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    Dec 12, 2010 7:48 AM GMT
    So i met this gay friend a year before in facebook and we have never met before in person. He had this facebook status"he did gingerbread house with his amazing boyfriend icon_smile.gif". I replied "aaaww...How romantic! you two have funicon_smile.gif" Today to my surprise i am not in his Friends list anymore....wtf...i still don't understand...Did i say something wrong to him....i only expressed and was happy for him just like with any gay friend....i only wished him to have fun from my heart and wished him good. Where do you think i was wrong?
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    Dec 12, 2010 8:11 AM GMT
    His boyfriend probably made him delete you.

    I used to be questioned on a daily basis of my facebook friends.
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    Dec 12, 2010 8:19 AM GMT
    hauptstimme saidHis boyfriend probably made him delete you.

    I used to be questioned on a daily basis of my facebook friends.


    hhmm but what really puzzles me is the fact that i was only extending the gay happiness, wishing him good with pure heart and that cannot be understood! icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 12, 2010 8:39 AM GMT
    weird. You can ask him why he deleted you, which might be awkward, but he might say why. Maybe he deleted you bc you guys weren't really friends, or he forgot who you were.
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    Dec 12, 2010 8:50 AM GMT
    I suppose if you have never met he may be "cleaning house." Did you post very many comments, or is this the first in three years and he suddenly realized that he has no clue who you are? How did you end up a friend if you have ever met? I suppose that it would be possible he has decided to narrow his "friends" down to people he is in contact with from what could be hundreds of "friends."
    hauptstimme saidHis boyfriend probably made him delete you.

    I used to be questioned on a daily basis of my facebook friends.

    That would be relationship ending right there... Nothing like somebody demanding complete control over your life to remind you that they need to leave.
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    Dec 12, 2010 9:18 AM GMT
    west77 saidI suppose if you have never met he may be "cleaning house." Did you post very many comments, or is this the first in three years and he suddenly realized that he has no clue who you are? How did you end up a friend if you have ever met? I suppose that it would be possible he has decided to narrow his "friends" down to people he is in contact with from what could be hundreds of "friends."
    hauptstimme saidHis boyfriend probably made him delete you.

    I used to be questioned on a daily basis of my facebook friends.

    That would be relationship ending right there... Nothing like somebody demanding complete control over your life to remind you that they need to leave.


    Good thing is that it only lasted three years; I'm quite a bit wiser because of all the abuse I endured.
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    Dec 12, 2010 9:21 AM GMT
    west77 saidI suppose if you have never met he may be "cleaning house." Did you post very many comments, or is this the first in three years and he suddenly realized that he has no clue who you are? How did you end up a friend if you have ever met? I suppose that it would be possible he has decided to narrow his "friends" down to people he is in contact with from what could be hundreds of "friends."


    you may be right! I always am active in facebook and interact with so many of my friends. But since we never have met in person, he might be cleaning his friends list and it so happened now concidentally! may be!
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    Dec 12, 2010 9:23 AM GMT
    hauptstimme said
    west77 saidI suppose if you have never met he may be "cleaning house." Did you post very many comments, or is this the first in three years and he suddenly realized that he has no clue who you are? How did you end up a friend if you have ever met? I suppose that it would be possible he has decided to narrow his "friends" down to people he is in contact with from what could be hundreds of "friends."
    hauptstimme saidHis boyfriend probably made him delete you.

    I used to be questioned on a daily basis of my facebook friends.

    That would be relationship ending right there... Nothing like somebody demanding complete control over your life to remind you that they need to leave.


    Good thing is that it only lasted three years; I'm quite a bit wiser because of all the abuse I endured.


    hugs to you mate
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    Dec 12, 2010 12:54 PM GMT
    It comes down to this....He wasn't much of a friend to begin with so don't loose sweat over it.
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    Dec 12, 2010 3:16 PM GMT
    you were wrong thinking a ''friend'' in facebook,is realy a friend...
    he saw you once, klicked yes ,and forgot about you,when you said somthing he thought,''who the hell is this guy?'' and he erased you.
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    Dec 12, 2010 3:22 PM GMT
    hauptstimme saidHis boyfriend probably made him delete you.

    I used to be questioned on a daily basis of my facebook friends.


    Back in the day, my ex used to get jealous of MySpace friends and would try to log onto my account and read e-mails....even though I never did anything.
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    Dec 12, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    I wouldn't think much about it. It probably had nothing to do with the post itself and more about the boyfriend. I've had some odd things with FB myself, but go with the flow. Maybe he'll add you back eventually.
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    Dec 12, 2010 3:28 PM GMT
    If you've never met him whats the issue? its not like you were actual friends with him having never met....thats what pisses me off about people meeting online, they think because you have talked online that your automatically friends..i donno
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    Dec 12, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    REALLY! It's FACEBOOK!
    who cares... especially if you've NEVER met him before!

    Move on...
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    Dec 12, 2010 3:41 PM GMT
    I deleted my facebook account because of this type of drama. Life itself has enough drama.
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    Dec 12, 2010 4:23 PM GMT
    There is no issue here. You believed you were friends when really you were only acquaintances via facebook.

    Sometime these things happen, no need to loose sleep over it.
  • hockeyguy99

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    Dec 12, 2010 5:20 PM GMT
    maybe his boyfriend is crazy and just deletes people off without your friend knowing. been there with my first boyfriend. super jealous and would go through anything he could while i was out of the room.

    always a possibility... just ask him why.
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    Dec 12, 2010 5:25 PM GMT
    hmm its just facebook..get over it.
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    Dec 12, 2010 6:46 PM GMT
    VenkyJock saidSo i met this gay friend a year before in facebook and we have never met before in person. He had this facebook status"he did gingerbread house with his amazing boyfriend icon_smile.gif". I replied "aaaww...How romantic! you two have funicon_smile.gif" Today to my surprise i am not in his Friends list anymore....wtf...i still don't understand...Did i say something wrong to him....i only expressed and was happy for him just like with any gay friend....i only wished him to have fun from my heart and wished him good. Where do you think i was wrong?


    Where you went wrong was in placing any importance on being someone's 'friend' without ever having met them and/or in having that friend status acknowledged online. Move on.
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    Dec 12, 2010 7:22 PM GMT
    muscles4muscles saidI deleted my facebook account because of this type of drama. Life itself has enough drama.


    RIGHT!
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    Dec 12, 2010 7:41 PM GMT
    Maybe he doesnt really like you, there used to be this guy who would always ALWAYS comment on my status and it was really annoying so i deleted him
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    Dec 12, 2010 9:04 PM GMT
    Eh... Move on. Fuck 'em. If that's the way it's going to be, then next time he friend requests you or apologizes just be like, "That was fuckin' shitty" and don't bother.
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    Dec 12, 2010 9:17 PM GMT
    ShinyToyTrev saidEh... Move on. Fuck 'em. If that's the way it's going to be, then next time he friend requests you or apologizes just be like, "That was fuckin' shitty" and don't bother.

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    Dec 12, 2010 10:35 PM GMT
    I would have deleted you
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    Dec 12, 2010 10:36 PM GMT
    jusTom saidyou were wrong thinking a ''friend'' in facebook,is realy a friend...
    he saw you once, klicked yes ,and forgot about you,when you said somthing he thought,''who the hell is this guy?'' and he erased you.


    Hate to say it, but THIS.