I Need All the Gays!!!

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    Dec 29, 2010 4:57 PM GMT
    Hey guys I have a question for bottoms, tops, and all in between.


    For Bottoms and Vers/Bttms:

    I am a very masculine guy that is somewhat muscular (i'd like to think) and I am really vers/bttm and I seem to attract only bottoms I was wondering if any other bottoms or vers/bttms had this problem?


    For Tops and Vers/Tops:

    What attributes would you like to see in your Bttm or Vers/Bttm guy more in terms of masculinity and muscularity?

    *Vers guys feel free to give input any and everywhere

    Thanks Guys,
    Nevin
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    Dec 29, 2010 5:13 PM GMT
    brother, I love 'em all, the ones that aren't vers, are the ones i would love to teach.....but the key is doing unto your partner as you would have him do unto you...........................................Keithicon_cool.gif
  • calibro

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    Dec 29, 2010 9:48 PM GMT
    Nspyerf8 said

    I am a very masculine guy
    Nevin


    Actually, I think that's where your problem starts. The sooner you realize masculinity is a societal construct used to perform gender, the sooner you'll stop having these "problems"
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Dec 29, 2010 9:50 PM GMT
    and unfortuneatly there are way too many bottoms out there....Like 10 to 1....LOL

    so not just you that attracts bottoms....icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 29, 2010 9:51 PM GMT
    calibro said
    Nspyerf8 said

    I am a very masculine guy
    Nevin


    Actually, I think that's where your problem starts. The sooner you realize masculinity is a societal construct used to perform gender, the sooner you'll stop having these "problems"


    icon_rolleyes.gif
  • DCEric

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    Dec 29, 2010 9:51 PM GMT
    I like bottoms that push back.
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Dec 29, 2010 9:53 PM GMT
    I been around long enough to know!!....LOL
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    Dec 29, 2010 10:01 PM GMT
    calibro said
    Nspyerf8 said

    I am a very masculine guy
    Nevin


    Actually, I think that's where your problem starts. The sooner you realize masculinity is a societal construct used to perform gender, the sooner you'll stop having these "problems"


    No i realize this 100% and will do things, wear things, etc. that make please me whether they are found in women section, men section, child section. But I would be naive if I thought every one felt the same way.

    So I was speaking in terms of people who tend to associate things with masculinity or femininity rather than just things.
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    Dec 30, 2010 12:00 AM GMT
    I'm exclusively bottom. Never had trouble finding tops. I typically only hook up with exclusive tops. Vers tops/bottoms just don't seem that great in bed to me. Love a good experienced top though.
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    Dec 30, 2010 12:02 AM GMT
    Heheh i am Vers man at least i think i am and i would love to have you just for myself icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2010 12:27 AM GMT
    Nspyerf8 saidHey guys I have a question for bottoms, tops, and all in between.


    For Bottoms and Vers/Bttms:

    I am a very masculine guy that is somewhat muscular (i'd like to think) and I am really vers/bttm and I seem to attract only bottoms I was wondering if any other bottoms or vers/bttms had this problem?


    For Tops and Vers/Tops:

    What attributes would you like to see in your Bttm or Vers/Bttm guy more in terms of masculinity and muscularity?

    *Vers guys feel free to give input any and everywhere

    Thanks Guys,
    Nevin


    I attract other bottoms, but I also attract tops. It seems like tops feel the same way, there being way more tops than bottoms.

    Fact of the matter, people want what they cant have.
  • Lozzano

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    Dec 30, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    Nspyerf8 saidHey guys I have a question for bottoms, tops, and all in between.


    For Bottoms and Vers/Bttms:

    I am a very masculine guy that is somewhat muscular (i'd like to think) and I am really vers/bttm and I seem to attract only bottoms I was wondering if any other bottoms or vers/bttms had this problem?


    For Tops and Vers/Tops:

    What attributes would you like to see in your Bttm or Vers/Bttm guy more in terms of masculinity and muscularity?

    *Vers guys feel free to give input any and everywhere

    Thanks Guys,
    Nevin


    I would love to fuck you sweety!
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    Dec 30, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    Dorothy you're not in Kansas anymore.
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    Dec 30, 2010 2:22 AM GMT
    If they won't fuck you, fuck'em.
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    Dec 30, 2010 2:33 AM GMT
    calibro said
    The sooner you realize masculinity is a societal construct used to perform gender, the sooner you'll stop having these "problems"


    Oooh Good one!
    I'm stealing this, hehe!...icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 30, 2010 3:10 AM GMT
    Quit "attracting others" and go grab what YOU like.

    Also, focus less on what you are, and search for who you are, and who you want in a person. Whose dick is up whose ass is 1% of the relationship.
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    Dec 30, 2010 5:16 AM GMT
    DCEric saidI like bottoms that push back.



    OOOHH , I felt that! Mmmmmm.... icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 30, 2010 5:24 AM GMT
    Skotlake saidQuit "attracting others" and go grab what YOU like.

    Also, focus less on what you are, and search for who you are, and who you want in a person. Whose dick is up whose ass is 1% of the relationship.


    see above
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    Dec 30, 2010 5:27 AM GMT
    Skotlake saidQuit "attracting others" and go grab what YOU like.


    +1

    I've heard a fair few bottom boys complain that they can't seem to stop giving off a 'top' vibe, so you're not the only one there. I can't offer you much more than that, though, as I have no idea what this top/bottom vibing business is.
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    Dec 30, 2010 5:28 AM GMT
    Oh... so you've BEEN to portland.

    Seriously. Make a move on a guy you want to top and let him know what you want.
  • DarkSensation

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    Dec 30, 2010 11:15 AM GMT
    That's an interesting Post you said "You seem to attract only bottoms"....well i can tell you why such Difficulties because they are about Being Stereotyped.

    1) You're a Black guy.... Just like Asian are assumed to be mostly Bottom, most Blacks are also assume to be Top especially by White Guys. A black Top can attrack Way More white bottoms than a black bottom could attract white Tops.

    So here, you are already at a Disadvantage...as a vers/bttm like you, alot of white guys in RJ who are bottoms just assume that I'm a Hung Top icon_lol.gif

    2) You're Muscular......Well of course Top muscular wants muscular Bottoms. You need to know that being Muscular has always been assumed by many Gays that you were a Top..

    Muscular Bottoms will most of the time always go for Muscular Tops only. On my observation, if a Top is Taller, Bigger, older and more endowed than you.....then it's all good for Them.....meaning their choices vary more then yours. I'm taller than most guys i've been with but they are certainly bigger than I icon_wink.gif ...then again you are short so you're all Good icon_smile.gif

    3) You are Masculine......Most guys want that. Well there's nothing i can really say about that part maybe except carry a Purse icon_lol.gif just kidding or just be yourself if you're not. icon_smile.gif

    Anway, like Skotlake said " Quit "attracting others" and go grab what YOU like. "

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    Dec 30, 2010 11:18 AM GMT
    BoulderingBum said
    Skotlake saidQuit "attracting others" and go grab what YOU like.


    +1

    I've heard a fair few bottom boys complain that they can't seem to stop giving off a 'top' vibe, so you're not the only one there. I can't offer you much more than that, though, as I have no idea what this top/bottom vibing business is.


    HAHAHAHAHA, You REALLY made me laugh out loud there from my computer R... top/bottom vibing business... ROFL!!!

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    Dec 30, 2010 5:17 PM GMT
    DarkSensation saidThat's an interesting Post you said "You seem to attract only bottoms"....well i can tell you why such Difficulties because they are about Being Stereotyped.

    1) You're a Black guy.... Just like Asian are assumed to be mostly Bottom, most Blacks are also assume to be Top especially by White Guys. A black Top can attrack Way More white bottoms than a black bottom could attract white Tops.

    So here, you are already at a Disadvantage...as a vers/bttm like you, alot of white guys in RJ who are bottoms just assume that I'm a Hung Top icon_lol.gif

    2) You're Muscular......Well of course Top muscular wants muscular Bottoms. You need to know that being Muscular has always been assumed by many Gays that you were a Top..

    Muscular Bottoms will most of the time always go for Muscular Tops only. On my observation, if a Top is Taller, Bigger, older and more endowed than you.....then it's all good for Them.....meaning their choices vary more then yours. I'm taller than most guys i've been with but they are certainly bigger than I icon_wink.gif ...then again you are short so you're all Good icon_smile.gif

    3) You are Masculine......Most guys want that. Well there's nothing i can really say about that part maybe except carry a Purse icon_lol.gif just kidding or just be yourself if you're not. icon_smile.gif

    Anway, like Skotlake said " Quit "attracting others" and go grab what YOU like. "



    Thanks and I guess I'll have to nut up and try to approach guys

    That just seems like a top thing.
    (If you comment in this part please do not preach to me about societal norms, Damn! haha)