phone sex...

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    Dec 20, 2010 1:38 PM GMT
    how often do you do it?

    do you consider it cheating if you're in a relationship?
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Dec 20, 2010 6:27 PM GMT
    I do it every once in a while, it's fun.

    Cheating? I kind of define cheating as doing something I knowingly do not reveal to my SO because he'll think it's wrong.

    Personally, I think it's harmless but you and your bf should have an understanding of what's allowed in your relationship.
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    Dec 21, 2010 4:40 AM GMT
    the only phone i'll do is with someone i'm chattin with in a chat room and then we go cam-phone.
    othewise I find it pretty dull
    and lots of F* ups on some of those phone lines !

    Since I don't really consider camming round the world (see my other post on the subject icon_smile.gif to be "cheating" per se, I can probably say the same over pone-bone
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    Dec 21, 2010 4:41 AM GMT
    not too often, but enjoy it, cheating? no.
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    Dec 21, 2010 4:42 AM GMT
    To each thier own.. I find it hot actually.. specially when if youre in a relationship and your bf is away and he calls you to sex you up over the phone. Hottest thing ever.. Shows that while he can't be with me, he still wants me..

    If you're in a relationship and doing it with someone else? hmm.. why are you in a relationship again? If you can get the real thing there's no need for phone ;) Just saying my point of view.
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    Dec 21, 2010 4:43 AM GMT
    Last time I tried phone sex, my dick got stuck in the USB hole.
    And, it's only cheating if the person your phone-sexing uses a different phone company.
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    Dec 21, 2010 4:49 AM GMT
    People still do this?
    I thought sexting and camming is whats happening now.
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    Dec 21, 2010 4:51 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidPeople still do this?
    I thought sexting and camming is whats happening now.


    My fingers get too tired for sexting icon_sad.gif

    Camming is fun sometimes too.. I like to let my imagination carry me away.. (Since i have an over active imagination when i'm alone, which is all the damn time god damn it icon_razz.gif )
  • Fit4LifeKris

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    Feb 13, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    I haven't done it in a long time, but I think i can be really hot!


    I don't think it's cheating as long as you're open about it and not hiding it.
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    Feb 13, 2011 4:19 AM GMT
    I would do it with my boyfriend but it just seems weird if I don't know the guy. Camming is somehow less weird to me but maybe I'm just more visually stimulated and less into "aural" sex. icon_lol.gif

    It could be cheating if it keeps going on and you're not telling your significant other.
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    Feb 13, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    Phone sex is pretty fun in moderation with the right person like everything is.

    I would consider it a form of cheating unless you are doing it with your SO. If you know your SO wouldn't like it and you have to keep it a secret then that's just a recipe for disaster. You gotta factor in trust, honesty and respect otherwise it's doomed.

    If you can't do it with your SO then you shouldn't be doing it with a stranger.
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    Feb 13, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    I don't do it, it makes me laugh.

    As for it being cheating, I don't think it is but if you can have phone sex with a random why can't you just have phone sex with your partner?
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    Feb 13, 2011 4:37 AM GMT
    dash_8 saidI don't do it, it makes me laugh.

    As for it being cheating, I don't think it is but if you can have phone sex with a random why can't you just have phone sex with your partner?


    Bingo icon_smile.gif

    Or why can't you just wait till your partner gets home to give it to you?? icon_razz.gif
  • Koaa2

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    Feb 13, 2011 7:47 AM GMT
    Where did the cheating bullshit come from, Christians I guess. Cumming is Cumming, why would one care how you cum, it is biological. Only the insecure worry about in what way a guy cums. Lets get real guys.
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    Jul 16, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    Have to agree...phone sex with a bf/partner is hot and with the right dude as a single guy, but I would definitely consider it cheating. Seems to me that if you're phone boning with someone when you've got a bf then there's something wrong with the the chemistry in the bed and perhaps got questionable faithfulness.
  • Spiritreaver

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    Jul 16, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    I could only do it with someone I liked/was dating. It's so weird to me, just as weird as skype chatting with someone I've never met. I always feel awkward.

    Is it cheating? meh, I would be upset over it, I'll say that much.
  • zenmonkie

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    Jul 16, 2011 5:12 AM GMT
    Prefer to stick to the real thing personally.
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    Jul 16, 2011 5:22 AM GMT
    I dont think its cheating because you're not really having sex with anyone but yourself. Cum and talk to me so I can please you......
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    Jul 16, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    But How?

    Poking urself with a phone or just drilling it ?

    We gotta redesign phones to achieve thisicon_lol.gif
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    Oct 25, 2011 9:24 PM GMT
    Mine BF says its cheating. I don't think so, it's not like i'm getting physical with anyone. It's just a voice on the other end- like looking at Porn (a visual on the screen). Anything that entices you that's non physical, how could it be cheating? U never touched anyone, penetrated, kissed or none of that--just listening on the phone and responding.
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    Oct 25, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    I tried it once but prefer the real thing.
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    Oct 25, 2011 9:46 PM GMT
    bruhman saidMine BF says its cheating. I don't think so, it's not like i'm getting physical with anyone. It's just a voice on the other end- like looking at Porn (a visual on the screen). Anything that entices you that's non physical, how could it be cheating? U never touched anyone, penetrated, kissed or none of that--just listening on the phone and responding.


    Because of what it leads up to when you do it with someone else. Do you realize how it might make your SO feel that you turn to another man's voice in order to get off. It's way different then watching porn for the simple fact that you are actually interacting with someone who is real and that opens too many doors. It's a catalyst. It's premeditated. Cheaters often never consider the feelings of their loved one's and if they do they rarely think about if for more than a second because cheaters are just selfish.
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    Oct 25, 2011 9:47 PM GMT
    Hum .. did it like twice .. its not that good
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    Oct 25, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    I did it once, it was ackward, but did meet the guy in person.........A waste of my time.


    I'll do it old school.......with smoke signals icon_biggrin.gif


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    Oct 25, 2011 10:27 PM GMT
    Spiritreaver saidI could only do it with someone I liked/was dating. It's so weird to me, just as weird as skype chatting with someone I've never met. I always feel awkward.

    Is it cheating? meh, I would be upset over it, I'll say that much.


    Agree-awkward. I'm not much of a talker when i'm doing my business anyhow, so having to chat up someone either on the phone or via Skype is weird to me. I guess I would be open if with someone I'm in a relationship with, and we're separated and horny. If I'm in a relationship, and my partner is phone sexing with someone else, I would have a BIG problem with it.