Pros & Cons of Feminine Gay Men

  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 9:40 AM GMT
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    Pros:
    No one expects you to be the strong, silent type. More variety in clothing and accessories. No one looks at you strangely if you ask a friend to go to the restroom with you in a bar. You can often get out of problems by crying. When attacked, if you fight back, you have the element of surprise. Less feeling like you have to put up a front with people. You know who you are, where you are going and what you are going to do when you get there. ( Go On Girl) You can get masculine gay guys to do things for you by looking helpless. It's OK to like flowers.

    Cons:
    It can be confusing to date someone who's "prettier" than you are. Eyebrow waxing. You use the pricey beauty products instead of the basic Pert Plus. Not strong enough to open a stubborn jar.


    * next post deals with the pros & cons of masculine gay men
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    Nov 26, 2010 3:50 PM GMT
    Your post title is misleading: "Pros & Cons of Feminine Gay Men" implies pros and cons of being friends with/ dating/ existence of feminine gay men. Whereas your post is Pros and cons of being a feminine gay man. And you left out being ridiculed by bigots and put down by other gay men for being yourself. That goes under 'cons' btw.
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    Nov 26, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    pre_mortem saidYour post title is misleading: "Pros & Cons of Feminine Gay Men" implies pros and cons of being friends with/ dating/ existence of feminine gay men. Whereas your post is Pros and cons of being a feminine gay man. And you left out being ridiculed by bigots and put down by other gay men for being yourself. That goes under 'cons' btw.


    Introduction to Will: resident nice guy, known for posting tongue in cheek and humorous, yet sometimes provocative threads. NEVER has a hurtful bone in his body..

    pre_mortem, meet Will. Will, meet pre_mortem..................btw............there is just something very sexy about a femme guy and I'm not afraid to admit it..................Keithicon_cool.gif
  • Regina_Guy

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    Nov 26, 2010 4:51 PM GMT
    pre_mortem saidYour post title is misleading: "Pros & Cons of Feminine Gay Men" implies pros and cons of being friends with/ dating/ existence of feminine gay men. Whereas your post is Pros and cons of being a feminine gay man. And you left out being ridiculed by bigots and put down by other gay men for being yourself. That goes under 'cons' btw.


    I agree with pre-mortem. I couldn't imagine being constantly ridiculed and bullied by gays and straights alike. However, I have the upmost respect for these boys. They have no problems being themselves, no matter what other people may think.

    Pro: These boys are great to party with. They always seem to be having a great time. I always forget my problems when I'm with them and I let my guard down.

    God bless the feminine gay man!!
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    vetteset saidthere is just something very sexy about a femme guy and I'm not afraid to admit it..................Keithicon_cool.gif



    I have only 3 words to say....Fab....u......lous...and I'm through connie_1.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 6:31 PM GMT
    pre_mortem saidYour post title is misleading: "Pros & Cons of Feminine Gay Men" implies pros and cons of being friends with/ dating/ existence of feminine gay men. Whereas your post is Pros and cons of being a feminine gay man. And you left out being ridiculed by bigots and put down by other gay men for being yourself. That goes under 'cons' btw.


    As always, I try to be all-inclusive....and leave it up to the individual to garner what they may out of the multitude of various responses possible.. I mean it would be like totally impossible to list every possible pro & con....so, I try to get ya started and....like ya know...you continue the...um....continuation icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    malefeet saidFreddieshat.jpg

    Pros:
    No one expects you to be the strong, silent type. More variety in clothing and accessories. No one looks at you strangely if you ask a friend to go to the restroom with you in a bar. You can often get out of problems by crying. When attacked, if you fight back, you have the element of surprise. Less feeling like you have to put up a front with people. You know who you are, where you are going and what you are going to do when you get there. ( Go On Girl) You can get masculine gay guys to do things for you by looking helpless. It's OK to like flowers.




    YEEEEEEEESSS, LOVE IT!!!! icon_biggrin.gif
    Thank You!
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 8:30 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said


    YEEEEEEEESSS, LOVE IT!!!! icon_biggrin.gif
    Thank You!



    THANKS....now do I dare post the other half? ( * next post deals with the pros & cons of masculine gay men)
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    Nov 26, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    GigoloAssassin said


    YEEEEEEEESSS, LOVE IT!!!! icon_biggrin.gif
    Thank You!



    THANKS....now do I dare post the other half? ( * next post deals with the pros & cons of masculine gay men)


    DO IT!!!! icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 10:06 PM GMT
    malefeet saidNot strong enough to open a stubborn jar.

    You stupid bitch, that's why I'm there to open the jar!

    Geez, think much?????

    Although those facial products are really confusing, it's like there are 8 different bottles and they have a sequence of use and apparently you can use two different types of moisturisers at the same time..

    That whole mess is confusing, but my hair smells like oranges so I don't complain
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    Nov 26, 2010 10:10 PM GMT
    vetteset said
    pre_mortem saidYour post title is misleading: "Pros & Cons of Feminine Gay Men" implies pros and cons of being friends with/ dating/ existence of feminine gay men. Whereas your post is Pros and cons of being a feminine gay man. And you left out being ridiculed by bigots and put down by other gay men for being yourself. That goes under 'cons' btw.


    Introduction to Will: resident nice guy, known for posting tongue in cheek and humorous, yet sometimes provocative threads. NEVER has a hurtful bone in his body..

    pre_mortem, meet Will. Will, meet pre_mortem..................btw............there is just something very sexy about a femme guy and I'm not afraid to admit it..................Keithicon_cool.gif


    Keith -

    On behalf of femme gay guys the world over, thanks! icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 10:35 PM GMT
    If you were to remove his hat he'd look like 90% of the residents in Williamsburg, New York.
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    Nov 27, 2010 2:15 AM GMT
    I tend to get quite intimidated by 'femme guys' because they always seem to be very loud and ultra confident. Actually the same could easily apply for ultra macho men when everything is about getting the ladies and sports to them.

    I guess I'm just intimidated by bold personalites because their energy is too overwhelming for me.
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 27, 2010 3:02 AM GMT
    Gbob saidI tend to get quite intimidated by 'femme guys' because they always seem to be very loud and ultra confident. Actually the same could easily apply for ultra macho men when everything is about getting the ladies and sports to them.

    I guess I'm just intimidated by bold personalites because their energy is too overwhelming for me.



    But you posted a terrific video......handsome guy icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 27, 2010 3:11 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said


    DO IT!!!! icon_twisted.gif


    I have it ready....I may just spring it on ya at any time icon_twisted.gif