hot listin

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    Dec 23, 2010 5:47 PM GMT
    just wondering...
    so if someone hotlists you, do you hot list them back out of courtesy?
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    Dec 23, 2010 5:53 PM GMT
    up to you. to me it's a nice nod from someone, who says they appreciate you. I don't keep a hot list but have to admit, it never hurts my self esteem to get on someone elses.....like this morning.....Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Dec 23, 2010 7:48 PM GMT
    Nope being that just because they think you're hot doesn't mean that you think the same about them. And I've only hot listed one guy ever so the list will most likely not get added on unless I find someone else who is worthy icon_razz.gif.
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    Dec 23, 2010 11:46 PM GMT
    I hardly ever hotlist anyone anyway, so no.
    My hand is usually too busy to click. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:41 AM GMT
    lol I dont hotlist anyone!!! no hurt feeling that way icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    For some reason I feel like a creepster if I hotlist someone=0 It just seems weird to me.icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:54 AM GMT
    Nah, unless they are hot. But honestly I don't hot list people anymore anyways. I did for a handful of people when I first joined the sight, but haven't since.
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:54 AM GMT
    Use your best judgement and kindness. If a guy unlocks his pics for you and you think he's hot then.... reciprociate...
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:57 AM GMT
    SweetKyd saidFor some reason I feel like a creepster if I hotlist someone=0 It just seems weird to me.icon_confused.gif



    hahaha same, i feel dirty and nasty! Like im like a stalker on the corner or something....
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:58 AM GMT
    A_1991 said
    SweetKyd saidFor some reason I feel like a creepster if I hotlist someone=0 It just seems weird to me.icon_confused.gif



    hahaha same, i feel dirty and nasty! Like im like a stalker on the corner or something....


    EXACTLY!!!!=D
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    Jan 02, 2011 6:00 AM GMT
    Nope.
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    Jan 02, 2011 6:02 AM GMT
    Another moral dilemma that old guys don't have to worry about.
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    Jan 02, 2011 6:04 AM GMT
    Majority of the time, I reply back and say thank you.. but if they come on in a really sexual way, i just ignore it lol

    I don't hot list people, but after chatting with them for a while, I add them as a buddy after I ask them for their permission.
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    Jan 02, 2011 6:04 AM GMT
    prime02 saidMajority of the time, I reply back and say thank you.. but if they come on in a really sexual way, i just ignore it lol

    I don't hot list people, but after chatting with them for a while, I add them as a buddy after I ask them for their permission.


    Im the same way!!=D
  • mynyun

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    Jan 02, 2011 6:12 AM GMT
    navi_saiyan saidNope being that just because they think you're hot doesn't mean that you think the same about them. And I've only hot listed one guy ever so the list will most likely not get added on unless I find someone else who is worthy icon_razz.gif.


    I feel the same. Now I try to thank them though. I find it a compliment.
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    Jan 10, 2011 8:50 AM GMT
    i just send them a quick thank you with a bigicon_biggrin.gif hey wait a minute, lol, i hot listed you lol,