Has anyone ever had a Houseboy?

  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 30, 2010 10:21 PM GMT
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    Or have you ever thought about having a Houseboy...? icon_wink.gif
  • mizu5

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    Nov 30, 2010 10:25 PM GMT
    what IS a houseboy really>

    Is it like a glorified rentboy? Like do they come under the guise of cleanign your house for 300 dollars an hour but really you fuck?>
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 30, 2010 10:28 PM GMT
    I've never had one...but if that's what they charge, I'd at least expect him to clean something ..icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 30, 2010 10:40 PM GMT
    I have and it worked out great !!! Each case is up to a pre-arranged agreements as to what's expected of both parties. The middle 20's guy that lived with me did some work in trade for room and board. He was a self starter and I never had to ask him to do anything, to the contrary I several times told him he'd done enough, relax and do something you want to do. I made it plain to him at the start that I would not be making any advances on him sexually, but that if he asked for sex, I would not turn him down. He smiled and said that was cool with him, two evenings later, he asked, and I agreed !!! the rest is history !!! We got along great and some months later a family illness came up that called him away, I miss the guy a lot.
  • mizu5

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    Nov 30, 2010 10:44 PM GMT
    So wait what is a houseboy? LOL
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    Nov 30, 2010 10:57 PM GMT


    mizu5 saidSo wait what is a houseboy? LOL


    Every arrangement varies... usually it involves a guy living rent-free in exchange, he has to perform various duties... cleaning, sometimes sex.
  • mizu5

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    Nov 30, 2010 10:58 PM GMT
    KardioKing said

    mizu5 saidSo wait what is a houseboy? LOL


    Every arrangement varies... usually it involves a guy living rent-free in exchange, he has to perform various duties... cleaning, sometimes sex.
    hrm

    If I could find a guy who lived in a really nice palce I'd do it. Cleaning only though. LOL

    Notsex. ickypoooooo.
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 30, 2010 11:09 PM GMT
    mizu5 said
    If I could find a guy who lived in a really nice palce I'd do it. Cleaning only though. LOL.


    um...what do you consider a really nice place? icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 30, 2010 11:18 PM GMT
    mizu5 said
    KardioKing said

    mizu5 saidSo wait what is a houseboy? LOL


    Every arrangement varies... usually it involves a guy living rent-free in exchange, he has to perform various duties... cleaning, sometimes sex.
    hrm

    If I could find a guy who lived in a really nice palce I'd do it. Cleaning only though. LOL

    Notsex. ickypoooooo.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> LOL !!!! Usually its the houseboys duty to help make and keep it a "nice place", including yard work and the like, a lot of the houseboi's like to learn about maintainance of a home too, maybe some building, remodel work, in trade for their room and board, and if you don't want sex, you should make that plain, shouldn't be a problem. "ickypoooo"===== LOL !!!!!
  • masculumpedes

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    Nov 30, 2010 11:49 PM GMT
    mizu5 said

    Notsex. ickypoooooo.



    Oh, I totally agree...that why it takes a few hours of foreplay to remove the ickypooooooness icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 12:13 AM GMT
    mizu5 saidwhat IS a houseboy really>

    Is it like a glorified rentboy? Like do they come under the guise of cleanign your house for 300 dollars an hour but really you fuck?>


    Is that what your charging nowadays, hun? geez, guess I'll be checking out a different company for my mexican casa.........icon_lol.gif.............Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 1:54 AM GMT
    I've had a few houseboys. Some were great, some were...ok...some were just boring.

    Oh wait...you mean my own houseboy? Uh, no. Not yet. Just other people's houseboys.
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    Dec 01, 2010 1:57 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI've had a few houseboys. Some were great, some were...ok...some were just boring.

    Oh wait...you mean my own houseboy? Uh, no. Not yet. Just other people's houseboys.
    Ha ha ha hardy har har..
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    Dec 01, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    realifedad said I have and it worked out great !!! Each case is up to a pre-arranged agreements as to what's expected of both parties. The middle 20's guy that lived with me did some work in trade for room and board. He was a self starter and I never had to ask him to do anything, to the contrary I several times told him he'd done enough, relax and do something you want to do. I made it plain to him at the start that I would not be making any advances on him sexually, but that if he asked for sex, I would not turn him down. He smiled and said that was cool with him, two evenings later, he asked, and I agreed !!! the rest is history !!! We got along great and some months later a family illness came up that called him away, I miss the guy a lot.



    Oh the things you guys do south of Fairfax...LOL...sounds like a good time. icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 2:01 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI've had a few houseboys. Some were great, some were...ok...some were just boring.

    Oh wait...you mean my own houseboy? Uh, no. Not yet. Just other people's houseboys.


    you're hot..i believe other people's houseboys...LOL
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 01, 2010 2:02 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI've had a few houseboys. Some were great, some were...ok...some were just boring.

    Oh wait...you mean my own houseboy? Uh, no. Not yet. Just other people's houseboys.


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    Dec 01, 2010 2:13 AM GMT
    i worked as a houseboyboy for a gay couple. it was wonderful. i exchanged cleaning services for room and board. i would clean, make breakfast, dinner, all that good stuff and was able to live there for free in a really nice part of the house. There was no sex involved.
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    Dec 01, 2010 2:22 AM GMT
    yeah although they were paid as well but this is back before i before i lost everything icon_smile.gif
  • MusicMan87

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    Dec 01, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    sounds like a sweet deal! except for the sex... depending icon_twisted.gif haha and as long I was able to practice.....
  • mizu5

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    Dec 01, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    realifedad said
    mizu5 said
    KardioKing said

    mizu5 saidSo wait what is a houseboy? LOL


    Every arrangement varies... usually it involves a guy living rent-free in exchange, he has to perform various duties... cleaning, sometimes sex.
    hrm

    If I could find a guy who lived in a really nice palce I'd do it. Cleaning only though. LOL

    Notsex. ickypoooooo.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> LOL !!!! Usually its the houseboys duty to help make and keep it a "nice place", including yard work and the like, a lot of the houseboi's like to learn about maintainance of a home too, maybe some building, remodel work, in trade for their room and board, and if you don't want sex, you should make that plain, shouldn't be a problem. "ickypoooo"===== LOL !!!!!
    I can';t imagine someone wanting to learn building and remodling in exchange for a palce to live. That assumes the person he is living with knows that stuff.
    I thoguht they just cleaned and cooked.
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:07 AM GMT
    I've had 2 houseboys. Their duties were to keep the house / yard spotless, watch after pets, laundry, cooking, etc. In exchange, the first lived rent-free and the second lived with me and paid very little rent. My last houseboy even packed me lunches before I'd head off to work / class. I didn't have sex with either of them.

    I've had other boys that had other duties, some of which involved cleaning, but they didn't live with me for longer than a few days in a row, and they were disciplined much more harshly than my houseboys. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:26 AM GMT
    Never had a houseboy...almost was one in college for a bit...have hired 3 personal assistants for brief periods of time when I held 2.5 jobs and needed help... It was worth every penny to have my dry cleaning picked up, laundry done, groceries done, food cooked, house cleaned, etc, when I was doing the 85 hour work weeks.
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:33 AM GMT
    I looked in to becoming a personal assistant/domestic service personnel. I would give anything to get away and become a house boy. Granted, i do have stipulations that would make it a bit difficult.
  • cscott21pdx

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    Jan 11, 2017 11:42 PM GMT
    I lived in a house where one of the other tenants was a houseboy.

    Again the agreement varies form person to person.

    Sex can be involved or not depending on that agreement. For guys that are very sexual, they may enjoy this kind of relationship.

    Some guys love the dynamic of the relationship including the sex. Whether its a sub/dom thing or they just love the idea of serving and making another man happy. Usually there is mutual attraction and in some ways these are real relationships where both parties have stipulated up from what they expect from the other sexually and with chores as part of the living arrangement.

    If you are a guy who loves sex and serving another guy, having an arrangement like this could be extremely satisfying.

    There are many people who's fetish(es) make the house boy option perfect for them.

    Sometimes a younger guy is looking for an older guy - this might be a good way to meet one.

    This is obviously not a good arrangement for someone who doesn't like sex or the employer feels like tehy have teh right to sex.

    Sex should always be voluntary and mutually agreeable.

    With that said, I'm sure there are many cases where this is abused.

    Please Note: I am firmly opposed to people being sold or being forced to commit sexual acts.
  • craycraydoesd...

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    Jan 12, 2017 2:48 AM GMT
    ^^Gross. The fact you even have to make that disclaimer looool.

    When I was in manhattan, I know of a few houseboys. It's always financially-motivated - it just happens to gross them out less. And it's only a few hours a week - the houseboys spend more time with their actual boyfriends or hookups.