I WANT TO TRY THIS ON A DATE!

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    Nov 27, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    Hey guys, I am kind of wondering this experiment to test.

    On RJ, I have heard so many guys talked about what to say on the first date and what not to say. And how they shouldn't screw the date up in order to get the second one. And also, many ended up not getting second date even though they didn't do anything wrong and were perfect gentleman or what it seems like was a perfect date.
    So....I am kind of wondering and I dare you to try this too. Next time, somebody ask you out on a date or you ask someone out on a date. He doesn't have to be super hot, just a regular guy who "seems" down-to-earth and perfectly normal, I dare you to start acting really weird and say things like "I wanna have babies one day, I wanna a guy to be the father of my child. This fork is turning me on,hmm... This food taste like a man.....yumm... or start licking your wine glass. hahaha" Anything to freak him out and see his response. and of course you excuse yourself to go first afterwards."
    Yes, that will make a big impression on him and let's see if he'll call you back because you are soo weird. hahaha, it'd be better if you have a small hand cam to record the whole scene. hahhaha.
    I am tempted to try it....what do you think?

    PS. you need to make sure that you don't apologize afterwards or explain anything. Just do it and go. Also, you need to prepare that he is not very attracted to you, otherwise, it will be hard for you to pull it off.
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    Nov 27, 2010 1:25 PM GMT
    no wonder you're single..
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    Nov 27, 2010 1:43 PM GMT
    I wouldn't want to be the guy getting filmed without his knowledge.
  • LJay

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    Nov 27, 2010 2:37 PM GMT
    Sure. Go ahead, but no camera. That is not nice. It may also be illegal.

    Better do it several times to get a good sample of results.

    Report results on completion of project. I'm thinking you will have plenty of time on your hands to allow for a thorough write-up.
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    Nov 27, 2010 3:42 PM GMT
    Hmmm...kind of like internet trolling only person to person in the flesh.


    Before you try it's a good idea to consider that words gets around and travels fast. Whoever you do this to will have quite a story to tell others.

    -Doug
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    Nov 27, 2010 4:08 PM GMT
    meninlove saidBefore you try it's a good idea to consider that words gets around and travels fast. Whoever you do this to will have quite a story to tell others.

    -Doug

    Yeah, "bad date" stories spread like wildfire. Maybe DC is big enough, with a fairly high population turnover, that he could avoid that consequence.

    But I'm still not clear what his motive is. To chase men away? Maybe the rest of him in his headless pic here is attractive enough that he has a ready supply of men pursuing him, that he can afford to sacrifice a few to an "experiment."

    But if a guy was nice enough to agree to go on a date with me, I think I'd respect him and treat him better than this. And besides, it was sometimes THEM who used to pull these things on ME, back when I was still dating.
  • ohioguy12

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    Nov 27, 2010 4:18 PM GMT
    To be honest, this isn't that far fetched as long as you don't over do it. I hear countless times that most guys are the same, and if you do something different, it will give them something to remember you, I probably wouldn't say what the OP said, but if you do things that are off the radar, it's a big plus in my book
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    Nov 27, 2010 4:24 PM GMT
    While I think you meant this in joking fashion, it's a bit mean if you actually go forward with this "test". No unsuspecting stranger should purposely be made to feel uncomfortable or ridiculed. However, I do wonder if there is a smart and confident enough guy who would see through it and pick up on it. One guy might actually find it funny and play along... and maybe he'd be meant for you. ...just wondering...

    And btw. no video--definitely not cool!
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    Nov 27, 2010 4:41 PM GMT
    well, I am not going to ridicule him or make fun of him. In fact, that's the other way round. I am going to make fun of myself. It'd be kind of funny that I'm tempted to do this. It's kind of like reverse psychology and I don't expect him to call me back afterwards or think anything bad about me. I will tone it down and make it less obvious. I will pull it back and push it alittle.
  • toybrian

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    Nov 27, 2010 6:37 PM GMT
    French, first off that is cold of you to suggest that...How would you feel if the role was reversed and he did that to you or he thought you were making fun of him and maybe hit you...I would not do it because I have many good guys of all types ..
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 27, 2010 6:55 PM GMT
    I would think that you were desperate....and off your meds icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 27, 2010 9:11 PM GMT
    Been there, done that, got laid, read the blog.

    Haha, kidding...icon_wink.gif