Guys that aren't versatile are sexually handicapped

  • Timbales

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    Dec 14, 2010 10:02 PM GMT
    agree or disagree?
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    Dec 14, 2010 11:18 PM GMT
    I don't know if I'd say they were handicapped but I would say they are missing half the fun.
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    Dec 15, 2010 12:40 AM GMT
    Thumbs up!
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    Dec 15, 2010 1:10 AM GMT
    I think it depends on the guy. If he's just really not into something and pours his passion into what he does to you then no, but if it's the whole "I don't do that 'cause I'm alpha" then definitely yes.
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    Dec 15, 2010 2:36 PM GMT
    kevinap saidThumbs up!


    the butt that is!
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    Dec 15, 2010 2:38 PM GMT
    I so agree man

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    Dec 15, 2010 2:39 PM GMT
    probably
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    Dec 15, 2010 5:24 PM GMT
    Interesting point!

    I would agree only for those who can't find a sex partner when they want one.

    It's sort of like the loads of left-handed people who get used to using right-handed scissors without bitching (not necessarily totally ambidextrous). They are so programmed to the right-handed world that it's second nature. These left-handed people have an advantage that most right-handers don't. I wouldn't call most right-handed people "handicapped" if they were not ambidextrous.
  • oyoung

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    Dec 16, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    Just choose which the one with pleasure~
    fortunately, I enjoy both~ lolicon_twisted.gif
  • rioriz

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    Dec 16, 2010 1:30 AM GMT
    Hmm wouldn't say handicapped but I think they may be missing out on someone if they hold themselves to just one sexual position.
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    Dec 16, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
    Ditto what rioriz said.
  • Timbales

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    Dec 16, 2010 1:37 AM GMT
    I thought of this topic because of the attitudes about circumcised and natural penises.

    The prevailing attitude among men who weren't circumcised is that they experience more pleasure than circumcised men because their glans more sensitive. It is stated ad nauseum that circumcised are sexually handicapped - incapable of experiencing satisfying sexual experience.

    So following that logic - sensitivity equals the only real pleasure.

    The anus is sensitive. The prostate even more so.

    Following the same logic, if one does not enjoy being penetrated, then they sexually handicapped.
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    Dec 16, 2010 1:51 AM GMT
    BuddyinNYC saidInteresting point!

    I would agree only for those who can't find a sex partner when they want one.

    It's sort of like the loads of left-handed people who get used to using right-handed scissors without bitching (not necessarily totally ambidextrous). They are so programmed to the right-handed world that it's second nature. These left-handed people have an advantage that most right-handers don't. I wouldn't call most right-handed people "handicapped" if they were not ambidextrous.


    As a fellow lefty, I understand and agree with this completely. Being versatile just means that you are more compatible with more people. Versatility is advantageous, but let's not say that sexual 'rigidity' (for lack of a better word) isn't a handicap.
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    Dec 16, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    maybe not handicapped, but just...

    stupid

    What a waste!
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    Dec 16, 2010 1:55 AM GMT
    lgjock said
    BuddyinNYC saidInteresting point!

    I would agree only for those who can't find a sex partner when they want one.

    It's sort of like the loads of left-handed people who get used to using right-handed scissors without bitching (not necessarily totally ambidextrous). They are so programmed to the right-handed world that it's second nature. These left-handed people have an advantage that most right-handers don't. I wouldn't call most right-handed people "handicapped" if they were not ambidextrous.


    As a fellow lefty, I understand and agree with this completely. Being versatile just means that you are more compatible with more people. Versatility is advantageous, but let's not say that sexual 'rigidity' (for lack of a better word) isn't a handicap.


    OOPS.... what I meant to say was, "Let's not say that sexual 'rigidity' (for lack of a better word) IS a handicap."

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    Dec 16, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    The only time I feel handicapped is when I try to top. It's awkward and not really pleasurable for either of us. When I bottom however, we both have a great time! I'd have to disagree that it's a handicap.
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    Dec 16, 2010 9:00 AM GMT
    nope, I used to bottom all the time for guys.

    These days I'm really not that interested in bottoming I get bored, uninterested and just want him to get off and get outta me and go away.
    Infact I'd prefer to cook something or read realjock rather then bottom because it's just that more interesting to me.

    Let me top and things are completely different. It's fun, exciting and I'm interested. I don't get bored and I"ll stay there as long as I possibly can hahaha

    Can I bottom? Hell yes, but do I want to? well not really but if a guy pushes me to I'll do it, otherwise I simply wont bother trying for it.
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    Dec 16, 2010 9:07 AM GMT
    Timberoo saidagree or disagree?

    I HIGHLY DISAGREE WITH THAT
  • AlanGZ

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    Dec 16, 2010 9:10 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidnope, I used to bottom all the time for guys.

    These days I'm really not that interested in bottoming I get bored, uninterested and just want him to get off and get outta me and go away.
    Infact I'd prefer to cook something or read realjock rather then bottom because it's just that more interesting to me.

    Let me top and things are completely different. It's fun, exciting and I'm interested. I don't get bored and I"ll stay there as long as I possibly can hahaha

    Can I bottom? Hell yes, but do I want to? well not really but if a guy pushes me to I'll do it, otherwise I simply wont bother trying for it.


    Amen to that!
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    Dec 16, 2010 4:27 PM GMT
    I agree. I like both.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 16, 2010 4:32 PM GMT
    variety is the spice of life!
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    Dec 16, 2010 4:34 PM GMT
    I agree. I don't see any good reason for not enjoying both positions. Guys who are not versatile rarely, if ever, get a repeat invitation from me.
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    Dec 16, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    I could never have a BF if he is just bottom or just top i want to truy it all i want to be a bottom for the first time and to be top for the first time i want to feel it all icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 16, 2010 4:36 PM GMT
    I like both. But taking it like a champ is much more fun. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 16, 2010 4:37 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidnope, I used to bottom all the time for guys.

    These days I'm really not that interested in bottoming I get bored, uninterested and just want him to get off and get outta me and go away.
    Infact I'd prefer to cook something or read realjock rather then bottom because it's just that more interesting to me.

    Let me top and things are completely different. It's fun, exciting and I'm interested. I don't get bored and I"ll stay there as long as I possibly can hahaha

    Can I bottom? Hell yes, but do I want to? well not really but if a guy pushes me to I'll do it, otherwise I simply wont bother trying for it.


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