CHEATING! Anyone else with Zero 0 Record of cheating???

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    Dec 22, 2010 7:02 PM GMT
    since cheating is always going to be an issue among gay men, i wonder who amongst have never ever cheated in their relationship. thus, a zero history of cheating even though he may have been cheated on.

    I for the record am clean of it. It's one thing that I can be truly be proud of myself as I went through all the phases and relationships.

    Definition: Cheating, commonly defined as betrayal of ones trust in any act that constitutes the opposite of fidelity. Simply put, anything that breaks trust, loyalty, commitment, and hiding behind closed doors.

    Other gestures may not be considered cheating such as winking, dancing, tapping, etc. but may precipitate to eventually lead to cheating

    If your definition is blurred, then cheating is relative to individual self and not to relationships.
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    Dec 22, 2010 8:27 PM GMT
    *raises hand*

    Im 0 for 3; never once cheated, never even thought about it, but have been cheated ON repeatedly.

    Hell, one BF even cheated on me with my ex, as "payback". icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 22, 2010 8:32 PM GMT
    Zero for me..Never cheated
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    Dec 22, 2010 10:46 PM GMT
    ^bump
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    Dec 22, 2010 10:48 PM GMT
    Never have cheated, but have been cheated on...
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Dec 22, 2010 10:48 PM GMT
    Never cheated on girlfriends - never had a boyfriend - I am committed to monogamy
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    Dec 22, 2010 10:50 PM GMT
    I have never cheated. Hooray for me!
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    Dec 22, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    Never have cheated either. Propositioned plenty on Grindr and the like, but never acted on it. I love my man. Four years and counting.
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Dec 22, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    I've never cheated
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    Dec 22, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    I have not cheated. Heck, I can't even seem to date more than one person at a time, let alone be in a relationship and try to get it on with someone else. I'm not open relationship material.
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    Dec 22, 2010 10:54 PM GMT

    0 for 0
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    Dec 22, 2010 10:56 PM GMT
    0 for 1. Not as impressive, but still the same percent.
  • DCEric

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    Dec 22, 2010 10:57 PM GMT
    I've never cheated, but I was once cheated on. By a girl. Seriously.
  • masculumpedes

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    Dec 22, 2010 10:59 PM GMT
    Is it considered cheating if you only danced with him in a club with a zillion other gay guys around? 106.gif
  • Twenty_Someth...

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    Dec 22, 2010 11:01 PM GMT
    never have, never will.icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:02 PM GMT
    Never cheated either, admire the scenery for sure but I'd always tell the guy I was with first if I was seriously thinking about getting with another guy.

    Fact: I've never met a guy in a gay club that I'd actually want to sleep with, helps me vastly to keep it in my trousers.
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    0 for 4. Been cheated on once.
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:06 PM GMT
    How can one cheat, when one was born a male and we are just wired that way. so No cheating here either.
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:07 PM GMT
    Define cheating for me. Going out and hooking up with someone other than your husband? What if you're not married? Does a partner count? Boyfriend? Guy you're dating? Jacking off thinking of a hot guy from RJ? Watching guys jo on video when your partner's not around? Is it only physical hook ups?
    Or is it also the mere thought or wishing about the guy working out at the gym going commando in those loose shorts. How about the guy in the shower you watched while he was naked? Is that cheating?

    I think anyone who says they've never cheated is being a little self righteous. We all have our moment of weakness, it's just how we display that weakness that determines whether we can feel good about ourselves or guilty by what we've thought, done or gotten caught at!
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:09 PM GMT
    Nice to see so many in their 20s are being so faithful. Love to ask this question of them in another 20 years and see what percentage fall off the wagon.
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:17 PM GMT
    I was in a 4 year relationship and never cheated!!!
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:18 PM GMT
    eb925guy said

    I think anyone who says they've never cheated is being a little self righteous. We all have our moment of weakness, it's just how we display that weakness that determines whether we can feel good about ourselves or guilty by what we've thought, done or gotten caught at!


    Is it self righteous if it is simply a fact of information? Your response seems defensive. I'm not judging here.

    Some may judge those who have cheated (as I define as doing something sexual with another person without an agreement with your boyfriend, husband, wife, partner etc.) but i think it is also important to understand the circumstances in which it occurred.

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    Dec 22, 2010 11:18 PM GMT
    I have never cheated and have no tolerance for cheating... If i'm with someone then I'm only with them, and i expect the same in return...also, If someone does cheat on me, then there is no going back and they did it knowing they were destroying our relationship, I refuse to take back a cheater regardless of the circumstances....
    what is funny is how many people I have been with, then found out that they were dating someone else....of course I break it off as soon as I find out
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    Dec 22, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    Never Cheated.....my score: 0 (I've even had dreams where hot guys have come onto me and I've told them to back off because I'm taken and could never cheat on my boyfriend. I love him and would never do anything to hurt him)

    Totally been cheated on icon_sad.gif

    me now: SINGLE! FREE! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 1:48 AM GMT
    cheating, commonly defined as betrayal of ones trust in any act that constitutes the opposite of fidelity. If your definition is blurred, then cheating is relative to individual self and not to relationships.