Is it possible that I am bi?

  • Mark5511

    Posts: 14

    Dec 18, 2010 12:34 PM GMT
    I've known I was attracted to guys for a long time now. I don't think that I am bi, but I still have to wonder. I'll see girls and think, "She's pretty." I even got turned on when I was watching a girl undress in a porn clip.

    It's just hard to know for sure. One thing that makes it more difficult to know is the fact that with hot guys, there will be the attraction, but there will also be jealousy. If I see a guy that is attractive, I sometimes wish I looked like him. With girls, that obviously won't be a factor (No thanks, I really don't want a pink bow in my hair).

    Basically what I'm saying is-- it's hard to compare the two, so it's hard to know if there is any attraction toward girls.

    Like I said, I have seen girls and thought they were pretty. Plus, I can at least imagine being romantic with a girl. Those are both reasons for me to wonder.

    Maybe much of what I feel when I see an attractive guy is jealousy, and since I wouldn't feel that with a good looking girl, I have no real basis for comparison of my feelings (as far as physical attraction).

    I know I explained this terribly, but does it make any sense?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 18, 2010 12:36 PM GMT
    If it gives you a boner, fuck it.
    If not, to hell with it.
  • Mark5511

    Posts: 14

    Dec 18, 2010 12:41 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf it gives you a boner, fuck it.
    If not, to hell with it.


    Well I've gotten a boner from seeing a clip of a woman undress. Does that automatically make me bi?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 18, 2010 12:48 PM GMT
    Mark5511 said
    paulflexes saidIf it gives you a boner, fuck it.
    If not, to hell with it.


    Well I've gotten a boner from seeing a clip of a woman undress. Does that automatically make me bi?

    Who cares what it makes you? Avoid the label. Fuck what turns you on, and let the label apply itself when you're more sexually mature.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 18, 2010 1:46 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Mark5511 said
    paulflexes saidIf it gives you a boner, fuck it.
    If not, to hell with it.

    Well I've gotten a boner from seeing a clip of a woman undress. Does that automatically make me bi?

    Who cares what it makes you? Avoid the label. Fuck what turns you on, and let the label apply itself when you're more sexually mature.

    Paul is giving brilliant advice -- listen to him.

    We were at a gala last night (Friday), where we actually both wore ties (a rarity here in South Florida). And a good friend of ours there, a lesbian, looked absolutely breathtaking in a dress & heels. Everyday she's normally kinda butch, though always classy and well-dressed, but last night she was stunning, I thought the most beautiful woman there.

    I couldn't compliment her appearance enough. She was beautiful, even to a gay man's eyes. That doesn't mean I lust for her, I simply admire beauty. Yet she was still lesbian, a kind of Jamie Lee Curtis look about her that many others commented on.

    Does admiring her make me bi? Hardly. And as Paul says, who the fuck cares about labels, anyway? Go with the flow, whatever turns you on, as my generation once said. It's all good.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 18, 2010 3:03 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Mark5511 said
    paulflexes saidIf it gives you a boner, fuck it.
    If not, to hell with it.


    Well I've gotten a boner from seeing a clip of a woman undress. Does that automatically make me bi?

    Who cares what it makes you? Avoid the label. Fuck what turns you on, and let the label apply itself when you're more sexually mature.



    You make a book of quotes Paulie icon_biggrin.gif