For old time's sake.

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    Dec 02, 2010 1:55 AM GMT
    It's been 9 months. I haven't seen him or heard from him once.
    I sometimes wonder if he thinks about me, even though I know he doesn't.
    I thought I was over him, but I guess I'm not.
    I sometimes think I might be hooked on the feeling of being heartbroken.
    I know there's no point in it. What's done is done. But I find myself wallowing in the memories of him... just one more time.
    For old time's sake.

    Do you ever find yourself in this kind of position?
  • Sparkycat

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    Dec 02, 2010 5:28 AM GMT
    If you're grieving a major loss it usually takes more than nine months.
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    Dec 02, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    Yep, I sure did. Over 16 years of being single and not, then single, then not, I'd say at about a dozen or so times. I learned a lot about me. I learned a lot about what to pine for and what to not pine for.
    With a few, we got back together, for awhile. Which says a lot right there, doesn't it?



    Eep!

    -Doug


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    Dec 02, 2010 5:45 AM GMT
    Hang in there, i have been there and i know how you feel..Stay strong mate!!
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 02, 2010 5:49 AM GMT
    Nah...once I cry over someone I'm good to go. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:07 AM GMT
    meninlove said Yep, I sure did. Over 16 years of being single and not, then single, then not, I'd say at about a dozen or so times. I learned a lot about me. I learned a lot about what to pine for and what to not pine for.
    With a few, we got back together, for awhile. Which says a lot right there, doesn't it?



    Eep!

    -Doug





    Then, I met Bill.
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    Dec 02, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    The only ones I still think about are the ones with which it came to an amicable ending. I still wonder how he's doing, if he's happy. If my heart was broken, he's dead to me.
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    Dec 02, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    Avoid focusing on the heartache, the good times are what you hold dear and what you should keep with you.
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    Dec 03, 2010 3:24 AM GMT
    Haha, well the thing is, I am thinking about the good times, what I miss enjoying. And enjoy missing. Get it?
    I heard it somewhere that you shouldn't dwell in the past. Of course it's good once in a while to revisit good memories. I'm just contemplating.
    Thanks for the concern though. You guys are all right. icon_smile.gif