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  • Aus92

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    Nov 28, 2010 1:26 PM GMT
    Do you ever wish that one day when you log on here you see you have a personal message from some one just saying 'Hi *whatever your name is here*'...

    Would be nice to know that someone I knew know about me being gay... :

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    Nov 28, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    The only way that is going to happen is if you look them straight in the eye and say. I am telling you this because I value your friendship. I am a proud gay man.
    I know it sounds harsh and what you are wishing for... we all did..but in this world you are going to have to take the first step.

    Good luck.
  • Karnage

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    Nov 28, 2010 5:10 PM GMT
    I think we all want that. It makes you feel validated and that someone has noticed you. It's a whole lot more likely to happen if you have some profile pictures and begin posting on the forums though!
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    Nov 28, 2010 7:02 PM GMT
    You get to make a choice:
    1. Like yourself, have integrity, be happy, and others will like you, too. Be happy and honest.
    or...
    2. Be dishonest, miserable, and pretend that nobody knows. Become consumed in self-loathing, misery, a self-created paranoia about an imaginary boogie man.

    The choice seems obvious to a sane person.
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    Nov 28, 2010 8:22 PM GMT
    Karnage saidI think we all want that. It makes you feel validated and that someone has noticed you. It's a whole lot more likely to happen if you have some profile pictures and begin posting on the forums though!


    This!!
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    Nov 28, 2010 8:38 PM GMT
    take a postive step at a time. Like Karnage says, and each time you do, you feel a little more validated, a little less apprehensive. The more little steps you can take, will eventually lead you to bigger and bigger ones until it is pretty much behind you and you can move forward...........keithicon_cool.gif