eyes open or closed during sex?

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    Dec 23, 2010 6:45 PM GMT
    it's a bit of a silly question i guess, but sometimes while i'm getting fucked, i find myself closing my eyes almost instinctively. and if i realize that it's closed, i'll be debating in my head whether i should open them or keep them closed lol...

    what do most of you guys do when being fucked? if you're a top, would you think it's weird if the bottom closed his eyes (or kept them open for that matter), or would you not care either way?
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    Dec 24, 2010 12:34 AM GMT
    My favorite way to F* is with the guy on his back looking up at me.
    I am VERY much into a guy's face, eyes, expression during the experience. Because if he is wincing big time with tears in his eyes then I know this isn't good ! icon_twisted.gif
    That being said, I prefer to have his eyes open. But of course the natural reflex of sometimes closing your eyes during an exciting erotic moment is fine. That can heighten the experience.
    Now, if you are all fours with him behind you--unless you are facing a mirror-he'll never know if your eyes are closed or open. icon_cool.gif

    I wouldn't worry about it too much. It's like kissing. Somtimes you close em' sometimes you open em'
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    Dec 24, 2010 12:46 AM GMT
    Depends on how tired I am, and how boring the other person is.
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    Dec 24, 2010 2:29 AM GMT
    open mostly
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    Dec 24, 2010 2:31 AM GMT
    Closed while kissing, open during everything else.

    Doesn't matter what the other guy does, as long as he enjoys himself and doesn't over think about what he's doing.
  • wellwell

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    Dec 24, 2010 2:31 AM GMT
    Open; but mostly, that's become a foggy memory (LOL).
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    Dec 24, 2010 2:56 AM GMT
    open
  • BlackBeltGuy

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    Dec 24, 2010 2:58 AM GMT
    OPEN
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    Dec 24, 2010 3:45 AM GMT
    i agree, guys....i love it when i stare into a guy's eyes while making love. if the chemistry is right there can be this incredible connection you feel throughout your whole body, it's so wonderful.
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    Dec 24, 2010 3:53 AM GMT
    Fluctuates between both
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    Dec 24, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    I like to look in the guy's eyes unless we're kissing. If I kiss, I just instinctively close my eyes for some reason. Well, at least most of the time. If I happen to open my eyes while kissing, most of the time the other guy's eyes will be closed too. But there was this one guy I dated who ALWAYS had his eyes WIDE OPEN when we kissed - every time I opened my eyes, he'd be looking right at me. It was kind of strange! icon_eek.gif But otherwise, I like to see the expression on his face and if he starts to moan and gets loud, all the better! icon_twisted.gif
  • Timbales

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    Dec 24, 2010 4:24 AM GMT
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    Dec 24, 2010 7:16 AM GMT
    I like rough sex, so my eyes are either wide open from the good drilling my ass is getting, or my eyes are "closed" while my head is buried in a pillow.
  • chilango

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    Dec 24, 2010 7:27 AM GMT
    Wide open
  • DarkSensation

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    Dec 24, 2010 7:33 AM GMT


    I'm Actually Unconscience during Sex icon_lol.gif ....so I guess Open or Close doen't really Matter icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 24, 2010 7:34 AM GMT
    OPEN. There's a lot of blue eyes boys out there icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 24, 2010 7:37 AM GMT
    Lol, open for sure!
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    Dec 26, 2010 5:23 AM GMT
    they're usually seeing stars so I'm not sure...
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    Dec 26, 2010 5:25 AM GMT
    The topics on these threads are always so intellectually stimulating.
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    Dec 26, 2010 5:28 AM GMT
    with my recent ex I usually closed my eyes and wished it was someone else icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 26, 2010 5:33 AM GMT
    Allathlete saidClosed while kissing, open during everything else.

    Doesn't matter what the other guy does, as long as he enjoys himself and doesn't over think about what he's doing.


    ^This. Only time I would close my eyes during sex is if it is THAT good and maked me eyes roll in the back of my head. But of course not the whole time.
  • commoncoll

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    Dec 26, 2010 5:40 AM GMT
    Most times they are open. I like to look at my partner. But sometimes, especially if I am near orgasm, they are closed.
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    Dec 26, 2010 6:39 AM GMT
    This is such an interesting question to me...I'd never thought about it until a guy I was dating for 6 months asked why I had my eyes closed sometimes, mostly when I bottomed.
    The answer I think is truest is that, when I bottom, I often get overcome by the intense stimulation..and focus on it by closing my eyes and just enjoying it. In fact, I find it kinda fun to be blindfolded as a bottom...just let him take control.

    When I top, I almost always have my eyes open...watching what I'm doing...the way my cock slides into his ass...and the way his body moves when I thrust...it's perfectly pornographic...sometimes he liked to have it camcordered up onto the flatscreen on the wall so he can watch himself being fucked.

    I do most of my staring in to my partner's eyes while kissing and foreplay...and especially after.