dating someone who has a bf?

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    Dec 25, 2010 6:32 AM GMT
    hello there,

    just sharing my experience with an interesting guy i met a few weeks ago, hoping to get your thoughts.

    Mr X came and introduced himself at a bar. Much older than me, very sexy, smart and confident. Started texting each other since that night. Met again and I discovered he has a boyfriend. Mr X has the privilege to sleep with other guys to his bf's knowledge, although bf is not allowed to do so. I made it very clear that I am not interested in any 'activities' with someone who has a boyfriend.

    Mr X keeps flirting. My question is, how does his relationship structure work? Have you had a similar experience? What do you think he is trying to get out of me?

    Thank you in advance. xx
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    Dec 25, 2010 6:51 AM GMT
    probably trying to sleep with you if he can sleep with other guys. I'm guessing only on his end it's an open relationship or the other guy probably doesn't know and he's just telling you this.