If you're not going to worship me, get out of my bed.

  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 4:20 AM GMT
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    Are you the guy who likes to hear a few sweet nothings... affectionate adjectives and implicit promises while in bed or do you simply prefer to screw, shake hands and make polite and unemotional goodbyes?
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    Nov 26, 2010 4:21 AM GMT
    I'm a definite cuddler. When I was younger I didn't care, but I'm more relationship oriented now, and it all goes together... cuddling, sex, laying together afterwards... it's turned into more of a process than an event, and I'm totally ok with that!
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 4:26 AM GMT
    MascMuscle425 saidI'm a definite cuddler. When I was younger I didn't care, but I'm more relationship oriented now, and it all goes together... cuddling, sex, laying together afterwards... it's turned into more of a process than an event, and I'm totally ok with that!


    I have to agree with you....icon_wink.gif
  • aiko14

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    Nov 26, 2010 5:08 AM GMT
    i like spooining!!!!

    but forking is better ;)
  • sliyah

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    Nov 26, 2010 4:18 PM GMT
    not a fan of promise,but prefer to share what going on in our minds at that moment.. while cuddling in his arms..! even for hook up..i feel so ashamed of myself when its the hand shaking /unemotional goodgye .. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    Sweet nothings. Love making to me is not a disconnected workout session. Sex makes you feel alive and in that world of the two of us, every weight on the shoulders is lifted like it never existed to begin with.
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    Nov 26, 2010 4:38 PM GMT
    Cuddler, kisser, talker here.... and unapologetic about it.
    This is why one-night stands are no good for me.
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    Nov 26, 2010 4:39 PM GMT
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    Are you the guy who likes to hear a few sweet nothings... affectionate adjectives and implicit promises while in bed or do you simply prefer to screw, shake hands and make polite and unemotional goodbyes?


    The latter - even with the bf, haha! icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 5:01 PM GMT
    If you're not going to cuddle me afterwards, you're of no use to me..

    There's a chalk board that should be above the bed t hat says "you" and "me" on it.

    You get what you want (point for you)

    I get what i want (Point for me)

    If you're not willing to have equal points on both sides of the board.. don't bother thinking you're going to get any icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 5:04 PM GMT
    Samm77 saidIf you're not going to cuddle me afterwards, you're of no use to me..

    There's a chalk board that should be above the bed t hat says "you" and "me" on it.

    You get what you want (point for you)

    I get what i want (Point for me)

    If you're not willing to have equal points on both sides of the board.. don't bother thinking you're going to get any icon_biggrin.gif


    Babe... every point you get on your side is a point for me... I get off on you getting off icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 5:21 PM GMT
    I love hearing compliments... it makes me feel good inside and shows on the outside *BOING* and I am certainly no stranger to giving compliments... just ask all the guys on here! We all want to feel loved icon_wink.gif
  • Regina_Guy

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    Nov 26, 2010 5:29 PM GMT
    No cuddles = no nookie! lol
  • tbeaux

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    Nov 26, 2010 5:33 PM GMT
    I'm a definite cuddler. I love to bury my head on his chest and cuddle up to that little nook by the neck. I love to snugggggggleeeee.
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    Nov 26, 2010 5:35 PM GMT
    Cuddle, talk, dirty talk....the whole bit!
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    Nov 26, 2010 5:37 PM GMT
    or since cuddling is the gateway to sex anyway.. might as well spend an hour of your time cuddling me first.. I mean really, is that too much to fucking ask? ;)
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    Nov 26, 2010 5:49 PM GMT
    I love to cuddle. Nothing is better than sensual rubbing to get me going and if the guy is giving compliments it gets me hot and I return the favor. icon_redface.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 5:55 PM GMT
    Takedown saidI love to cuddle. Nothing is better than sensual rubbing to get me going and if the guy is giving compliments it gets me hot and I return the favor. icon_redface.gif


    Why wouldn't anyone that was cuddling you give you compliments? Statements like this make no sense to me... Have you been cuddled by someone that didn't give you compliments?

    Is it so hard for people to give eachother compliments this day in age? You're hot in your profile picture... I'm sure it does you no justice.

    Complimenting isn't hard for me to do. For me the hard t hing to do is receive them based on past experiences i'm not used to hearing nice things, if that makes sense. It's something i'm working on icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 6:07 PM GMT
    Doesn't it depend? Most of the time I would prefer the full service with cuddles, kissing, full body contact for extended time, but... Sometimes things haven't lived up to expectations, despite best efforts things didn't click just right, or maybe the other guy turned out to be, let's just say unusual. At that point, forget the cuddles, move on.
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    Nov 26, 2010 6:10 PM GMT
    Although I would love to, I've never really had much of the cuddling. So far I have not found a man where there's mutual interest in that. L.A. is so loaded with flakes, closet cases and guys who only want anonymous, emotionless sex, it just doesn't seem like that type of man really exists here.

    But, although I would love cuddling, romance etc., I find it uncomfortable to try to sleep while cuddling. His head mashing my arm (ouch), or trying to breath in while he is exhaling or snoring right in my face just don't go well together for me. I can't fall asleep unless I have some of my own space and can be comfortable and breath easy. I like to be able to roll over with getting a elbo in the eye, LOL!

    But, if I could find someone compatible, who's capable of a real Monogamous relationship, with romance, cuddling and all, I'd dive in head first.
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 6:37 PM GMT
    Kell_la said L.A. is so loaded with flakes, closet cases and guys who only want anonymous, emotionless sex


    OMG....L.A. sounds just like Vegas icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 6:41 PM GMT
    And seattle ;)
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 6:42 PM GMT
    Samm77 saidAnd seattle ;)


    OMG....both L.A. and Seattle sound just like Vegas icon_eek.gif
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  • zenny

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    Nov 26, 2010 7:55 PM GMT
    I'm the type that wouldn't let you leave out of bed. icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 7:58 PM GMT
    wow. thats a very Black and White choice isnt it?