Dec 29, 2010 11:17 AM GMT
I'm pretty new to this forum/site but I honestly don't know where else I could ask for some advice. I plan on coming out in a few days to my sister (who i'm really close with) however I keep getting hesitant and backing out. Does anybody have any advice? I know she won't care at all, but it's still a really big thing to do. I'm only 21 years old and most people probably have no idea so i'm freaking out. Keeping this secret has made me do some pretty outrageous things that I regret, but hopefully by coming out it will alleviate the stress on my part. I guess my biggest concern is that it'll change my relationship with the people I tell, even if they say it won't. Any advice will be greatly appreciated, i've been an emotional wreck for the past year and this was partly due to moving and other life changes i've had. How did everyone else come out? What's it like now? I know that once I do this, there won't be any turning back. :/ My parents are also fairly conservative, so telling them is basically out of the question. They prefer to be an ignorant bliss from the things I do. Thanks.