is dominating others naked cheating?

  • muscularman

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    Nov 24, 2010 11:08 AM GMT
    i cought my boyfriend doing it for 50 dollars
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 24, 2010 11:18 AM GMT
    It depends.....Is he doing it with other guys with or without your knowledge?
  • tony_boost

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    Nov 24, 2010 11:19 AM GMT
    hope i don't sound stupid, but what do you mean by dominate? icon_question.gificon_question.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 24, 2010 11:28 AM GMT
    I think he means this...but I could be wrong icon_confused.gif

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    Nov 24, 2010 11:31 AM GMT


    Do you feel cheated?
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    Nov 24, 2010 11:32 AM GMT
    I don't care what the situation is. He's naked with other men and he knows damn well that it wouldn't make you happy. It's selfish and desperate weird and you shouldn't have to put up with that. The whole situation screams "walk away."

    That's my two cents.

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    Nov 24, 2010 11:39 AM GMT
    malefeet saidI think he means this...but I could be wrong icon_confused.gif

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  • massbuildah

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    Nov 24, 2010 11:43 AM GMT
    Very hot!
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    Nov 24, 2010 12:07 PM GMT

    I think this is a bit of a troll post.

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    Nov 24, 2010 12:08 PM GMT
    If your man is naked in a sexual context with another man that isn't you, and you have not given your consent to it, then it's probably reasonable to assume it's cheating.

    Plus - dude, $50? He should be charging a little more than that, where's his business acumen?
  • Bunjamon

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    Nov 24, 2010 12:42 PM GMT
    NickFit saidIf your man is naked in a sexual context with another man that isn't you, and you have not given your consent to it, then it's probably reasonable to assume it's cheating.

    Plus - dude, $50? He should be charging a little more than that, where's his business acumen?


    Seconded.
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    Nov 24, 2010 1:27 PM GMT
    tony_boost saidhope i don't sound stupid, but what do you mean by dominate? icon_question.gificon_question.gif


    i was thinking this...

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    Nov 24, 2010 1:42 PM GMT
    myjeep saidI don't care what the situation is. He's naked with other men and he knows damn well that it wouldn't make you happy. It's selfish and desperate weird and you shouldn't have to put up with that. The whole situation screams "walk away."

    That's my two cents.

    Concur. Unless agreed upon by both partners, clandestine activities undermine a relationship. And I do consider it cheating.

    Now I do know some very stable LTR couples, approaching 20 years and over, who are into BDSM and leather, with home dungeon rooms. They play with others, either together or singly, but it's their choice, with the full knowledge & approval of the other. I honestly don't know if it involves actual sex, or just the BDSM role playing, since I don't participate. But it works for them -- fine.

    Going behind a BF or partner's back, however, is not fine in my view, for almost any purpose. I don't even meet RJ guys socially without my partner's knowledge (and that's my choice, not his requirement), and in fact he's met every single RJ member from here that I have, including a new one last Saturday in Key West.

    Plus the money part bothers me in this case. What's THAT about? This BF doesn't have an income? As NickFit notes, that's not even very much money these days, and not for that kind of service.
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    Nov 24, 2010 1:45 PM GMT
    $50 is pretty cheap, dude.
  • LJay

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    Nov 24, 2010 3:01 PM GMT
    Thanks for the job lead, guys.

    No, I do not think it is cheating if he is dominating and not engaging with the other guy. It sounds more like commerce to me.

    Do you play such games with him? If not, maybe you should.

    And yes, he needs to revise his rate card.
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    Nov 24, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]myjeep said[/cite] The whole situation screams "walk away."/quote]

    But it's still a fun sporticon_razz.gif
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    Nov 24, 2010 3:13 PM GMT

    As long as he spent the $50 on a nice gift for you, I'd say it's fine.


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    Nov 24, 2010 3:23 PM GMT
    If he's doing it for money it doesn;t sound like cheating.
  • Sk8Tex

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    Nov 24, 2010 4:15 PM GMT
    LJay saidThanks for the job lead, guys.

    No, I do not think it is cheating if he is dominating and not engaging with the other guy. It sounds more like commerce to me.

    Do you play such games with him? If not, maybe you should.

    And yes, he needs to revise his rate card.


    I think the word your looking for here is "Prostitution", not commerce.

    Yes, it's cheating.
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    Nov 24, 2010 4:27 PM GMT
    myjeep saidI don't care what the situation is. He's naked with other men and he knows damn well that it wouldn't make you happy. It's selfish and desperate weird and you shouldn't have to put up with that. The whole situation screams "walk away."

    That's my two cents.




    Second
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    Nov 24, 2010 4:48 PM GMT
    Thisuserexists said
    I think this is a bit of a troll post.



    Perhaps. When I first saw this, I thought I had seen this same thing brought up recently. And sure enough, this is the OP's third thread about it.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1247635/
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1247660/

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    Nov 24, 2010 4:51 PM GMT
    Heartrobb said
    Thisuserexists said
    I think this is a bit of a troll post.



    Perhaps. When I first saw this, I thought I had seen this same thing brought up recently. And sure enough, this is the OP's third thread about it.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1247635/
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1247660/




    Not to mention this one:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1245878/
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    Nov 24, 2010 5:15 PM GMT
    this troll with all his fucking boyfriend cheating threads.
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    Nov 24, 2010 5:32 PM GMT
    muscularman saidi cought my boyfriend doing it for 50 dollars


    $50? You need to take the reigns and manage his little business venture for him. There are daytime truck-stop meth-head hookers that charge more than that.
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    Nov 24, 2010 5:43 PM GMT
    FearTheFall said
    malefeet saidI think he means this...but I could be wrong icon_confused.gif

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    Very Hot and if only I could find a guy who wanted to be manhandled like that. icon_twisted.gif