dogs in my bf's bed...but not ME! grrrrrrrrr

  • rnch

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    Dec 05, 2010 11:22 PM GMT
    my bf's house is still being renovated. it's full of air leaks, gaps in the floors, leaking windows.....you get the idea.

    the barely adequate heating system is overwhelmed.

    in order to stay warm, my bf is allowing his 2 dogs in the bed with him.

    these are dogs that root around in the back yard, spend time in the mud under the house, long haired dogs that shed big time.

    call me picky and anal-retenative...but i don't feel comfortable sleeping on the same sheets that the animials occupied.

    i laid down the law and told him that if he wants sex from me we are doing it in MY bed.

    he's not happy about this.

    wadduathunk?
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    Dec 05, 2010 11:25 PM GMT
    Stand your ground! Or tell him the bed needs laundering for lovemaking. icon_wink.gif

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    Dec 05, 2010 11:37 PM GMT
    That is gross. The only dirty dog in the bed should be your boyfriend. Stand your ground and be tough. Sometimes you gotta be a Cruella Deville.
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    Dec 06, 2010 12:24 AM GMT
    Haha!! Sorry, had to do that. icon_biggrin.gif

    With eleven sled dogs and one short hair running around my house, dogs in the bed are inevitable. The vizsla insists on being under the covers too. Most of the huskies stay off the bed if I'm in it, but not always.

    What do I do? I change the sheets before bed (or when I get up in the AM) and kick the dogs out of the room when I want to have some fun.

    Don't be so up tight, just roll with it...icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 06, 2010 12:32 AM GMT
    icon_lol.gif Sound like my grandmother. She always said "dog is dog. They are not suppose in the house or bed"icon_lol.gif
  • MrPapo317

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    Dec 06, 2010 12:32 AM GMT
    I did that with my ex but the dogs were not outdoor dogs. ill never do it again. to me its gross to have animals sleeping in the same bed.
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    Dec 06, 2010 12:37 AM GMT
    One of my dogs will sometimes come up on the bed and sleep in the middle of the night but he always stays at the foot end on top of the covers. Others I've owned same thing, they don't actually sleep on the sheets though sometimes I've caught them napping on the sheets of an unmade bed when they think they're not gonna be caught LOL
    Same with the good couch in the livingroom they're not supposed to be up on. They would never do it while I'm in the house.. but I'll come home sometimes and find furry "evidence" that they were.
    And then there's the coming home and finding a spotlessly clean large roasting pan sitting in the middle of the livingroom carpet when I'm absolutely positive the last time I saw it was on top of the stove, pushed right to the back panel with some leftover gravy in it.
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    Dec 06, 2010 12:49 AM GMT
    Tell him that as long as the dogs are in HIS bed, all sex will be happening in YOUR bed, whether he's in it or not.
  • jgymnast733

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    Dec 06, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    GROSS,
    He should know better, does he also kiss his dogs in the mouth? ..Tell him how its gonna be, that sleeping with the dogs is out....icon_exclaim.gif
  • maximumrisk

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    Dec 06, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    I love my Dogs and they sleep on my Bed all the time. My Bedroom has a direct access to the backyard, so the Dogs come and go as they please. So far there has been no big problem.

    The Dogs have a special sheet over the bed so they wont make anything dirty and sleeping with me is out of the question anyway. For a normal long haired Dog it gets to warm after a bit of time and they leave.
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    Dec 06, 2010 1:03 AM GMT
    My cat usually jumps on my bed in the middle of the night... when my friend was sleeping over it did so and it was fine, but when we wanted some morning action, I kicked her out of the room
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    Dec 06, 2010 1:19 AM GMT
    Sorry, not into bestiality. No dogs in bed with me.

    Tell BF to buy a heating blanket to put under the pups' beds.
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    Dec 06, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    i see nothing wrong. my dog sleeps in my bed sometimes or on the floor.
  • neosyllogy

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    Dec 06, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
    rnch saidwadduathunk?


    That you're an anal retentive sissy.
    Unless the dogs are actively tracking mud in the bed (which they're not, or you would have mentioned it, like you did the shedding), you're just being a big baby. Seriously, the dogs are probably cleaner than you guys are.
    Personally I'd tell you tough luck, dogs get to share the bed.
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    Dec 06, 2010 1:54 AM GMT
    neosyllogy said
    rnch saidwadduathunk?


    That you're an anal retentive sissy.
    Unless the dogs are actively tracking mud in the bed (which they're not, or you would have mentioned it, like you did the shedding), you're just being a big baby. Seriously, the dogs are probably cleaner than you guys are.
    Personally I'd tell you tough luck, dogs get to share the bed.


    WORD! My dogs sleep on my comforter, I sleep under the comforter and/or the sheets, it's a non issue.

    Occasionally, Godiva (my chocolate lab) tries to sleep between my boyfriend and I. She likes being the center of attention. However, she's a dog and we move her to the end of the bed. Suck it up and stop being a diva.
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    Dec 06, 2010 2:13 AM GMT
    Not that big of a deal. The dogs are clean (as animals go), they have their shots and are probably friendly.

    The worst thing you'll have to deal with is the shedding but that's easy to over come. Simple get a blanket and cover the the outer part of the bed that the dogs can lay on.

    Other then that I wouldn't be so quick to throw an ultimatum like that out because I'm willing to bet those dogs were there before you and might be there after you. They are man's best friend.
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    Dec 06, 2010 2:14 AM GMT
    If you're not comfortable with that mess, then I can't imagine the sex would be very satisfying anyway. You wouldn't be into it knowing that you're rolling around in filth.

    You don't have to be a "sissy" to appreciate basic cleanliness. Dogs are fantastic companions, but your bed is your bed. Who knows what hitches a ride onto the dog when they return inside?

    Stand your ground.
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    Dec 06, 2010 2:21 AM GMT
    Somebody has to be the adult, the dog will be content sleeping next to the bed or even in the same room. I've had all kinds of dogs and love them dearly, but they don't have to sleep in bed with you. If the guy feels his dogs are more important than his partner, than there's a problem there.
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    Dec 06, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    I'd check to see if he is keeping a jar of peanut butter handy!
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  • barriehomeboy

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    Dec 06, 2010 2:25 AM GMT
    You're old enough to remember a band called Three Dog Night. I can't remember a song of theirs, but the name sticks. A three dog night is a realy cold night in Australia, because the natives there judge the temperature at night by the number of dogs they have to snuggle with to keep from freezing to death. That's where the band got it's name, and maybe you're one of the dogs your bf is using to keep himself from freezing!
  • rnch

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    Dec 06, 2010 2:26 AM GMT
    sydney_cider saidI'd check to see if he is keeping a jar of peanut butter handy!
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    Dec 06, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    chemguy79 said

    WORD! My dogs sleep on my comforter, I sleep under the comforter and/or the sheets, it's a non issue. Same here but only when I allow it..

    (my chocolate lab) tries to sleep between my boyfriend and I. She likes being the center of attention. However, she's a dog
    All chocolate labs (mine included), are NOT dogs... they are 'little furry humans'.... LMAO or so they THINK they are!
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    Dec 06, 2010 4:38 AM GMT
    sxydrkhair saidThat is easy. Tell your boyfriend to sleep outside with his dogs.


    LMAO spoken like a true partner
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    Dec 06, 2010 4:39 AM GMT
    i say find another place to sleep. Leave the dogs be.
  • conservativej...

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    Dec 06, 2010 4:41 AM GMT
    Sounds like a plan.