How can I deal with being short??? Will i ever find someone???

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    Dec 13, 2010 1:13 PM GMT
    Okies... Now i'm the shortest guy i know at 5'3 at 160 cm. And i've only been a member for like a week, and i was looking at people who viewed my profile today... And not one single guy was as short as me or the equivillent. As you can tell... This kinda bothered me. And i'm the shortest out of all my guy friends. And i just hate it, i feel like im never gonna get noticed. anyone else struggle with this?
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    Dec 13, 2010 1:31 PM GMT
    Firstly put some of your stats up.

    How will someone be interested in you if you don't have something up.

    Second off...You need to be confident in yourself and though you're at a smaller stature which makes difficult it is not impossible....

    Btw, are you the leading man type of guy, or like to to lead one....
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    Dec 13, 2010 1:33 PM GMT
    Not really into the whole lead thing... Just like to be equal... However i'm a bottom lol.
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    Dec 13, 2010 1:54 PM GMT
    Hmm, if someone is sexy their sexy regardless of height I think. I normally do find guys that are my height or taller attractive, but almost every guy I've actually liked thus far has been shorter than me. (And straight :[, woe is me) Heck there's even a guy in my dance class that's like 5'2 that I think is cute. Height isn't everything, it's just one of the many factors that makes you who you are. And in the end, it's not one, but a combination of things that will make someone want to stay. At least that's what I tell myself icon_razz.gif
  • Mark5511

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    Dec 13, 2010 2:03 PM GMT
    Height doesn't really matter to me. Short guys can be just as attractive as tall guys. Some people actually prefer short guys.

    Don't worry about it dude.
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    Dec 13, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
    This is the 2nd post about how unfortunate you are...
  • rnch

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    Dec 13, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    why do you find your height a detriment?

    i think short guys are cute, cuddley and sexy....esp when naked and hard and in my bed.

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    Dec 13, 2010 3:04 PM GMT
    become a tranny ?--> huge wigs and high heels.
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    Dec 13, 2010 3:07 PM GMT
    Just looked at your pics. You're extremely good-looking. Anybody would be thrilled to date you.

    As for short. . . it really doesn't matter. Lots of guys prefer shorter guys. Don't let it bother you.

    Also: Working out will get you bigger, and if you're built with muscles, then "short" doesn't matter at all!!
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    Dec 13, 2010 4:41 PM GMT
    i definitely agree with littledude. you are really hot, and i know i usually prefer shorter guys. and 5'3" isn't bad at all. it probably has less to do with your shortness. i'd definitely try to talk to you.
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    Dec 13, 2010 4:45 PM GMT
    Just be sure in yourself... Remember there are a lot guys that like smaller guys... Believe me... My last boy is 5'10" and I feel short at 5'7"... But I exude a confidence in myself that makes me taller than anyone else...

    Just remember people are the same height laying down icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 13, 2010 7:20 PM GMT
    Confidence is attractive! Remember that...
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    Dec 13, 2010 7:38 PM GMT
    You get to have more confidence ....
    Short is as sexy as Tall , and you are very cute too ..
    Don't overanalyse and go with the flow ....icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 13, 2010 7:44 PM GMT
    I love short people. I love thick-necked, short dudes. They call them fireplugs. Wrestler's build. I wish I was 5'8" instead of 5'10". It's amazing how 165 lbs looks SO much better on someone 2 inches shorter than me. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 13, 2010 7:46 PM GMT
    There is a guy for everyone. I'm 6'2" and love men of all height. Some people may see it as weird, but that's on them. A 5'4" guy can be just as hot as a giant. icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 14, 2010 5:02 AM GMT
    I'm 5'4" and the guy I'm dating is 5'3". I like guys of all heights, but if a guy I like is around my height, it's definitely a nice bonus. I don't have to be on my tippy toes when kissing or hugging LOL (my first bf was 6' tall).
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    Dec 14, 2010 5:04 AM GMT
    Oh and another thing, be proud of your height (coming from a fellow guy who is also short)! As others have said, self confidence is a major part of attracting others, and there will always be guys who like short guys. Trust me!
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    Dec 14, 2010 5:07 AM GMT
    Short people got no reason to live..so all you short bitches should just go and kill yourselves.

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    Dec 14, 2010 5:12 AM GMT
    Where is my bottle of prozac...
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    Dec 14, 2010 5:12 AM GMT
    Hey shorty, I'm 6'3, pretty solid, and smart as hell; you gotta know what you like & who you like, not to mention what you are into...

    However,.. Unless your ok with being a nameless, cumslut, you have to battle for a personality..
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    Dec 14, 2010 5:17 AM GMT
    You're cute... i'd do ya icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 14, 2010 5:24 AM GMT
    rnch saidwhy do you find your height a detriment?

    i think short guys are cute, cuddley and sexy....esp when naked and hard and in my bed.

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    Yup, so dont worry icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:34 AM GMT
    There was a guy at the gym today and he was like 5' 3" - 5' 4" and he was beyond hot it didn't hurt that he had a killer body. You shouldn’t be upset that you’re 5’ 3” this is who you are, and how God or whoever you believe in created you icon_wink.gif
  • creature

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    Dec 17, 2010 12:48 AM GMT
    I guess he can put his concern to rest as his profile says monogamous relationship.
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
    creature saidI guess he can put his concern to rest as his profile says monogamous relationship.


    I noticed that too, but has he found someone in the past 3 days? I thought maybe it was left on from a previous relationship.