Do you feel like love isn't for you?

  • Little_Spoon

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    Dec 01, 2010 10:35 AM GMT


    This love


    Who are we to be emotional
    Who are we to play with hearts and throw away it all
    Who are we to turn eachothers heads
    Who are we to find ourselves in other peoples beds

    Oh I don't like the way I never listen to myself
    I feel like I'm on fire and I'm too shy to cry for help

    Oh I don't think you know me much at all
    At all

    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall
    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall
    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall
    I'm feeling down about this love

    Who are you to make me feel so good
    Who are we to tell ourselves that we're misunderstood
    Oh who am I to say I'm always yours
    Who am I to choose the boy that everyone adores
    Oh I don't see a reason why we can't just be apart
    We're falling on eachother like we're always in the dark
    Oh I don't think you know me much at all, at all

    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall
    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall
    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall

    Fall
    This love is not what you want
    This heart will never be yours
    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall
    This love is be and end all
    This love will be your downfall
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 01, 2010 1:07 PM GMT
    So...do you just like the song or do you feel like love isn't for you? icon_confused.gif
  • Starboard

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    Dec 01, 2010 2:02 PM GMT
    Since the question is posted in the Dating & Relationships category, I am assuming that the question is literal.

    And I think it's a great question.

    It seems that there are people in the world that find the pursuit of love a full-time, all-consuming obsession. These are the Carrie Bradshaws of the world, and they are totally unhappy and lost when they are not in a relationship.

    It seems that a lot of women (more than men) feel like they need to have someone in their lives in order to feel complete. Though, the syndrome is not exclusive to women...my younger brother is a total dick whenever he is single.

    Personally, I am not good at relationships, so as goes anything in life in which I do not excel, I do not go after it or seek it out. I definitely wouldn't say that I am not for love, but it does seem that love is not often for me.
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    Dec 01, 2010 2:51 PM GMT
    Not for me. I tried, but I am missing some sort of relationship gene in my make up. Being single isn't so bad (though I acknowledge that pairing up is the way forward).
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:20 PM GMT
    Don't give up on love.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 01, 2010 3:28 PM GMT
    TerraFirma saidDon't give up on love.
    well since i have not been in love before i can't say i know you all are talking about. however, i do wonder if love is for me. not that i do not want to be in love. i just wonder if i am meant to fall in love
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 01, 2010 3:30 PM GMT
    Everyone is meant to fall in love...we just sometimes fall for the wrong person.icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 3:31 PM GMT
    At this point, unfortunately, no. In due time after I've healed and really moved on I think I may be able to. I still hold out hope though.
  • austinlee

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    Dec 01, 2010 4:22 PM GMT
    I think love is for everyone. It doesnt have to be love between you and boyfriends, but could be anything .. my 2 cents! icon_rolleyes.gificon_question.gif
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    Dec 01, 2010 6:55 PM GMT
    LOVE is always for You.

    Are YOU for Love?
  • mybud

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    Dec 01, 2010 9:52 PM GMT
    Presently I'm trying to work on loving myself....When that's completed...maybe.....
  • Little_Spoon

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    Dec 01, 2010 9:59 PM GMT
    Starboard saidSince the question is posted in the Dating & Relationships category, I am assuming that the question is literal.

    And I think it's a great question.

    It seems that there are people in the world that find the pursuit of love a full-time, all-consuming obsession. These are the Carrie Bradshaws of the world, and they are totally unhappy and lost when they are not in a relationship.

    It seems that a lot of women (more than men) feel like they need to have someone in their lives in order to feel complete. Though, the syndrome is not exclusive to women...my younger brother is a total dick whenever he is single.

    Personally, I am not good at relationships, so as goes anything in life in which I do not excel, I do not go after it or seek it out. I definitely wouldn't say that I am not for love, but it does seem that love is not often for me.


    Actually, it was MOVED here.

    o.O
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    Dec 01, 2010 10:02 PM GMT
    Get out of Hampton. It's making you emo. Come move to Nawfuck, Daniel. icon_razz.gif
  • Little_Spoon

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    Dec 01, 2010 10:11 PM GMT
    Ganymede80 saidGet out of Hampton. It's making you emo. Come move to Nawfuck, Daniel. icon_razz.gif


    Are you asking me out?
  • oyoung

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    Dec 01, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    Love is for everyone, and everyone is for love. That's how love works.
    When one feels not for love, just because missing of giving or accepting.

    Have you guys heard about "MICHAEL BUBLE - HAVEN'T MET YOU YET "?
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    Dec 01, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    Well I know love is for me icon_biggrin.gif . I am just not going to search for it like a mad man. It will come when it comes
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    Dec 01, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    Sometimes you only praise love the most when you have already lost it. Then you wake up and realize, I should have been nurturing it all along instead of taking it for granted.
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    Dec 01, 2010 10:25 PM GMT
    mybud saidPresently I'm trying to work on loving myself....When that's completed...maybe.....


    That is such as Oprah statement.....

    but secretly it makes so much sense!
  • shirty

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    Dec 01, 2010 10:34 PM GMT
    3rdtimeacharm saidSometimes you only praise love the most when you have already lost it. Then you wake up and realize, I should have been nurturing it all along instead of taking it for granted.


    Quoted for truth.
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:42 AM GMT
    After some hard lessons and even harder looks at myself and my family history, love revealed itself to not truly be love. I'm not sure if I'm
    Hardwired to give it and receive it in the intent it was meant to be. This is certainly a question I ponder. For now, having healthy role models is most important. In time I hope to get there, but if I don't, I'm not going to worry about it.
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:45 AM GMT
    I know love isnt for me. After 35 years of being alive, Im sure im right. I have my reasons that I cannot disclose here but just not into it
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    Dec 02, 2010 7:00 AM GMT
    3rdtimeacharm saidSometimes you only praise love the most when you have already lost it. Then you wake up and realize, I should have been nurturing it all along instead of taking it for granted.




    THIS!!! and may I also add that one of the main reasons why most men, from any sexual persuasion ( specially gay men) feels that love isn't for them, is because of our selfishness and narcissistic personable traits. Most are too self centered, vain, superficial, and too selfish to share much less know what love is!!.


    Leandro ♥
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 02, 2010 7:09 AM GMT
    ALEZANDAR said



    THIS!!! and may I also add that one of the main reasons why most men, from any sexual persuasion ( specially gay men) feels that love isn't for them, is because of our selfishness and narcissistic personable traits. Most are too self centered, vain, superficial, and too selfish to share much less know what love is!!.


    Leandro ♥



    Hallelujah, Amen Amen.....icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 21, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    Love is for EVERYONE. Too many folks try to contain love and specify how love should come to them and be for them is the problem. In other words, romance is not love; a relationship is not love; a commitment is not love. Love is continuous effort over time and shouldn't be limited.
  • needleninja

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    Jan 21, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    i may feel lonely at times, but love is still for me, and i want to keep it that way.