him, the problem is I cum within 2 minutes literally of going in, and it ruins it... I am embarrassed by this, I have never topped until I met him, and even then it ruins it for him. I guess I just grew up with family all around and anytime i jacked off I tried to do it as soon as possible, I need some tips...

    Please I want to let him enjoy it and please him....
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    Nov 23, 2010 9:24 AM GMT
    Get one of those 'delay' condoms that contain a bit of topical anaesthetic in the tip. It will numb the sensation enough to let you last longer, but not so much you don't enjoy it.

    Otherwise, if you feel yourself losing control just stop and pull out for a minute, maybe switch positions or do something else for a bit, then recommence.