Single for the first time since coming out...

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    Dec 07, 2010 8:03 PM GMT
    And I think I'm going to write a report on all the guys I "talk" to.
    So far I have 6 subjects, and all 6 are very different.


    But until I do all of that, I pose this question...


    After you've become single, did you ever notice the people who wanted your balls beforehand, all of a sudden have disappeared or no longer show interest?
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    Dec 08, 2010 12:24 AM GMT
    navi_leinad saidYeah, the mentality I hear changes for those single guys, they figure if they can have you well you're not wanted since they prefer wanting what they know they can't have. And as such think its too easy of a challenge to win. Or well in some cases they can spot someone who may be a little more desperate to have someone again.
    so write about what exactly?

    The different personality traits of the one's I've talked to. Granted, it will only be from my perspective, but I already have "The Cute Flake", "The One Who Only Talks About Meeting Up And Fucking", "The Sugar Daddy", and "The Hot One Who No Longer Wants You When He Realizes You're Not As Hot As Him".
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    Dec 08, 2010 4:03 AM GMT
    This sounds like the Duke Fuck List.

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    Dec 08, 2010 6:31 AM GMT
    It's a game people play. Its called, "you only want what you can't have. And, "after you get what you want, you don't want it." You tube it, and listen to Marilyn sing it.
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    Dec 08, 2010 6:36 AM GMT
    Trev I completely understand the guys who want you while you're not available are suddenly gone when you are. But now that your single enjoy yourself mostly...and have fun icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 08, 2010 6:36 AM GMT
    shaag382 saidThis sounds like the Duke Fuck List.



    I hope the guys are as hot!

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    Dec 08, 2010 6:56 AM GMT
    Babe, so you really are single?? I thought it was a joke!!! Im sorry babe icon_sad.gif

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    Oo, do I get to be one of the 6?? icon_razz.gif I'd be so flattered lol

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    Dec 08, 2010 6:59 AM GMT
    And o yeah I almost forgot... this is for you icon_razz.gif

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    I aint forgotten, never will icon_wink.gif
  • owen19832006

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    Dec 08, 2010 7:52 AM GMT
    yeah, youre no longer the forbidden fruit!!
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    Dec 08, 2010 10:16 AM GMT
    DCguy1999 said
    shaag382 saidThis sounds like the Duke Fuck List.



    I hope the guys are as hot!



    I hope there smokin hot!!
  • Tiller66

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    Dec 08, 2010 10:22 AM GMT
    Yea I have noticed that happening but the one I hate is ..when you get the chance to hook up with a crush you had when you were with your man and it's really bad sexicon_evil.gif
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    Dec 08, 2010 10:24 AM GMT
    Maybe it's not that they are no longer interested because you're single, but they gave up trying to get you and moved on to someone else when they knew you were in a relationship!

    Sometimes for whatever reason you just don't end up making something happen with some guys.
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    Dec 08, 2010 10:48 AM GMT
    Flirting with a taken guy may end up in quick and dirty hookup without consequences.

    Flirting with a guy who proven is not adverse to LTR is far more dangerous, you could want to see them more than once ;-)
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    Dec 08, 2010 6:19 PM GMT
    One other possibility: maybe they are still interested but don't want to catch you on the "rebound".
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    Dec 08, 2010 6:42 PM GMT
    There was an episode of 30 Rock this season about how people are more attractive when they're in a relationship.

    I think the reasoning was that you have more confidence when you're not desperately looking for someone to date.
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    Dec 12, 2010 5:53 AM GMT
    amar_m saidAnd o yeah I almost forgot... this is for you icon_razz.gif

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    I aint forgotten, never will icon_wink.gif

    The hopeless romantic islander. ;)
    Hahaha.

    P.S. I'm on without a proxy for the first time in MONTHS.
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    Dec 12, 2010 5:54 AM GMT
    elpapo317 said
    DCguy1999 said
    shaag382 saidThis sounds like the Duke Fuck List.



    I hope the guys are as hot!



    I hope there smokin hot!!

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    Grindr: Chad.

    "The Hot One" on my list. icon_smile.gif