Your First Crush On A Guy

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    Dec 23, 2010 6:11 PM GMT
    I just posted to a thread about first crushes on TV & movie stars. But what about first crushes on real guys in our lives? I'm sure this topic must have appeared before, but this is the age of recycling, after all... icon_wink.gif

    My own very first would be at boys summer camp for 3 years running in the late 1950s, on each of my camp counselors. A college-age guy living in each 15-boy cabin, I'd see him all day long, at times naked with us while changing clothes in our cabin, or when swimming. A virile, hunky young man in his prime, a father figure to us boys, and frequently naked to boot. Irresistible!

    The other was my boys prep school freshman English teacher and advisor. Only mid-20s when I was 14, and absolutely drop-dead gorgeous, like a fashion model. I took countless photographs of him to treasure, I had just gotten into photography back then.

    Saw him naked, too, again while swimming. During the time our class took a field trip to swim at another boys school, back in 1963 when boys & men swam without suits in most indoor pools for males only. OMG!!! Fighting a stiffie was at times a losing battle, even from looking at my naked classmates. icon_redface.gif

    So who was your first real-world crush?
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    Dec 24, 2010 10:23 AM GMT
    My first crush was on a guy in the fourth grade, real cute I thought and well was athletic and such. Saw him playing basketball at school and I was like OMG. There were times I just watched him play, we went to school from Elementary all the way to college. He graduated a while back, but we're myspace friends so that's good. He knows I'm gay and well doesn't know I had a crush on him I should really try talking to him more though.
  • KepaArg

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    Dec 24, 2010 10:39 AM GMT
    the first guy I can remember having a crush on was a boy in kindergarden. i wanted to be friends with him because he was cute
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    Dec 24, 2010 10:40 AM GMT
    the boy that sat next to me in third class (thats the age group of 8 years old, in the Dutch system).. but I didnt know it was a "crush".. i didnt hear about that till later
  • bad_wolf

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    Dec 24, 2010 10:53 AM GMT
    From secondary school, Craig Little, he was heavy into football and sports. In the changing rooms for P.E. you could already see well defined abs and pecs. Had a strong face, jaw line and cheekbones, cheeky smile and well maintained hair.
    I blame him.
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    Dec 24, 2010 11:07 AM GMT
    When I was about 6 or 7, my mum signed me up for swimming lessons at the community centre. My swimming instructor was probably in his 20s, he had the perfect bod, and a sense of humour and charisma that made him REALLY attractive. I remember, one day, everyone went to go change right away after swim class, except for me. I stayed behind for like.. 10 minutes. I didn't like changing in front of everyone back then, so I would wait it out a bit before I left. I thought I had the change room to myself, then my dropdead gorgeous swimming instructor walked in. He smiled at me, said "hey buddy", and i'm just like "...hi". He then stripped out of his wetsuit(with his dick just HANGING there), and I couldn't help but stare. I'm pretty sure he noticed me checking him out. When I realized that I was probably being a little too obvious, I finished changing as quick as I could and ran back out to my mum. I was thinking about that guy for WEEKS after my swimming lessons ended. icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 24, 2010 11:18 AM GMT
    My first crush was when i was in 5th grade. One day after school a classmate held my hand and walked me to the bus stop for some reason I don't remember. But it was the 200 meters walk i would never forget. icon_smile.gif I still remember his smile and voice, so cute. But don't remember what we talked about though. At that point i realized i am attracted to boys. He was very athletic and one of the fastest runners in my school. Then we became best friends. I used to wait for him for over an hour after school just in order to walk home with him for 15 minutes. (so silly, i know.)

    I remembered on his 11th birthday, he invited many friends to his party. But I am the only boy he invited, which made me feel so special. I kissed him on the cheek when we went to the game room alone. Then later that year we both joined in the choir team of our school (Actually it was more like I joined in the team because of him in order to hang out with him more.) In the team he made friends with another boy. When he asked the other boy to buy some snacks at the convenient store together, i almost cried my heart out. icon_sad.gif

    Then after elementary school we went to different high schools and we stopped hanging out together. icon_sad.gif

    It was more like puppy love, nothing sexual.