Pauly72 saidK, what's the deal with monogamous guys who post racy, even nude, photos of themselves. To me that's about the biggest "mixed message" you can send. Looking--nudes away! Monogamous--clothed and "platonic" is probably the least hypocritical way to go...
Monogamous here, with one adult pic.
hypocritical ? only if you are uncomfortable with you sexuality.
IT's not about what feel right or wrong for you, it's about what feel right or wrong for me and my partner.
Since when is it ok to tell other what they should feel ?
Would you be ok with someone telling you you should feel like a pervert because he feel that gay sex is a perversion ?
It's about personal integrity. Naked pic in the adult
section of a gay fitness
website don't make me feel uncomfortable. Just like I don't feel uncomfortable to be seen nude in a locker room, fully aware that some look at my body in a fitness point of view, some other with sexual thought, and none offend me, it's natural.
I don't force people to click on the adult section.
I think my body look far better in full than in parts, something about the torso, belly, ass and legs blending into each other.
I do appreciate compliment form people liking my shape or finding me sexy. And I don't need to be insecure to enjoy validation.
And just the same, if I tell someone I find him sexy, it doesn't mean I want something, it just mean I find him sexy.