Caguy10 saidAnd see, thats what im getting at! For example you n I: we have the same feelings about people our age only wanting hookups...amongst other things, and we're single. With so many of us looking for the same things, I'm lead to believe that out comes down to much more than our priorities, but our preferences...no? Yes?
Well for me I don't particularly have a preference, but I take that as meaning a 'type'.
Apart from that, wanting the same things is a start but as I was saying before I'd have to be friends first with someone before considering a relationship.
Location can often be a problem too.
But as for others, I can't really say. They might have a type of person in specific they are looking for, whether it's a specific personality, age, appearance etc.
So to a degree I guess it comes down to preference, I guess it depends on how picky the person is.