FIRST TIME

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    Jun 15, 2007 4:01 PM GMT
    To my surprise I have gotten at least 20 emails in the last week regarding the forum I posted previously under this category called "my first time". Many thought it would be a great topic, unfortunatly the forum got side tracked, and everyone thought it would be a good idea to start it up again, so here it is.

    Guys share your first time experience with us, whether it be with a man or a woman, or your first coming out story. Let's try to stick to the topic this time. No cross-thread posting please.
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    Jun 19, 2007 1:32 AM GMT
    Okay...first time was with a woman when I was 23 and stationed overseas. I was really really shy and my buddies hooked me up with this German girl. I thought for sure that she was just trying to get a free ride to the States, I was proven wrong though.

    Leading up to the night my buddies kept giving me tips on what I should and should not do. I thought if I mimicked the porn we watched I would be an instant pro. Wrong! First you have to be built like a porn star to perform like a porn star. (sometimes).

    Big event comes and I'm trying to be mr. suave with the condom. That went bad in the dim light. I must have thought that cocks had their own gps system. Wrong. I quickly learned that if you aimed wrong you would get the wrong hole..she wasn't a fan of anal.

    Finally we get a motion going and what happens. I then learned that condoms actually are sized. Mine came off and petrified me. Turns out I didn't have it on all the way.

    First time was interesting and I laugh about it now. Dated her for a while then came home.

    -chuck
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    Jun 21, 2007 1:14 PM GMT
    I have a couple of first. The first time I start kissing a guy, is with a fellow student . I wasnt really attracted to him at all, but I guess , just curious. We used to go to some empty class room and he will climb on top of me and start rocking and than finish it off masturbating. All those time I was fully cloth. I was 13

    The second is when I try to sneak a look at some guy penis when he is taking a pee at a public toilet. This shopkeeper realise that I am gay. He take me to his shop and me and his friend have sex on top of an attic/store room. This time we are both naked. I was 14

    The third time is when I was sexually abuse by a stranger that I meet infront of the adult bookstore. We start talking and he invited me to his house. I foolishly accepted it . Instead he took me to some lover lane , sexually abuse me and left me there to find my way home. I was 19.
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    Jun 21, 2007 1:16 PM GMT
    Yes, the third time I was sodomize
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    Jul 02, 2007 6:59 AM GMT
    i'm still a virgin, can you hlp me out here?
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    Jul 02, 2007 7:25 AM GMT
    I'm a virgin too but I am incredibly looking forward to my first time. I am also reeaally horny lately and I just want to do it! so bad!
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    Jul 03, 2007 2:04 AM GMT
    The first time with another guy to orgasm was with a fellow student at college.We masturbated each other.We were both sixteen.His name was Philip,curly brown hair,and a winning smile.For intercourse,a foreign student from Jordan at university;in the Halls of Residence;dark,hairy,bearded,eager...We did it both ways.He was twenty two,I was nineteen.We were together for the first year,and then we drifted apart.I sometimes wonder where he is now.
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    Jul 18, 2007 2:35 AM GMT
    When I was 24, I was living in Taiwan, and discovered that a lot of the ex-patriot community was gay. When I met a guy who was gay and a law student, I was dumbfounded, as the only gay guys that I knew had drug and alcohol problems, and I couldn't relate to them. I came out to the law student, talked for 3 hours in the middle of the night, and got my first kiss that night. I remember thinking that this was what was so special, as I had never kissed a guy before.

    A couple days later, we had sex and he was nice and gentle. I was very nervous, and I appreciate his kindness. He moved back to the USA about two weeks later, and I just saw him and his partner a couple of years ago, but have fond memories of that first time.
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    Mar 02, 2015 2:18 PM GMT
    My first time I was 9 , my 16 year old cousin stuck his penis in me,, it hurt a good bit but after the first time it was OK,, he'd do this to me two times a week.

    My first time doing another guy , we were 11 and her such me then I'd go up in him, it was great.
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    Mar 02, 2015 3:28 PM GMT
    cum_on saidMy first time I was 9 , my 16 year old cousin stuck his penis in me,, it hurt a good bit but after the first time it was OK,, he'd do this to me two times a week.

    My first time doing another guy , we were 11 and her such me then I'd go up in him, it was great.


    You do realize that you were raped, right?

    Even if you wanted it, he raped you...unless you lived in Alabama..then, never mind.


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  • vhotti26

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    Mar 02, 2015 6:22 PM GMT
    cum_on saidMy first time I was 9 , my 16 year old cousin stuck his penis in me,, it hurt a good bit but after the first time it was OK,, he'd do this to me two times a week.

    My first time doing another guy , we were 11 and her such me then I'd go up in him, it was great.


    So you are flaying a corpse thread telling a story about how great it was to be molested as a child. Please contact a therapist.
  • DiogoT94

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    Mar 02, 2015 7:18 PM GMT
    My first time was with a guy, he was 18 and so was I, funny thing is we were both discrete and it just happend when he was using my phone to text and saw an app called Grindr and he knew that it was a gay app. I hate to have to lie and I only ever do that when people ask me to keep things/secrets, besides that I refrain myself from lying. So I just went "straight" with him and said that I was and he came out to me aswell, he went shy after telling me, which I found kinda cute. icon_biggrin.gif
    He invited me to his house some days after and so I did, I was pretty calm unlike him he was still shy, which was something that I did not expect since I had known him for 4 years and he was never like this, but he got hang of himself and kissed me and it started the real thing after that. icon_cool.gif
    But then it got weird and I stopped talking to him, he kept constantly calling me and sending texts but I avoided them. I was pretty much an asshole back then, but I was also confused.
    Sometimes I still think about it and then I feel ashamed, but the past is the past and I just have to move on with my mistakes.



    extra notes : he was also very...kinky, I think he had seen fifty shades of grey before "doing" it with me, haha.
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    Mar 03, 2015 12:52 AM GMT
    matt45710 saidWhen I was 24, I was living in Taiwan, and discovered that a lot of the ex-patriot community was gay. When I met a guy who was gay and a law student, I was dumbfounded, as the only gay guys that I knew had drug and alcohol problems, and I couldn't relate to them. I came out to the law student, talked for 3 hours in the middle of the night, and got my first kiss that night. I remember thinking that this was what was so special, as I had never kissed a guy before.

    A couple days later, we had sex and he was nice and gentle. I was very nervous, and I appreciate his kindness. He moved back to the USA about two weeks later, and I just saw him and his partner a couple of years ago, but have fond memories of that first time.


    I used to teach English as a second language and have heard through the grapevine that Taiwan has a particularly good gay expat scene (and local gay scene for that matter). I considered teaching there, and some of the language schools there actually promoted themselves as a gay friendly place to teach English.
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    Mar 03, 2015 1:02 AM GMT
    I was 17. I made a trip to Minneapolis with a friend from high school. We came out to each other on the drive there. That was actually the good part. I didn't really know any who was gay and my age at the time. That night, I had my first kiss with him. (He is, to this day, the worst kisser I've come across.) We also attempted sex, but we had no really chemistry in bed. That didn't stop us from trying to hook up on a few later dates. Fortunately, my sex life has been great in the years since. For those of you who are still virgins out there, you're first time might not be great. It takes a while to figure out who you are and who you'll like to be with.