Have you ever been asked?

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    Nov 26, 2010 6:51 PM GMT
    Have you been asked, why are you still single? Why do guys not want to be with you, you are an awesome guy!! Well that is what many have said to me and then later on they disappear. The guy i was seeing did just that. Don't know if he jinxed himself lol but he was such a great guy. Made love to me, treated me very nice and even said that he loved to spend time with me and that i was an awesome guy. Then from one day to the next completely disappears. Stops texting me and calling me. So i am like what the fuck happened? Made me begin to fall for him and now well i am left heart broken.
    I guess my question is, what for did he do all this charade?
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 26, 2010 6:53 PM GMT
    Some gay men tend to have a short attention span. As I previously stated in another thread.....Oh look...something shiny....gotta go....icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 26, 2010 7:06 PM GMT
    I had a few guys tell me that.

    "Have you been asked, why are you still single? Why do guys not want to be with you, you are an awesome guy!!"

    I thought of it as a well used pick-up line.

    -Doug

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    Nov 26, 2010 7:17 PM GMT
    Thing is that he didn't say it as a pick up line :-(
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    Nov 26, 2010 7:26 PM GMT
    Last person to ask me that was my dermatologist.

    She also assures me that someone is gonna snatch me up, but until then just keep paralyzing that face.
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    Nov 26, 2010 7:35 PM GMT
    hauptstimme saidLast person to ask me that was my dermatologist.

    She also assures me that someone is gonna snatch me up, but until then just keep paralyzing that face.


    hehehe yeah i've been told by friends that too lol i still don't see the purpose of the question by a potential guy...
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    Nov 27, 2010 2:38 AM GMT
    Grimaldi01 saidHave you been asked, why are you still single? Why do guys not want to be with you, you are an awesome guy!! Well that is what many have said to me and then later on they disappear. The guy i was seeing did just that. Don't know if he jinxed himself lol but he was such a great guy. Made love to me, treated me very nice and even said that he loved to spend time with me and that i was an awesome guy. Then from one day to the next completely disappears. Stops texting me and calling me. So i am like what the fuck happened? Made me begin to fall for him and now well i am left heart broken.
    I guess my question is, what for did he do all this charade?


    Nope I've never been asked that in real life lol. Aw I'm sorry about that, you must be so upset icon_sad.gif. The bad thing is, if it happened to me, I would end up blaming myself instead of the other person when it should be the other way round!

    Are you sure everything is over, it sounds silly, but maybe he's busy? If not, then he is an insensitive soul and doesn't deserve a to be in a relationship.
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    Nov 27, 2010 3:27 AM GMT
    @GBob i am not upset at all, i am saddened by this sudden turn of events. Well if he is busy it has been a whole week of being busy :-(
  • NerdLifter

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    Nov 27, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    Yep, has happened to me multiple times; makes you wonder what the hell happened?

    Just put one foot in front of the other and don't let it bother you.
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    Nov 27, 2010 4:14 AM GMT
    If we could just purchase a Lie Detector belt or sweatband, we wouldn't feel so heartbroken. lol >_< ... icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 27, 2010 4:27 AM GMT
    Brah...I'm gonna be honest with ya....Some guys will do head stands...bullshit...whatever it takes to get in a guys pants...It's called a conquest...after they succeed ....they lose interest....My opinion....I've seen ya on here....how you interact.....your smart....good looking...a lot of excellent qualities.....Sincerely...his loss....take time to lick your wounds....Do what's in your best interests....spend time with good friends...This too shall pass....All the best....BUD
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    Nov 27, 2010 4:31 AM GMT
    mybud saidBrah...I'm gonna be honest with ya....Some guys will do head stands...bullshit...whatever it takes to get in a guys pants...It's called a conquest...after they succeed ....they lose interest....My opinion....I've seen ya on here....how you interact.....your smart....good looking...a lot of excellent qualities.....Sincerely...his loss....take time to lick your wounds....Do what's in your best interests....spend time with good friends...This too shall pass....All the best....BUD


    Don't worry, it happens. Don't be too sure it was love and not lust, though.
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    Nov 27, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    Grimaldi01 saidHave you been asked, why are you still single? Why do guys not want to be with you, you are an awesome guy!! Well that is what many have said to me and then later on they disappear. The guy i was seeing did just that. Don't know if he jinxed himself lol but he was such a great guy. Made love to me, treated me very nice and even said that he loved to spend time with me and that i was an awesome guy. Then from one day to the next completely disappears. Stops texting me and calling me. So i am like what the fuck happened? ....


    Look at it this way: he left, he loses out.
    You get to carry on with someone who will appreciate you.
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    Nov 27, 2010 7:01 AM GMT
    @cold Awesome photo of the praying mantis taking out the grasshopper :-)
    To everyone: Thanks guys! You are awesome :-)