REBELATHEART saidIn a recent thread i read that this dude feels like "the guy" in some relationships and in some others relationships he feels like "the girl". Do you ever feel like the so called "guy" or "girl" in a relationship? In other words are you the bottom or the top..
Why would you associate a bottom being the girl in the relationship?
This is what ignorant straight people ask to us to find out who is more submissive(meaning feminine, weaker, less of a man) in the partnership.
To me it sounds slightly mysoginist to place the woman as the weaker sex, and so for a bottom to identify himself as such is quite demeaning, why emasculate yourself?
If anything it takes a real MAN to take it up the ass.
What if both partners are versatile, then what?