black guys lol

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    Dec 18, 2010 2:26 AM GMT
    ok...is it just me or are a lot of black guys either really feminine or really closeted? its so hard to fun into a masculine, non closeted, black guy...icon_confused.gif

    genetics? haha jk but serious wth
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    Dec 18, 2010 2:35 AM GMT
    If that's been your experience, you need to get out of Raleigh.
    In my experience, I've seen openly gay black men who are masculine, feminine, and in-between.
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    Dec 18, 2010 2:45 AM GMT
    Never forget that there is such a stigma associated with being gay in the black world. Its kind of an "Ooog" or "you're not a man" or "you're a fag" sort of thing so most guys don't want to be associated with it, even if they are gay.

    And so usually those guys who are most open are the fems. The ones so girly that they couldn't hide the fact that they were gay while growing up and had to just own it and as one young drag queen told me once be "fierce."

    So when you truly think about it, its not that unusual at all.

    I mean even me, and I definitely have a great deal femininity to me, is still not out to a large portion of my family. I'm out to all my friends, I'm out to my immediate family, but its just been hard to truly say to all of my male cousins and uncles that I'm gay.

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    Dec 18, 2010 3:02 AM GMT


    Well I'm closeted but more like discreet.....so I guess you're kind a right icon_sad.gif
  • UVaRob9

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    Dec 18, 2010 4:42 AM GMT
    carbonblack saidok...is it just me or are a lot of black guys either really feminine or really closeted? its so hard to [r]un into a masculine, non closeted, black guy...icon_confused.gif

    genetics? haha jk but serious wth


    It's not just you. When I go out to clubs with friends, I kinda grit my teeth when I see gay black guys walking around and acting like 12 year old girls and doing "walk-offs" or whatever the hell. I wanna shake them and say "you don't have a vagina!". People ask me why I don't date other black guys and I just point to that. Yeah, I know that attitude is why most of my friends are white. Having said that, I've met black guys who were masculine without being thuggish and they were pretty cool.
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    Dec 18, 2010 4:45 AM GMT
    haha im sure the masculine black men are out there, we just gotta shake em out
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    Dec 18, 2010 4:46 AM GMT
    black guys can be really hot
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    Dec 18, 2010 4:48 AM GMT
    bigkevc saidblack guys can be really hot



    haahhahhaha
  • mybud

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    Dec 18, 2010 4:49 AM GMT
    Stereotypes are a bitch...trust me I've seen some awesome black str8 actin men...BUD
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    Dec 18, 2010 4:49 AM GMT
    Not all Black gay guys act like that, unless your in the gay scene some of them do, I'm not into that, why can't you just let them be?. So? what if that's the way they are, just keep looking and find someone whether it be a friend or a bf. By creating this thread your saying ALL Black guys act like how you described.
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    Dec 18, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    The funny Thing is when I go on the Black gay websites they say that white guys are the Feminine ones.

    HA! stereotypes and generalizations love it!
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    Dec 18, 2010 4:58 AM GMT
    UVaRob9 said
    carbonblack saidok...is it just me or are a lot of black guys either really feminine or really closeted? its so hard to [r]un into a masculine, non closeted, black guy...icon_confused.gif

    genetics? haha jk but serious wth


    It's not just you. When I go out to clubs with friends, I kinda grit my teeth when I see gay black guys walking around and acting like 12 year old girls and doing "walk-offs" or whatever the hell. I wanna shake them and say "you don't have a vagina!". People ask me why I don't date other black guys and I just point to that. Yeah, I know that attitude is why most of my friends are white. Having said that, I've met black guys who were masculine without being thuggish and they were pretty cool.


    Sad and pathetic
  • KepaArg

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    Dec 18, 2010 4:58 AM GMT
    isn't there masc, in the middle, fem guys gay, bi, and straight of all races?!

    Yea....thought so...icon_wink.gif
  • UVaRob9

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    Dec 18, 2010 5:34 AM GMT
    @Lenoxx: Whatever, dude. You do you. I make no apologies for my preferences. I like guys I date to act like guys.

  • MrPapo317

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    Dec 18, 2010 5:38 AM GMT
    future_is_ours saidhaha im sure the masculine black men are out there, we just gotta shake em out


    Hey
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    Dec 18, 2010 5:38 AM GMT
    A lot black guys like to date guys from the other races. Most of the gay black guys that are out is really feminine.
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    Dec 18, 2010 5:41 AM GMT
    My first fantasy was wrestling with a black guy in junior high school. I had a dream that we were naked wrestling on railroad tracks (dreams can be weird, we were out in nowhere), our bodies intertwined black and white so hot.

    Well, I just recently discovered him on Facebook, looking hotter than ever. Should I tell him about my dream some 35 years ago? icon_wink.gif
  • gjoseph

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    Dec 18, 2010 5:44 AM GMT
    To the OP your statement is generalized you can find overtly feminine males or deeply closeted males with any race. I do agree with the fact its difficult coming out in the African-American community because the African-American community has close ties to religion due to slavery and being an oppressed group in the states. Personally, my fathers side of the family who's West Indian has accepted me for who I am yet with my Mother its kind of like DADT. However, maybe if there's a black pride organization etc. maybe you could find a masculine black male. I can attest to the fact in Bible Belt cities in the South its still difficult coming out. I've met so many closeted guys at my university and in the city Jacksonville. These men were white, latin, etc. yet in my hometown Tampa there's a greater sense of openly gay males since the city has more liberal social positions and ideals than Northern Florida.

    and to blackpuma everyone has preferences I consider myself an open-minded individual and have dated White, Latin, whatever.
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    Dec 18, 2010 5:45 AM GMT
    wrestlervic saidMy first fantasy was wrestling with a black guy in junior high school. I had a dream that we were naked wrestling on railroad tracks (dreams can be weird, we were out in nowhere), our bodies intertwined black and white so hot.

    Well, I just recently discovered him on Facebook, looking hotter than ever. Should I tell him about my dream some 35 years ago? icon_wink.gif


    sure why not. hehe you know 35 years ago i was -10 right? lol
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    Dec 18, 2010 5:46 AM GMT
    elpapo317 said
    wrestlervic saidMy first fantasy was wrestling with a black guy in junior high school. I had a dream that we were naked wrestling on railroad tracks (dreams can be weird, we were out in nowhere), our bodies intertwined black and white so hot.

    Well, I just recently discovered him on Facebook, looking hotter than ever. Should I tell him about my dream some 35 years ago? icon_wink.gif


    sure why not. even tho 35 years ago i was -10 lol i would appreciate the email lulz
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    Dec 18, 2010 5:46 AM GMT
    UVaRob9 said@Lenoxx: Whatever, dude. You do you.

    yeah, go on with yourself hatin ass. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 18, 2010 5:47 AM GMT
    elpapo317 said
    wrestlervic saidMy first fantasy was wrestling with a black guy in junior high school. I had a dream that we were naked wrestling on railroad tracks (dreams can be weird, we were out in nowhere), our bodies intertwined black and white so hot.

    Well, I just recently discovered him on Facebook, looking hotter than ever. Should I tell him about my dream some 35 years ago? icon_wink.gif


    sure why not. hehe you know 35 years ago i was -10 right? lol


    He'd probably say "What the fuck, don't tell me this shit. I don't even remember you dude. I'm not gay!"

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  • UVaRob9

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    Dec 18, 2010 5:56 AM GMT
    Lenoxx said
    UVaRob9 said@Lenoxx: Whatever, dude. You do you.

    yeah, go on with yourself hatin ass. icon_wink.gif


    At 19, I guess you know everything, huh?

    Stop derailing the thread.
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    Dec 18, 2010 5:58 AM GMT
    Hey UVARob, you're only 35 miles away! Wanna make my railroad track fantasy come true, minus the railroad tracks? icon_wink.gif
  • UVaRob9

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    Dec 18, 2010 6:01 AM GMT
    wrestlervic saidHey UVARob, you're only 35 miles away! Wanna make my railroad track fantasy come true, minus the railroad tracks? icon_wink.gif


    I dunno, it might feed into this self-loathing bullshit that I wasn't aware of having. icon_wink.gif