When finding a boyfriend,what's more important? Looks or Personality?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 6:34 AM GMT
    Do you guys think that when finding a guy looks come first or their personality?

    Cause ive meet this guy and hes not the best looking,but I couldnt go a day without talking to him.Is it shallow to not go for him cause I could find a better looking guy? icon_confused.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 6:51 AM GMT
    someone?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    Looks, then personality.
    Because looks are the first impression.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    dude saidIs it shallow to not go for him cause I could find a better looking guy? icon_confused.gif
    To answer this question separately, yes.
    No matter how good he looks, someone will look better.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 6:57 AM GMT
    Is this for real?icon_rolleyes.gif

    Let me just just say I fell madly in love with a man 11yrs ago who was homely. His charisma attracted me to him.

    We all end up old, wrinkled in the end so to answer this retarded question: PERSONALITY.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 8:10 AM GMT
    personality wins the race in the end, bad thing is the brain and heart conflict and that's when looks sometimes preside. But I tend to go after personality than looks even after I've taken the guys looks into account icon_razz.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 8:30 AM GMT
    PERSONALITY!!! HANDS DOWN!!!

    If Im attracted to a guy, and he bores me within a few sentences, it's just blegh... a guy who keeps youre interest picked with his wit...now thats a real turn-on, and a lasting one
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 9:19 AM GMT
    dude saidDo you guys think that when finding a guy looks come first or their personality?

    Cause ive meet this guy and hes not the best looking,but I couldnt go a day without talking to him.Is it shallow to not go for him cause I could find a better looking guy? icon_confused.gif


    When the time comes to live together, looks don't matter that much. Personality is the most important for the relationship to work
  • mcwclewis

    Posts: 1701

    Dec 20, 2010 9:42 AM GMT
    Looks are only important if they're important to you.

    Personality is just important, plain and simple.

    To me this seems like a question you need to answer on your own. I
  • mcwclewis

    Posts: 1701

    Dec 20, 2010 9:42 AM GMT
    navi_leinad saidpersonality wins the race in the end, bad thing is the brain and heart conflict and that's when looks sometimes preside. But I tend to go after personality than looks even after I've taken the guys looks into account icon_razz.gif





    And this.
  • masculumpedes

    Posts: 5549

    Dec 20, 2010 11:31 AM GMT
    There are more important things than a guy's looks, personality and the size of his wallet......such as what's in the wallet icon_twisted.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 11:46 AM GMT
    Personality.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 11:52 AM GMT
    malefeet saidThere are more important things than a guy's looks, personality and the size of his wallet......such as what's in the wallet icon_twisted.gif


    you gold digger... icon_lol.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 12:22 PM GMT
    Both icon_biggrin.gif
  • masculumpedes

    Posts: 5549

    Dec 20, 2010 12:32 PM GMT
    Isn't it true that every great-looking guy has a fabulous personality? icon_confused.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    malefeet saidIsn't it true that every great-looking guy has a fabulous personality? icon_confused.gif


    Maybe in 'Burger World' honey but hardly in real life! icon_wink.gif Sorry, I just had to be a...you know what!

    Having both would be the ideal and I'm sure there are quite a few men out there who DO have both.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 1:16 PM GMT
    Personality without question.

    So many of the best looking guys I have met have awful personalities, they think they're too good for most... that's when their looks count for shyte...
  • Celticmusl

    Posts: 4330

    Dec 20, 2010 1:36 PM GMT
    WestAussieGuy saidPersonality without question.

    So many of the best looking guys I have met have awful personalities, they think they're too good for most... that's when their looks count for shyte...



    I know one guy from the gym who is extremely attractive. He rarely goes out because he has to deal with so many drunk guys coming up to him hitting on him. He's a great guy but he is very unpopular because he turns down a lot of guys at the bar.

    His last ex of several years was not an adonis or that good looking for that matter(to me anyway). He likes what he likes, and I guess when you get turned down by a good looking guy, almost everyone assumes he's thinking he's too good for you. But pretty people have the right to have their own opinion on what they find attractive too.

  • Celticmusl

    Posts: 4330

    Dec 20, 2010 1:39 PM GMT
    I think personality is more important, but both have to really be there for any kind of infatuation, romance or ltr.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 1:41 PM GMT
    dude saidDo you guys think that when finding a guy looks come first or their personality?

    Cause ive meet this guy and hes not the best looking,but I couldnt go a day without talking to him.Is it shallow to not go for him cause I could find a better looking guy? icon_confused.gif


    PERSONALITY. Looks will fade so fast... unless of course, you're looking for Mr. Right NOW.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 1:45 PM GMT
    Columbusite said
    malefeet saidIsn't it true that every great-looking guy has a fabulous personality? icon_confused.gif


    Maybe in 'Burger World' honey but hardly in real life! icon_wink.gif Sorry, I just had to be a...you know what!

    Having both would be the ideal and I'm sure there are quite a few men out there who DO have both.


    And man you are sooooooooo right its so hard i hate when some great looking guy is a big jerk i hate that stereotype icon_evil.gif But here at RJ i meet a lot of hot guys with a great personalysis
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 2:00 PM GMT
    looks get him in bed... personality makes you orgasm ;)
  • HndsmKansan

    Posts: 16311

    Dec 20, 2010 2:03 PM GMT
    Looks gets the guy, personality is what keeps him (or not) LOL

    icon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 2:20 PM GMT
    Most people would say personality because they don't want to appear shallow but the truth of the matter is that if a man doesn't find another man or woman attractive it really doesn't matter what their personality is like. Women go more by personality and men go more by looks. In general. Hence why so many guys on the internet, even here on RJ, won't correspond with another guy unless they like what they look like in their pictures. Again, in general.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 20, 2010 2:27 PM GMT
    Neither. He could be the best looking and have a great personality but I still might not be attracted to him.

    It's all about the connection.