I came out in 2010, how did it go for you?

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    Dec 31, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    Reading another thread, and in views that we are aproaching the end of the year, I wanted to ask guys that came out this year to submit their experience in one word, hoping it will be more positive than negative, and that it will inspire others.

    here is mine:



    Fantastic!
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    Dec 31, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
    I'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.
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    Dec 31, 2010 4:45 AM GMT
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.


    what I can tell you is that one always expects the worst, good luck man, it was actually my resolution last year, so my best wishes to you
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:02 AM GMT
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.

    who are you coming out to that makes you so nervous?
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:05 AM GMT
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.
    Do it at midnight tomorrow night. I dare ya. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:07 AM GMT
    Caslon17000 said
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.

    who are you coming out to that makes you so nervous?


    Everyone, ha. Family especially.
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    2 months openly gay....liberating.......................................Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:13 AM GMT
    b1o2y3456 said
    Caslon17000 said
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.

    who are you coming out to that makes you so nervous?


    Everyone, ha. Family especially.

    how do you expect them to take it?
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:14 AM GMT
    vetteset said2 months openly gay....liberating.......................................Keithicon_cool.gif

    Except for the night you fell off the wagon. That was embarrassing.
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:22 AM GMT
    It went well.
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:22 AM GMT
    I came out in 1997. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:24 AM GMT
    Caslon17000 said
    b1o2y3456 said
    Caslon17000 said
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.

    who are you coming out to that makes you so nervous?


    Everyone, ha. Family especially.

    how do you expect them to take it?


    Not well at first, thats why I am waiting till im financially stable, ha.
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    Dec 31, 2010 5:26 AM GMT
    I never had to come out to anyone... and I am so very appreciative for that.
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    Dec 31, 2010 7:19 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidI came out in 1997. icon_cool.gif


    1998 here. you beat me. you've been gayer longer.
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    Dec 31, 2010 7:44 AM GMT
    I don't plan on coming out until I hear those words from my parents " Son, its time for you to get married! (to a girl) "
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    Dec 31, 2010 7:49 AM GMT
    2011 will be 20 years since I came out. In one word:

    Great! :-)

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    Dec 31, 2010 8:07 AM GMT
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.


    Me too buddy. But I guess I have a head start because I am out to all my closest friends. My goal in 2011 is to tell the rest of my friends (AT LEAST 10 more people icon_sad.gif ) and *gulp* the family. I am also waiting till I am completely financially independent (which is in May).

    I am most nervous to tell a couple of my guy friends and definitely my family. My family probably won't handle it well but eh, that will be their problem.
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    Dec 31, 2010 8:58 AM GMT
    Sometimes I want to go back in the closet when my mom says stuff like.....

    Re: our waiter, "do you think he's hot? He looks like a bottom though, doesnt he?"

    Re: her bf, "would you believe he cant fit a magnum? Just slipped right off. Your dad doesnt have that problem."

    "are guys better at blowjobs? Id imagine they are since you have the same parts."

    And on and on and on. This woman loves having a gay son and thinks we can gab about men and sex like girlfriends. icon_rolleyes.gif



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    Dec 31, 2010 8:59 AM GMT
    Continuity

    I guess I was lucky
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    Dec 31, 2010 9:25 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidI came out in 1997. icon_cool.gif


    I actually did too, but this year is the first year i actually openly introduced my family to guys I was dating.. it went fine, though there is still alot of fuckin drama over the fact that this is "taboo" and unaccepted and we live in a small community with heavy social control, meaning that everything I do openly becomes a source for the entire community to talk shit about my family members in addition to me... and I have to endure me being resented for that both by the community and my family, whom I am meant to bring an "honourable" reputation to...

    Fuck, I wanna slit my throat now grrrr
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    Dec 31, 2010 9:31 AM GMT
    TawlBlond saidSometimes I want to go back in the closet when my mom says stuff like.....

    Re: our waiter, "do you think he's hot? He looks like a bottom though, doesnt he?"

    Re: her bf, "would you believe he cant fit a magnum? Just slipped right off. Your dad doesnt have that problem."

    "are guys better at blowjobs? Id imagine they are since you have the same parts."

    And on and on and on. This woman loves having a gay son and thinks we can gab about men and sex like girlfriends. icon_rolleyes.gif





    lol thats kind of endearing though.. I wish my mom was a bit more anxious about it, or anyone in my universe for that matter *sigh*, you;re lucky though
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    Dec 31, 2010 9:31 AM GMT
    b1o2y3456 said
    Caslon17000 said
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    Caslon17000 said
    b1o2y3456 saidI'm aiming to do this in 2011 . . . and I am nervous as FUCK about it. Admire all the guys who have already done it.

    who are you coming out to that makes you so nervous?


    Everyone, ha. Family especially.

    how do you expect them to take it?


    Not well at first, thats why I am waiting till im financially stable, ha.

    Good plan!

    Why do you think they won't like it?
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    Dec 31, 2010 4:22 PM GMT
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    TawlBlond saidSometimes I want to go back in the closet when my mom says stuff like.....

    Re: our waiter, "do you think he's hot? He looks like a bottom though, doesnt he?"

    Re: her bf, "would you believe he cant fit a magnum? Just slipped right off. Your dad doesnt have that problem."

    "are guys better at blowjobs? Id imagine they are since you have the same parts."

    And on and on and on. This woman loves having a gay son and thinks we can gab about men and sex like girlfriends. icon_rolleyes.gif





    lol thats kind of endearing though.. I wish my mom was a bit more anxious about it, or anyone in my universe for that matter *sigh*, you;re lucky though


    I wish she'd be like that too lol but its just to recent for her I guess (2 months) lol
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    Dec 31, 2010 4:25 PM GMT
    Crantastic!
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    Dec 31, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    Relieving