When other gay guy's start dancing around you in a club

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    Dec 24, 2010 2:42 PM GMT
    What does it mean when your in a night club (just a normal club) an your dancing, then all of a sudden gay guys start dancing around you, an try dance closer & closer to you? Cause whenever i went somewhere to dance there were no gay guys then then all of a sudden other gay guys started to dance near me.
  • rnch

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    Dec 24, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    don't sip from their drink...Gawd knows what's in it! icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 24, 2010 3:16 PM GMT
    Simple answers are that they're cruising you on the dance floor, and perhaps without any other dance partner, hope you'll dance a little with them, so they don't have to dance alone. A lot of guys at the US clubs I've gone to would do that.

    Story: when I would dance (and haven't in a few years now) the lights could trigger an epileptic seizure, especially when they strobe. So I wore sunglasses, which obviously reduced the light intensity, but also allowed me to close my eyes totally as needed, without it being obvious to others.

    One time this really weird character started dancing next to me, known for always trying to hit on guys. He was dressed in bad drag, as he often did as a club regular, but without a wig, just his regular short male haircut. I didn't notice him.

    But my partner did, who had left the dance floor to get us some drinks. When he came back he exploded, yelling at this guy if he ever came near his husband again he'd haul him outside into the parking lot and he wouldn't be coming back in one piece.

    I was astonished, had never heard him sound off like that before. Nor had anyone else in the club, the dance floor almost coming to a standstill, actually scared me, and I hoped he wouldn't think I had anything to do with this. The other guy fled to the main bar, never approached me again. My hubby understood, knew how I danced blind, and I escaped his wrath. WHEW!!!

    So my question for you, since your profile is silent, are you going to the club single or with a guy? If with a guy, do establish the protocols with him, the default mode being you usually dance with the guy who brung ya. But if you're alone, enjoy the attention, it's normal.
  • oreilly546

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    Dec 24, 2010 7:55 PM GMT
    I think he's talking about a straight club. (If I'm reading this correctly). I guess if you're in the closet it could be uncomfortable to have gay guys start dancing with you. I guess you must be setting off their gaydar somehow.
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:01 PM GMT
    It means you're really ugly and by dancing close to you, they look better by comparison. Kinda the same idea as standing next to a fat person to make yourself look thin.

    Come to think of it, maybe you're fat and they are dancing close to look thin.

    Or maybe you dance really badly, so again, they are dancing close to make their moves look better.

    But we can pretty much rule out that you smell bad. Nobody would get close to you in that case.

    Glad to help. Anytime.
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:04 PM GMT
    A song is coming to mind...evacuate the dance floor! Ha ha.

    Just keep dancing and if you're not into them move. You must be a great dancer so the guys all want to see if it will rub off on them. Or they want to rub off on you. Hee hee.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Dec 24, 2010 8:07 PM GMT
    What does it mean when anybody inches closer to you on a dancefloor? Maybe they like the way you're dancin', maybe they wanna dance with you. Was this a problem?
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:11 PM GMT
    WhatsMyName saidWhat does it mean when your in a night club (just a normal club) an your dancing, then all of a sudden gay guys start dancing around you, an try dance closer & closer to you? Cause whenever i went somewhere to dance there were no gay guys then then all of a sudden other gay guys started to dance near me.



    It means their gaydars are turned on and you are the blip on the screen.
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:12 PM GMT
    it means ur queer bait
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:13 PM GMT
    Caslon17000 saidIt means you're really ugly and by dancing close to you, they look better by comparison. Kinda the same idea as standing next to a fat person to make yourself look thin.

    Come to think of it, maybe you're fat and they are dancing close to look thin.

    Or maybe you dance really badly, so again, they are dancing close to make their moves look better.

    But we can pretty much rule out that you smell bad. Nobody would get close to you in that case.

    Glad to help. Anytime.


    Simply amazing.
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:14 PM GMT
    2nd the queer bait, n00bzilla
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:22 PM GMT
    When guys form a circle around you, its a GOOD thing!
    Youve been initiated, youre IN!
    DANCE BUKKAKE! icon_cool.gif
  • rdberg1957

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    Dec 24, 2010 8:35 PM GMT
    I reminded of a Carpenters song--"They long to be close to you."
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:42 PM GMT
    You are probably flailing around dancing to Lady Gaga and wondering why they dance around you. They can tell you are gay so they are flocking to their own kind....queerbate icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 24, 2010 8:44 PM GMT
    Voice22 saidit means ur queer bait


    this
  • monet

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    Dec 24, 2010 8:58 PM GMT
    It means you're so hot and sexy that they just want a chance to be close to you.
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    Dec 24, 2010 9:02 PM GMT
    Usually I get straight guys wanting to dance with me...
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    Dec 24, 2010 10:22 PM GMT
    It means they want to fuck your brains out.
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    Dec 25, 2010 7:58 PM GMT
    Voice22 saidit means ur queer bait



    What doya mean by 'queer bait' ? sorry if that sounds dumb lol.
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    Dec 25, 2010 8:00 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidSimple answers are that they're cruising you on the dance floor, and perhaps without any other dance partner, hope you'll dance a little with them, so they don't have to dance alone. A lot of guys at the US clubs I've gone to would do that.

    Story: when I would dance (and haven't in a few years now) the lights could trigger an epileptic seizure, especially when they strobe. So I wore sunglasses, which obviously reduced the light intensity, but also allowed me to close my eyes totally as needed, without it being obvious to others.

    One time this really weird character started dancing next to me, known for always trying to hit on guys. He was dressed in bad drag, as he often did as a club regular, but without a wig, just his regular short male haircut. I didn't notice him.

    But my partner did, who had left the dance floor to get us some drinks. When he came back he exploded, yelling at this guy if he ever came near his husband again he'd haul him outside into the parking lot and he wouldn't be coming back in one piece.

    I was astonished, had never heard him sound off like that before. Nor had anyone else in the club, the dance floor almost coming to a standstill, actually scared me, and I hoped he wouldn't think I had anything to do with this. The other guy fled to the main bar, never approached me again. My hubby understood, knew how I danced blind, and I escaped his wrath. WHEW!!!

    So my question for you, since your profile is silent, are you going to the club single or with a guy? If with a guy, do establish the protocols with him, the default mode being you usually dance with the guy who brung ya. But if you're alone, enjoy the attention, it's normal.



    I'm single. I was just having a dance with my lesbian friend haha.
  • rnch

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    Dec 25, 2010 8:01 PM GMT
    hale, i'd take it as a compliment! icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 25, 2010 8:04 PM GMT
    WhatsMyName saidWhat does it mean when your in a night club (just a normal club) an your dancing, then all of a sudden gay guys start dancing around you, an try dance closer & closer to you? Cause whenever i went somewhere to dance there were no gay guys then then all of a sudden other gay guys started to dance near me.


    It means you're a bottom.
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Dec 25, 2010 8:09 PM GMT
    I second that motion!!!....LMAO