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    Dec 25, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    So I've been dating this great guy for about two months. He's amazing. We have a great time.. anyways it's not about that.

    However, there's ONE issue that is seriously bothering me. In the manscaping department... he's lacking. He trims his pubes; however, he has hairy balls, some hair on his shaft, and an extremely hairy BUTT. I can deal w/ the balls and a little on the shaft; however, I cannot deal with the butt hair.

    It kind of grosses me out whenever I go to get him ready for sex and.. there's all that hair (just not into it).

    Ok.. to the point.
    HOW should I approach this with him. We are close and I think I am to the point to discuss this topic with him but I do not want to offend him. I just can't think of how to bring it up or what exactly to start out with.

    Any help is much appreciated... I just don't know if I can deal with it and I think we really have potential considering in two months that's the only thing I can even remotely think of that I dislike.

    Thanks,
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    Dec 25, 2010 4:03 AM GMT
    tell him, plain, simple and loving. Lovemaking is a two way street, or you could buy him a weedeater for Christmas..............Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Dec 25, 2010 4:39 AM GMT
    Tell him to shave up or ship out.
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    Dec 25, 2010 4:43 AM GMT
    You do the shave during the course if one of your sex sessions. Tell him it will be a turn on for you or whatever.

    If he won't let you shave the hair, see if he will let you braid it, at least.
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    Dec 25, 2010 5:54 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidWhat are we talking about here?


    Um- What's the difference?
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    Mate..... love him just the way he is......
    Shaving sucks anyway....
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:02 AM GMT
    Heyden saidMate..... love him just the way he is......
    Shaving sucks anyway....


    Perfect answer!
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:06 AM GMT
    A1EX said
    yourname2000 saidWhat are we talking about here?


    Um- What's the difference?


    QFT
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:08 AM GMT
    I couldn't imagine having to shave one's own ass. That's gotta fall under cruel and unusual punishment.

    Personally? I'd laugh if a guy had a problem like that.

    "Why'd you break up?" "He had a hairy ass." ...icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:11 AM GMT
    haha understandable that u dont like it...u could just say it would turn u on if he trimed a lil or say u like it smooth...if he has a big issue with it then just apologize and just say it was only a thought and u were in the mood haha....how bad is it anyway? and do u mean like his whole ass needs to be shaved? tht is asking kinda a lot haha
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:11 AM GMT
    Unless you wanna date a smooth bodied porn star, just ask him nicely to trim a bit and as a result show your appreciation for his having done so. Just be open with your thoughts and don't be so hesitant or reluctant to talk it out.
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:12 AM GMT
    Heyden saidMate..... love him just the way he is......
    Shaving sucks anyway....


    For some odd reason, I read this with an Aussie accent. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

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    Dec 25, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    My bf is way beyond shaving. See example two above. That is what makes him who he is . If you don't think your bf is hot move on.
  • ja89

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    Dec 25, 2010 6:21 AM GMT
    simple...play the turn-ons & turn-offs game. good way to know what he likes as well as him for you.
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:28 AM GMT
    I say shaved it off while he sleeps!!! and when he asks wtf happened??? you say..."a magical eradication of the amazon on your ass......you're welcome ;)"
  • coolarmydude

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    Dec 25, 2010 8:35 AM GMT
    Have him try shaved and tell him that he can feel stimulation better without the hair. I prefer my own butt trimmed as well, but it's a pain in the ass (no pun intended) to getting it done and maintaining it that way. That's where you come in. Offer the suggestion to him as mutual exploration.
  • Tankman

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    Dec 25, 2010 9:12 AM GMT
    Have you considered getting him a 'sack n crack' for crimbo icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 25, 2010 9:33 AM GMT
    jesus, wax his ass!
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    Dec 25, 2010 9:51 AM GMT
    Just tell him to shave.
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    Dec 25, 2010 9:52 AM GMT
    do it for him.. ;)
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    Dec 25, 2010 10:19 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidWhat are we talking about here?

    hairy-ass.jpg

    or

    Hairy-ass.JPG


    awesome ass...
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    Dec 25, 2010 10:38 AM GMT
    Just tell the guy it will be more sexier if he shaved his ass and that you will help him shave it. Reaching back there isn't always fun, plus you can't really see if you get it all. Do the right thing and help him icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 25, 2010 10:57 AM GMT
    Is it a turn off only if the whole butt is hairy? or is the crack/backdoor being hairy enough of a turnoff?
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    Dec 25, 2010 11:37 AM GMT
    hairy-ass.jpg

    He's Half GOAT icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 25, 2010 11:57 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidWhat are we talking about here?

    hairy-ass.jpg

    or

    Hairy-ass.JPG


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    hmmm, relatives...?!