Getting funny Looks

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    Dec 01, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    I have a sense that some people out there are jealous of those who they think look better or more attractive than they are. If you are sexy, be sexy! That is what I believe, but its harder for me to implement...i get self conscious because I tend to think people will look and make fun of me when they see I am trying to act sexy...when i just let myself behave loosely. I usually hold mysef so uptight and rigid because I have on a couple of occasions had a couple friends actually take notice and laugh.

    I feel they laugh out of their own pathetic self consciousness and because THEY feel uncomfortable. It pisses me off.



    Does anyone else deal with this/ have dealt with it? I know it sounds stupid but it is an actual issue.
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    Dec 01, 2010 12:53 PM GMT
    Maybe they are teasing you in a friendly way...I've teased my mate many times when he tries to come off as sexy but I have told him that its in good humor and not out of any snideness.


    Plus its really about envy rather than jealously when someone portrays themselves as being more attractive. I mean sometimes I get envious I'm not able to attract enough attention but then again having too much attention has disadvantages.. All I can say is that just be comfortable in your skin and pay no heed to whether you can and can not attract people. If you're a well mannered all around good guy, chances are the right circle of people will be attracted for that reason
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    Dec 01, 2010 2:09 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidMaybe they are teasing you in a friendly way...I've teased my mate many times when he tries to come off as sexy but I have told him that its in good humor and not out of any snideness.


    Plus its really about envy rather than jealously when someone portrays themselves as being more attractive. I mean sometimes I get envious I'm not able to attract enough attention but then again having too much attention has disadvantages.. All I can say is that just be comfortable in your skin and pay no heed to whether you can and can not attract people. If you're a well mannered all around good guy, chances are the right circle of people will be attracted for that reason


    Wise words.

    I attract way more attention that I'd like, but that's because I'm 6'7" and living in Asia. You should see me in the subway. When I get pointed at or hear people talking about me, I try to just shrug it off. Just try not to let it get to you. As Fivealive said, be yourself, do what you like, and you will attract the right kind of people to you.