sex on first date

  • austinlee

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    Dec 12, 2010 5:30 PM GMT
    Does it make me sound like chick if I don't want to have sex on first date?
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    Dec 12, 2010 7:17 PM GMT
    austinlee saidDoes it make me sound like chick if I don't want to have sex on first date?


    yes it does.

    hey girfren!
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    Dec 12, 2010 9:10 PM GMT
    musefreek said
    austinlee saidDoes it make me sound like chick if I don't want to have sex on first date?


    yes it does.

    hey girfren!

    LOL!

    No.
    Not at all. It means you have guidelines/morals you follow... which if your possible partner respects that, it means you're probably more compatible in the long run. I have the same thing. You might get a kiss/make out if the date goes really well, but you aren't getting me deep inside you. lmao.
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    Dec 13, 2010 3:10 PM GMT
    austinlee saidDoes it make me sound like chick if I don't want to have sex on first date?


    Not at all. Have sex whenever you are ready. Although time concept is pretty subjective, as a personal note sex on the first date kills a substantial portion of the mystery there is to look forward in a relationship.
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    Dec 13, 2010 3:14 PM GMT
    I had sex with Winsomesmile on our first date!!! LOL JK... seriously, that is my rule for the most part too. First date's about meeting someone and checking out the vibe and all those kinds of things as well as deciding if there's interest to have a 2nd date. Now on a 2nd date, everything's fair game!
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Dec 13, 2010 3:34 PM GMT
    Wow = since we're (UPSGUY above) in the same city and you are smoking - sign me up for a sexless first date. Hell I might even have a second sexless meeting with a guy like you.

    Very nice.

    As for the post - hook ups are fine but if you think you might want more down the road hold off on the sex for a while and make the relationship about more than the physical.
  • swimbikerun

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    Dec 13, 2010 3:50 PM GMT
    austinlee saidDoes it make me sound like chick if I don't want to have sex on first date?
    Nope. If you squeal with your legs in the air that makes you sound like a chick.
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    Dec 13, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    Absolutely Not!!! I use a three date rule before I have sex...
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    Dec 13, 2010 3:56 PM GMT
    austinlee saidDoes it make me sound like chick if I don't want to have sex on first date?


    Of course not! You go with what feels comfortable for you. For someone like me, that means NO sex whatsoever irregardless of how many dates we have. Going out on a date with someone does not mean that you have to have sex with them. I don't know where this BS idea came from!
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    Dec 13, 2010 3:58 PM GMT
    I usually have sex on the first date. If the sex isn't good, no reason to keep dating.
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    Dec 13, 2010 4:08 PM GMT
    How the hell do you know if you want to go on a second date or not if you don't have sex on the first date?
  • MrPapo317

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    Dec 13, 2010 4:29 PM GMT
    chemmac saidAbsolutely Not!!! I use a three date rule before I have sex...


    I have a two date rule. The second date is when I make a move.
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    Dec 13, 2010 7:51 PM GMT
    chemmac saidAbsolutely Not!!! I use a three date rule before I have sex...

    Three? You hound you!
    Hahahaha.
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    Dec 13, 2010 7:54 PM GMT
    chemmac saidAbsolutely Not!!! I use a three date rule before I have sex...
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    We can has sex now plz? icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 13, 2010 7:55 PM GMT
    If you take me to a movie and then dinner...most likely SEX will be the dessert! icon_lol.gif
  • KnuxNole

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    Dec 13, 2010 8:13 PM GMT
    austinlee saidDoes it make me sound like chick if I don't want to have sex on first date?


    I hope not, a real man can wait for the second or third date icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:18 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    chemmac saidAbsolutely Not!!! I use a three date rule before I have sex...
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    We can has sex now plz? icon_twisted.gif

    You would.
    Youuu would.
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:21 PM GMT
    I'm just astounded at the questions people ask on here...
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:25 PM GMT
    mocktwinkie saidI'm just astounded at the questions people ask on here...


    It's not so much the questions as it is the answers most of the time.
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:25 PM GMT
    Nothing wrong with that, we can all set our own personal rules, and ideals. We are all different, and some are more interested in the person than the sex on the first date.
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:26 PM GMT
    cmhoh1985 said
    mocktwinkie saidI'm just astounded at the questions people ask on here...


    It's not so much the questions as it is the answers most of the time.


    haha, so true. I think it's a legitimate question to be honest.
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:26 PM GMT
    catfish5 saidI usually have sex on the first date. If the sex isn't good, no reason to keep dating.


    I disagree and agree. I mean, gotta see what you're dealing with, but first-time sex with someone who may not know what you like and don't like when you're more complicated than the average guy usually makes for a bad first-time experience.
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:32 PM GMT
    not at all sex on a first date usually means theyre just after a quick booty call,and your good for not wanting it for the first date
  • Timbales

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    Dec 13, 2010 8:35 PM GMT
    Have sex when you want to and don't when don't.


    I don't really understand the mindset of "do it on the first date to see if he's worth a second date". In that case, why bother with the date at all? Just get right to it.
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    Dec 13, 2010 8:38 PM GMT
    ShinyToyTrev said
    paulflexes said
    chemmac saidAbsolutely Not!!! I use a three date rule before I have sex...
    fruit-dried-dates-deglett.jpg

    We can has sex now plz? icon_twisted.gif

    You would.
    Youuu would.
    And I did. icon_biggrin.gif