Nice conversation or blowjob with 3 complete strangers?

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    Nov 30, 2010 9:10 PM GMT
    This happened last week but as I was typing the story, my account was suspended, bummer lol. Let's just keep in mind that at that time, I was REALLY upset.
    Anyhow, here's what happened :

    First of all, I'm the type of guy (or girl) who thinks "ugh I really hate guys" cause I really do have issues with guys in general. So I rarely go to gay bars and stuff.

    But on a wednesday night I thought hey I should give them a chance at least, especially cause there was this 18-25yo only party at this gay bar, so it was the occasion to make some new friends and more.
    I was talking to some nice new fellas until this guy comes in.
    He was tall, blond, really handsome, hot body and alone ; he looked rather shy and had this " innocent good guy" vibe, you know. He even brought his chello with him. I mean, he HAD to be really harmless and innocent to do such a weird thing. Anyways, he was really cute and I just couldn't take my eyes off him, and he was also kinda checking me out too.

    He was all lonely and I was too shy to go to him. But after 20 minutes I found the strength to go talk to him.
    We had a pleasant conversation and we got to know each other better and sutff.
    A while later, a friend had to leave so I went to say good bye for like 5 minutes.

    When I came back, someone else was already talking to him. I thought I should just wait around and talk to some other people and kinda "wait for my turn" you know lol. Until he and that other guy started touching each other. Then 2 other guys join them, and the blond guy starts to give them all 3 a blow job (who weren't even attractive by the way) in FRONT OF ME (and everyone else btw, just saying).
    I was so shocked that I couldn't move for like at least 10 minutes. My friends were soooo mad they wanted to go confront him.

    Am I actually THAT boring or THAT ugly that he couldn't wait for me more than FIVE minutes? And actually move on and give a blowjob to 3 complete strangers he had just met.

    Anyways I was so upset I just left really quickly. I was so sick to my stomach. It haunted me for a few days.
    At that moment I thought "Indeed, guys really are all bastards!"
  • mizu5

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    Nov 30, 2010 9:13 PM GMT
    ... like jsut on the dancefloor?
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    Nov 30, 2010 9:21 PM GMT
    Didn't your mother tell you not to judge a book by its cover? Perhaps he came to the bar to get some action, and he could tell he wasn't going to get any from you.
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    Nov 30, 2010 9:38 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidDidn't your mother tell you not to judge a book by its cover? Perhaps he came to the bar to get some action, and he could tell he wasn't going to get any from you.
    ^^^this
    The only reason I go to bars is for action. If I see I'm not gonna get it from one guy, I go to the next. It's nothing personal. Don't be fooled by the "oh I'm just here to make friends" bullshit. Most of them are lying. They want action. If you're not in, they're out.

    If you really want platonic friends or an exclusive LTR, then the bar is not for you.
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    Nov 30, 2010 9:38 PM GMT
    poor u! thats harsh.. But anyway, you shouldn't expect anything romantic from a gay bar. You deserve better anyway. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 30, 2010 9:56 PM GMT
    Oh my god, you are actually giving him excuses. I actually don't judge a book by its cover, but please, in this situation I could've done it. He ended up being a jerk, didn't he? So basically I'm the one to blame. Unbelievable.
    The way he act didn't even look like he was just looking for sex. So I guessed I'm the one who's messed up. Yeepee.

    And THANKS for the hint on gay bars, next time i'll try the gay church.
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    Nov 30, 2010 10:13 PM GMT
    [quote]
    And THANKS for the hint on gay bars, next time i'll try the gay church.
    [/quote]

    I ROFLed
  • mizu5

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    Nov 30, 2010 10:17 PM GMT
    They aren't giving him excuses, they are giving him reasons. Whether or not you approve of his promiscuity is irrelevant.

    He was not rude, you were simply not what he was looking for. I'm sure you'll find other awkward cello playing boys.
  • disasterpiece

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    Nov 30, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    Dayum, man, you should actually be happy that you went out for 5 minutes, otherwise, you would've loss the entire night chatting with a guy that is in the end, obviously, a total slut.

    That's fate, not malediction.

    And I agree with the gay bar thing, it's not really a good place to meet people that want to have conversation and relationship. Try Manhunt instead.
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    Nov 30, 2010 10:40 PM GMT
    xoVS saidAnd THANKS for the hint on gay bars, next time i'll try the gay church.


    Haha, fucking win. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 30, 2010 10:41 PM GMT
    mizu5 saidThey aren't giving him excuses, they are giving him reasons. Whether or not you approve of his promiscuity is irrelevant.

    He was not rude, you were simply not what he was looking for. I'm sure you'll find other awkward cello playing boys.


    I don't judge him for wanting to have casual sex. I judge him for doing it in public with 3 strangers. I believe there's a significant difference.
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    Nov 30, 2010 10:42 PM GMT
    xoVS said
    mizu5 saidThey aren't giving him excuses, they are giving him reasons. Whether or not you approve of his promiscuity is irrelevant.

    He was not rude, you were simply not what he was looking for. I'm sure you'll find other awkward cello playing boys.


    I don't judge him for wanting to have casual sex. I judge him for doing it in public with 3 strangers. I believe there's a significant difference.
    Ahah non i agree with you. I'm just saying he wasn't rude to you, just... very very slutty.

    find another cello player, i'm sure paris is chockfull of them!
  • gonewind

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    Dec 01, 2010 2:54 AM GMT
    Wait...

    He brought a CELLO to a gay bar?!
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    Dec 01, 2010 2:58 AM GMT
    Maybe he was working that night?
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:02 AM GMT
    wait, wtf?? icon_confused.gif

    He just randomly started sucking all 3 of their cocks in front of u at a club?

    where is this club? icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:05 AM GMT
    lol, where was the bouncer in all of this? That kind of display would likely get all four of them booted out of the club up here.

    -Doug


    PS stay clear of that guy. Nothing like a little venereal disease, eh?
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:07 AM GMT
    I will do the bj!
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:08 AM GMT
    meninlove said lol, where was the bouncer in all of this? That kind of display would likely get all four of them booted out of the club up here.


    You're going to the wrong clubs. icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:10 AM GMT

    Perhaps, and I'm glad for that. Yikes, nothing like a resistant strain of gonorrhea or syphilis.

    -Doug
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:10 AM GMT
    Super-AIDS!
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:13 AM GMT
    Pyrotech saidSuper-AIDS!


    No, that's the one thing least likely to happen (though possible).

    -Doug
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    Dec 01, 2010 4:54 AM GMT
    xoVS said

    I don't judge him for wanting to have casual sex. I judge him for doing it in public with 3 strangers. I believe there's a significant difference.

    Some people get off on that. If he wanted to suck three guys' dicks, so what?

    Aren't you glad that you found out that he is a cocksucking ho? Another few minutes, and he would have been trying to suck your dick in front of everybody.

    You could have jumped in line.

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    Dec 01, 2010 6:07 AM GMT
    Balljunkie saidYou could have jumped in line.


    Woop woop! All aboard the dick train!
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    Dec 01, 2010 1:08 PM GMT
    Hahahaha dude just let it go. Maybe a Gay church would be good for ya....

    You're attractive as it but if he really was looking to suckle some knobs then its his prerogative even if its not to your liking...

    His cello is probably a way to lure people for the purpose of what you saw....

    Maybe you should bring an accordion and have a 'music session' with him.

    Anyhow its an experience for you to learn. icon_smile.gif



    Hell the first time I when to gay club, I ended getting fingered by super hot shy guy while sitting on his lap....

    Wow I was a slutty lil thing back in the days! icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 2:32 PM GMT
    I think you should count yourself lucky - he doesn't sound like the sort of boy you'd take home to mama.