DR2K saidSo I recently popped my cherry, and the first time wasn't so bad. A few hours later he tried fucking me again and the pain was unbearable.
The 2nd night this happened, he fucked me, and the first time was kind of good. Second time in the same night hurt like hell.
Is this normal?
Your anus has more nerve endings per square inch than anymore else in your body. That's for a reason: so you know to poop. Your rectum has NO nerve endings: none, notta'. Let me say that again, because you got some bad information above: your rectum has no nerve endings. It's just a tube. Your anus has more nerve endings per square inch than anywhere else in your body.
What happens is that folks get tears, or, they have hemorrhoids. If you tear yourself, it'll heal on its own, over time, or it may require surgical intervention. If you have hemorrhoids, you might bleed when you poop, or shove something up your ass, and, that's all part of the deal. Hemorrhoids are very common, and happen when your diet isn't right, you sit on the toilet, and you push. You can read all about it, and look at pictures online. Now, if you get an anal fissure (a bigger tear), it's probably going to require surgical intervention, and a while to heal. Sometimes, hemorrhoids are treated surgically with a rubber band, scalpel, or laser.
Your ass is engineered to let big things out, and keep things from coming in. The trick to sticking something large, or long LOL, into it is to relax, and not SHOVE it in. Shoving is trouble. If it hurts, stop, relax, and MAYBE go at it again, but, understand, your body has PAIN for a REASON. It's telling you NOT TO DO THAT. If you force it, you're gonna' hurt yourself. Let pain and your comfort level be your guide. Don't be an idiot.
Anal stimulation can be sexually satisfying as an object brushes past the male-G spot (your prostate). There are a variety of methods for prostate massage, and many men find the experience pleasurable. Prostate massage / bottoming can actually be good for you (like masturbation) done properly. Prostatic congestion isn't cool, and it can be relieved by a variety of methods.