If ur A TOP, would You Have A Problem If the Guy You're With Was More Hung Than U?

  • Saffron69

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    Dec 03, 2010 12:06 AM GMT
    Being a well hung bottom, I've always wondered about this, most guys I've met (sadly not many) love the fact I gotta big one, but when for example ur on a date site and on the 'endowment' selection a bottom boi has 'extra large' and he's is convincingly bigger than U, would u skip his pro n grab a 'my size meal' or would u consider it a bonus? Or does it matter? Reason I ask is cause for the longest time on my date site I had selected 'large' until this guy told me Im actually 'extra large'. Since then my messages have rapdily decreased I haven't changed anything else on this profile... so it got me wondering is me being so big scaring people off?
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    Dec 03, 2010 12:59 AM GMT
    Really doesn't matter to me one way or other. As long as the guy is happy with what he has it should not matter.
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    Dec 03, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    Saffron69 saidBeing a well hung bottom, I've always wondered about this, most guys I've met (sadly not many) love the fact I gotta big one, but when for example ur on a date site and on the 'endowment' selection a bottom boi has 'extra large' and he's is convincingly bigger than U, would u skip his pro n grab a 'my size meal' or would u consider it a bonus? Or does it matter? Reason I ask is cause for the longest time on my date site I had selected 'large' until this guy told me Im actually 'extra large'. Since then my messages have rapdily decreased I haven't changed anything else on this profile... so it got me wondering is me being so big scaring people off?


    Maybe all the potentials in your circle have already fucked you and it actually has nothing to do with the size of your cock.
  • laxdude25

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    Dec 03, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    Hey, I love fucking an extra large endowed bottom...if he's a great bottom in every other sense. I would never turn down a guy if he's gotta bigger body and/or cock. In face, as a guy who's on the shorter (5'10") and lean/muscular v. bulked up, it's kinda hot to top a guy who's bigger than I am in all respects.
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    Dec 03, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
    I dont think it matters. It is kind of hot to top a guy and play with his parts. That is made a bit easier if he has good anatomy.
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    Dec 03, 2010 2:31 AM GMT
    Your partners may be embarrassed thinking theyre Da shit, pound you hard with their big dicks then they discover YOUre bigger! Penis Envy! icon_lol.gif
    But it shouldnt matter really. They were probably afraid you were gonna top them. Find somebody else.
  • NerdLifter

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    Dec 03, 2010 2:37 AM GMT
    I'm still trying to understand what is so important about a "hung" dick anyway?

    I dunno, I guess I'm just wired differently to not give a &*^% about what his dick looks like.
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    Dec 03, 2010 2:42 AM GMT
    I think its hot if the guys bigger than me in any respect when i top him, course when i bottom its also hot if hes bigger than me too, lol. I just like em big, though that doesnt apply to penis size. Big or small i like em all, lol.
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    Dec 03, 2010 2:43 AM GMT
    Studinprogress saidI'm still trying to understand what is so important about a "hung" dick anyway?

    I dunno, I guess I'm just wired differently to not give a &*^% about what his dick looks like.


    Same here. Who cares how big it is. It is what he does with it that counts.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 03, 2010 2:44 AM GMT
    That doesn't matter because it is all about the booty. The bigger the booty, the better. The dick can be huge, small, non-existent, but if the ass is right...it doesn't matter. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 03, 2010 3:05 AM GMT
    nope, bigger is no need for insecurity on my part...I just need to fuck you in the ass, that's all bubi!
  • Saffron69

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    Dec 03, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    Maybe all the potentials in your circle have already fucked you and it actually has nothing to do with the size of your cock.[/quote]

    No, there are too many potentials for that... besides I can still count on 1 hand the amount o dicks that have been in me... Still very much a tite assicon_wink.gif
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    Dec 03, 2010 3:54 AM GMT
    laxdude25 saidHey, I love fucking an extra large endowed bottom...if he's a great bottom in every other sense. I would never turn down a guy if he's gotta bigger body and/or cock. In face, as a guy who's on the shorter (5'10") and lean/muscular v. bulked up, it's kinda hot to top a guy who's bigger than I am in all respects.



    I agree...I think it's more about physicality and attitude than penis size.

    I've already decided whether I'd rather top or bottom before the pants come off.
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    Dec 03, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    No, would not have a problem if the guy I'm with is more hung. No big deal.
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    Dec 03, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    The bigger the Joystick the easier it is to control icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 03, 2010 10:00 AM GMT
    Samm77 saidThe bigger the Joystick the easier it is to control icon_razz.gif


    Haha, yeah and fucking a bottom on their back while sucking their dick is good too!

    It wouldn't bother me if a bottom was more hung. It actually never happened, though a few were about the same.
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    Dec 03, 2010 10:21 AM GMT
    Saffron69 said...on my date site I had selected 'large' until this guy told me Im actually 'extra large'. Since then my messages have rapdily decreased I haven't changed anything else on this profile... so it got me wondering is me being so big scaring people off?

    So change your profile back to "large" and see if the responses increase- it seems like a very simple, straight forward solution to a minor problem...
  • Saffron69

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    Dec 03, 2010 6:37 PM GMT
    No I won't change it back. Im very honest on my profiles Even minor details, I can be pretty anal (is it any wonder why Im gayicon_lol.gif ) look this was jus n observation it didn't hurt my feelings or anything. When it comes right down to it I want a guy who can accept that Im full package deal, U don't get a piece o me U get the whole thingicon_cool.gif
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    Dec 03, 2010 6:40 PM GMT
    Does such a bottom exisit?
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    Dec 03, 2010 7:03 PM GMT
    jimib saidDoes such a bottom exisit?


    Oh yes. The amount of guys I have had and knowen, that you could of call horse, and the moment they hit the bed, up went those legs!!! In fact I'm surprised at how commion it is.

    Would this be an issue for one, no I would rather it be that way, but then I'm proude at the fact at my age my ass is still so tight, it can whistle.
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    Dec 03, 2010 7:07 PM GMT
    True_blue_aussie said
    jimib saidDoes such a bottom exisit?


    Oh yes. The amount of guys I have had and knowen, that you could of call horse, and the moment they hit the bed, up went those legs!!! In fact I'm surprised at how commion it is.

    Would this be an issue for one, no I would rather it be that way, but then I'm proude at the fact at my age my ass is still so tight, it can whistle.


    Never happened to me.
  • d_1M

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    Dec 03, 2010 7:08 PM GMT
    as far it stays out me, i dont see why thats a problemm, unless you brag about it to creat an issue bout that !!!
  • Beeftastic

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    Dec 04, 2010 9:15 AM GMT
    I've been with a lot of bottoms that were bigger than me, some hung like horses. I find it hot. I think the fact it doesn't phase me or my aggressiveness to fuck them turns them on too icon_smile.gif

  • Dec 04, 2010 6:13 PM GMT
    Nothin' hotter than fucking the shit out of a guy with a huge dick. icon_smile.gif
  • rnch

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    Dec 04, 2010 6:19 PM GMT
    when we are in the "heat of passion", with both guys naked, hard and horny, with anal insertion happening/about to happen, such a mundane detail as to who's dick is an inch or so longer will NOT be an issue for me!

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