Bi curious

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    Dec 12, 2010 7:22 AM GMT
    hey guys.
    i joined this site not cos im a body builder but cos im looking for advice on getting out of my shell and having my cherry popped. im 20 years old, and sick of using my hands for everything lol.

    ive found guys over the net, and cammed a lot and get a lot of compliments. but all the guys ive spoken to seem a bit insincere. icon_sad.gif im having a really hard time trusting someone.

    i have thought of going to a bathhouse and just keeping chickening out lol.

    i think for my first time, i just wana give oral and ease my way through things (getting oral, taking a cock - my fingers have helped me find out, id love a cock up the backdoor).

    i think im just really scared of someone pushing the limits or trying to make me go bb, or swallow cum...scared of being expected to do things before im comfortable with them.

    advice?
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    Dec 12, 2010 11:23 AM GMT
    First up. You should never feel pressured into anything, no matter how charming the guy is.

    Second of all start to fill up your profile. No one on this is site is going to be interested in helping you out if you are not able to give a profile about yourself(your personality, likes and dislikes).No one is asking for your social security or credit card number but physical stats (even a visual bod shot) will attract the guys that you may be interested in.


    Lastly just be at ease on this site..Once you've gotten your profile up check out the guys in your vicinity. No one here has an malicious intent so I'm sure you'll be able to make friends on here in no time.

    Take care and don't hesitate to message me or anyone else on this site.
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    Dec 12, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    lol, don't refer to it as cherry popping. Men don't got hymens. icon_wink.gif

    You don't have to do anything faster than you're ready for, or uncomfortable with. No difference there between straight n gay.

    I'm trying to imagine you finding sweet n sincere at a bath...

    -Doug
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    Dec 12, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidFirst up. You should never feel pressured into anything, no matter how charming the guy is.

    Second of all start to fill up your profile. No one on this is site is going to be interested in helping you out if you are not able to give a profile about yourself(your personality, likes and dislikes).No one is asking for your social security or credit card number but physical stats (even a visual bod shot) will attract the guys that you may be interested in.


    Lastly just be at ease on this site..Once you've gotten your profile up check out the guys in your vicinity. No one here has an malicious intent so I'm sure you'll be able to make friends on here in no time.

    Take care and don't hesitate to message me or anyone else on this site.



    excellent, "real world correct" advice from five!!

    wink, the places you have searched at (so fair) reek of insincere and desperate people. nothing good and lasting will come from these "wack off" cam sites.

    you'd be su-prised where you can meet quality gay guys at! coffee shops, gyms, theatres, grocery stores.. does your city have a "gay-friendly" neighborhood that you can go hang out (no pun intended!) at/in?
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    Dec 15, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    Make sure you both get tested or recently tested..
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    Dec 20, 2010 6:26 AM GMT
    thnx for the correction on cherry popping hehe.
    anyway i updated my profile, and msged the one local guy on here. icon_smile.gif