Why won't this gay guy leave me alone!?

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    Dec 01, 2010 9:25 PM GMT
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    Dec 01, 2010 9:28 PM GMT
    Maybe you need a restraining order, or the UK equivalent.
  • oyoung

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    Dec 01, 2010 9:34 PM GMT
    dammmmm that's drama which I hate the most. I cannot believe it is worse than my ex-. Anyway, think about it, he is only 19~~~ right? What do you expect him to do? He thought he fell in love with you, and he tried to chasing you.
    I just think he needs more time to calm down. It is better not to do anything like kissing others in front of him which could make him go crazy. In fact, it might be good not to talk to him, even see him for a while.
    What an angry person and a sad one~. It is the reality!
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    Dec 01, 2010 10:24 PM GMT
    wow. I agree with Art, perhaps you two should stay far away from each other. What he's doing is harassment not to mention battery. Changing your number may be a hassle but it could work. This guy just doesn't handle rejection too well. Good Luck.
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    Dec 02, 2010 5:54 AM GMT
    Fuck him and get it over with?

    Seriously, the whole best friend and brother thing is cause for retribution in some measure. Whatever started out as playful "I'mma get you" has obviously escalated and been exacerbated by the whole "best friend/brother" combo.

    Oh and when you fuck him make it awful, so he doesn't want anything more to do with you.
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    Dec 02, 2010 5:55 AM GMT
    FUCK HIM ALREADY! SHUT HIS MOUTH UP WITH SOMETHING! He probably might leave you alone after that. Hit it and quit it!
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    Dec 02, 2010 5:58 AM GMT
    He punched you in the face more than once on the street because of anger over unanswered love?

    That's feisty, give me his number already, woof icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 02, 2010 5:59 AM GMT
    WhatsMyName said i bumped into the gay guy who use to like me an he punched me afew times in the face, but i didn't do anything back i just let it slide. The next day i had a massive black eye (still have) and he'd tried ringing me to say sorry but i told him.. i've got nothing to say and that i want nothing to do with him.



    HAHA...Ehem.... I mean what did you do to make this guy punch your lights out a couple times??? Your like a dear caught in head lights I suggest you stay far away from the drama, but I do feel some of it you caused on your own by flirting and kissing with his friend and brother that's a no no. I wish you well


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  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Dec 02, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    Keep ignoring. Definitely stay away from his friends and his brother.
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:09 AM GMT
    im shocked that u didnt beat his ass my ex did me like this and i beat tha socks off his his then choked tha hell out of him. but if i was u i would act like he doesnt exist and slap him with a order from the cops take pics of your eye for a reference and then he will have to stop. because if he hits u now he will def do it again. If u do talk to him let him know that any chance he had is gone because if he is hitting you and ur not dating what is to say he want shoot or stab you in a relationship out of anger, saying im sorry doesn't pay them doctors.
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:12 AM GMT
    Maybe you should meet him (with friends nearby) and just have a frank discussion. His obsession has already reached over capacity (with some doing on your part) so its best that try to subdue it as best as u can. If he gets all worked up and starts to act out, make sure your friends can intervene in case it goes really sour.
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:28 AM GMT
    Fivealive saidMaybe you should meet him (with friends nearby) and just have a frank discussion. His obsession has already reached over capacity (with some doing on your part) so its best that try to subdue it as best as u can. If he gets all worked up and starts to act out, make sure your friends can intervene in case it goes really sour.


    A good recommendation. Have a third party mediate.
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:31 AM GMT
    Pictures please. We need to see if you're fuckable, and if he's fuckable.

    Let us decide if you should give it up to him and get it over with.

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  • jperfit

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    Dec 03, 2010 1:05 AM GMT
    If somebody hit me i would kick their ass, sounds like he is trying to bully you
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    Dec 03, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    Never get drunk and be alone with him, never relax around him, or he will take advantage of it; and that is rape. I know I have been there before, and been told I'll have you on-day too.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 03, 2010 1:46 AM GMT
    Sounds like a bunch of useless drama. If your kissing everybody around him, he probably thinks he could get with you someday. I suggest you divorce yourself from the situation and don't put yourself in a position where he can lust after you. Kiss somebody new who he doesn't know...
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    Dec 03, 2010 1:52 AM GMT
    You should consider carrying a weapon in case he flips out on you again.
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    Dec 03, 2010 2:12 AM GMT
    Bitchslap him and start yelling harrassment charges at him in public.
    He wants drama, give it to him!
  • barriehomeboy

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    Dec 03, 2010 2:15 AM GMT
    How did you arrive at the conclusion that you're bi, and not gay? I didn't see anything about women in there.